SuicideFuel "You'll always be alone, you'll never have someone – you will just need to accept this soon" (mom to me)

[MillionBashStream97]

Mmmh she tells herself I'll accept sooner or later (which she can't know for certain)

That is true. Still, it's a practical way of looking at things. Which is not common among parents. A lot of them prefer the massaged sweet hopeful answers, to make their son feel better (But won't actually help him), then the cold truth, that won't make them feel better, but will have a bigger chance of helping them, at least mentally, accepting things.

yes and thanks. I don't really want IRL friends. My mom also thinks I will make friends/acquaintances and then be content with them, and no gf, to make herself feel better (she doesn't say this but it's obvious). I wish I could

I get what you mean.
At the end of the day, the kind of love and validation a friend can give, is different then the love and validation a GF would.

Even some normies with GFs/BFs get quite sad because they have no friends.
And I know we would make fun of them for that, but is not unreasonable at all. Friends and a GF/BF are different things and fulfill different emotional and physical needs.

 

[turbosperg]

You're 26

There is still time to socialize, make friends, get a job, buy copes such as prostitutes and travel etc.

 

[Puppeter]

Exactly. My mother saw the pic of me when I was 3 and I think she felt sad that I look like a monster now. Back in pre-2008 I was chad-future boy

Do you remember seeing crazy frog in 2009

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Do you remember seeing crazy frog in 2009

yes now that you mention it

 

[TheGrayWolf]

There is still time to socialize, make friends, get a job, buy copes such as prostitutes and travel etc.

True but I have social anxiety and how can I make friends if people IRL make fun of me the minute they see me (not directly to me, but behind my back)

I just can't socialise, I can nearly go into a store or outside, bc of all the bad experiences I had to ensure.
I'm just lonely that's all, and I don't even want IRL friends. But for 99% of men your advice works but not for me but you couldn't have known that so thanks

 

[Gamblord]

this is some of the most brutal shit I've read on this forum, if real

 

[turbosperg]

True but I have social anxiety and how can I make friends if people IRL make fun of me the minute they see me (not directly to me, but behind my back)

I just can't socialise, I can nearly go into a store or outside, bc of all the bad experiences I had to ensure.
I'm just lonely that's all, and I don't even want IRL friends. But for 99% of men your advice works but not for me but you couldn't have known that so thanks

experiment with drugs

Phenibut
Loperamide
St. John's Wort
Benzos (Rx only)

Etc


Those drugs can take the edge off and allow you to socialize. Also: alcohol. Even normies use alcohol to be able to stand each other.

drugs or no drugs, you should try to "brute-force" yourself into social settings and collect failures. It's painful, as the right age to fail is 6 not 26, but if you don't go after these experiences NOW, it only gets harder and harder.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

experiment with drugs

Phenibut
Loperamide
St. John's Wort
Benzos (Rx only)

Etc


Those drugs can take the edge off and allow you to socialize. Also: alcohol. Even normies use alcohol to be able to stand each other.

 

[willystroker]

Brutal AF. But sounds like she's just being honest not trying to hurt you. I wish my mom were like that.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

this is some of the most brutal shit I've read on this forum, if real

oh it's real alight. And I have even worse examples:

"you're not the type to marry or have kids."

"you'll never have a gf."

"you'll always be alone" and similar shit

Today she found a picture of me (printed on glossy paper, old school) taken when I was like 3 (in year 2000). I was an extremely good looking child back then, you won't believe it. From age 11 onwards my looks started decreasing from a 9/10 to a 1.5/10.

So she goes like "you were such a beautiful child, do you realise that?"

Maybe that's why she has always cooked for me, still does, lets me live at home, has really wanted me to do well in school... looked after me... because she feels bad she gave birth to me, feels bad that I have a disability which impacts my looks and makes me look like a literal retard

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Brutal AF.

But sounds like she's just being honest not trying to hurt you. I wish my mom were like that.

That's the confusing part. THAT what I described in my post, is the real her. She has often said that looks are important in dating, a few days she said it's not important, "personality is much more important." She has a bad memory and always contradicts herself. Or goes like "many ugly men have girlfriends, you don't know it bc you're never outside."
Sometimes she tells me I look good, but that's her lying, she just recently told me, "no you don't look that good" when I confronted her about it.

- But truth is, I'm a 1/10, or 1.5 at most. Strangers react accordingly.

 

[LifeMaxxer]

If you go study in person now you might make some friends

Even this is a lie

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Even this is a lie

yup, indeed it is, and for me anyway. I'm very short, probably the ugliest person you've ever seen (overheard this being said several times over the past 13 years), have social anxiety and a strange voice. She's right though when she said I missed all the social experience and development of the last 10 years, including dating and making friends.
But yes, even if I go in person (last best chance to theoretically meet a woman, my chances are still ZERO. There's absolutely no reason at all a foid would want me to be her boyfriend. NONE). I'm 26

 

[LifeMaxxer]

yup, indeed it is, and for me anyway. I'm very short, probably the ugliest person you've ever seen (overheard this being said several times over the past 13 years), have social anxiety and a strange voice. She's right though when she said I missed all the social experience and development of the last 10 years, including dating and making friends.
But yes, even if I go in person (last best chance to theoretically meet a woman, my chances are still ZERO. There's absolutely no reason at all a foid would want me to be her boyfriend. NONE). I'm 26

this is why I don’t believe love exists. It’s just physical attraction and pheromones.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

this is why I don’t believe love exists. It’s just physical attraction and pheromones.

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