Incels who use terms like soyboy are deluded. Eating tofu doesn't alter one's bone structure, it doesn't give someone a recessed chin or acne scarring, it doesn't cause balding. The popular belief that trace amounts of soy cause men to become weak and unattractive is nothing more than another meme to distract people from the unfortunate reality of genetic determinism.
A Chad could consume estrogen daily and still have a perfect looking face.