Social norms determine your social value
Social norms do not determine your social value, but rather the set of subjective and intersubjective beings that contain it. That is, for the purposes of the SMV (sexual market value) Your value is determined by the offer you receive. Thus, an incel, because it is ugly, or too short, or has a certain skin color, or for many other reasons, does not have a market value, regardless of the prevailing social norms. Social norms in these respects do not and are not determined by the inherent biology of attraction and halo effect.
Doing better or worse because you don’t fit arbitrary social expectations says nothing at all about your true value as a person
The problem with this statement is asking about the origin of the value. Either the value is defined from an absolute where the human being has value for the fact of being human and therefore, has associated rights and obligations, Or from an eminently economic point of view, your value needs other people's demand for you. The truth is that personality, good manners, religious fervor or your predisposition to help others in itself has no social value, because this would require that doing good, for example, require the approval or applause of others.
Others perceiving you as better or worse does not affect your inherent value.
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Thanks for your reflection. I look forward to your replies.
