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unborndegenerate

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The thing is that if you had the potential to be anything more than yourself , you`d already have identified that and started to being known for it.

Let`s take music bands into consideration , if you had the talent you`d make it in your 20s or atleast 30s . If you are a 26 year old dude who wants to start a band and you google if youre good for your age to start a band and you`ll find soy bluepilled cucks or some tranny foid saying "it`s okay to start late and that fucking dickhead started a band in his 50s " , bitch that MF isn`t average, that isn`t statistics . The statistics are early teens to start making music to succeed, to develop connections in your teenage which are easier to make in those years cuz they are fucking genuine but when you are fucking 30 , nobody cares about you and what `skills` you got unless you are related or have sort of a reference and even in that case they`d run over you for the guy they have known for a few more time than you.



If you were the bright kid in your family , you`d have already made it into some ivy league college or any top colleges and would be doing great for yourself. The reason I mentioned ivy leagues is cuz they don`t pick the tryhard kids cuz they know they`ll fail some days , they cherry pick the smartest kids that are accompanied with the right resources and upbringing ( that includes the financial status your family has). If you were the smartest kid in your school , you`d already be the king there and won`t have to end up on this forum to vent and watch other losers vent .



The reason I`m writing this post is cuz my family and friends have always thought of me as the smartest kid in every realm and they had some expectations from me which I have never really fulfilled cuz I`m not smart at all. I`m just a grownass man with adhd and some sort of autism which somehow helped me go through the early years of life easily without having to do much hardwork and now that I`m in college, I fail atleast half the subjects every term. This isn`t a fucking joke, I have seen many smart kids end up like me and even worse cuz they weren`t fucking smart. The people around them were just too dumb to make them feel like the smartest ones . It really sucks man, I can never explain this to anyone especially my family but if I tell my friends they`d either try the normie bullshit of saying not everyone is same, some start late and have it different than other bla bla FUCK YOU NORMIE or they`ll just laugh it off.
 
Some individuals were destined to be failures in all areas of life.
 
There's nothing that's more disappointing than being told that you have potential. It means that you don't have anything else worthy of praise right now.

I was similar to you, always being told that I was smart, that I was going to become someone. And I believed them. When I went to college I started meeting actually talented people... I felt like a nobody and developed an inferiority complex. And what did they do to cheer me up, these successful geniuses who had been mogging me my entire life while working half as hard?
They told me that at least I had potential.
 

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There's nothing that's more disappointing than being told that you have potential. It means that you don't have anything else worthy of praise right now.

I was similar to you, always being told that I was smart, that I was going to become someone. And I believed them. When I went to college I started meeting actually talented people... I felt like a nobody and developed an inferiority complex. And what did they do to cheer me up, these successful geniuses who had been mogging me my entire life while working half as hard?
They told me that at least I had potential.
potential gotta be the biggest lie parents or teachers tell you have, tbh most of these things are said either by your kindergarten or elementary school teachers and they themselves aren't even that smart and dumb asf. If they were smart they'd be doing something better than just reading out books to kids.
 
Never even had the chance to try to do anything, family doesn't have connections to land me a job that pays above minimum wage and can't be outsourced.
 
Honestly though it's not like talent even matters, that's just another cope, connections are everything and worth infinitely more than talent. Connections but no talent gets you a high paid position, talent but no connections means you can't even put food on the table and you get mocked for being poor.
 
Honestly though it's not like talent even matters, that's just another cope, connections are everything and worth infinitely more than talent. Connections but no talent gets you a high paid position, talent but no connections means you can't even put food on the table and you get mocked for being poor.
atleast in the west if you're talented you'd start showing signs from an early age and there would be institutions willing to get you on at any cost if you truly are talented and there would be the beginning of your networking era since you already got the talent.
 
atleast in the west if you're talented you'd start showing signs from an early age and there would be institutions willing to get you on at any cost if you truly are talented and there would be the beginning of your networking era since you already got the talent.
Nah that's just cope and lies designed to prop up the already successful and convince the masses that they actually are talented. Even getting minimum wage work requires connections. Besides talent doesn't even matter for most things in life, does Amazon scout out school PE looking for potentially "talented" warehouse workers? No, they hire any random asshole who gets a referral then work him until he's fired for underperformance or quits from the workload.
 
Nah that's just cope and lies designed to prop up the already successful and convince the masses that they actually are talented. Even getting minimum wage work requires connections. Besides talent doesn't even matter for most things in life, does Amazon scout out school PE looking for potentially "talented" warehouse workers? No, they hire any random asshole who gets a referral then work him until he's fired for underperformance or quits from the workload.
I think youre coping hard with the connections and networking BS cuz genetically gifted talents never go in vain , whether it be looks for modeling , IQ for academia , physical strength for sports and many more. You are taking it the wrong way , getting an amazon warehouse job doesn`t mean to make it in life or to peak , that`s the entire point of my post.
 
I think youre coping hard with the connections and networking BS cuz genetically gifted talents never go in vain , whether it be looks for modeling , IQ for academia , physical strength for sports and many more. You are taking it the wrong way , getting an amazon warehouse job doesn`t mean to make it in life or to peak , that`s the entire point of my post.
IQ doesn't matter and sports are worthless except for the most miniscule percentage. Networks really are the most important thing and I intentionally went with a low status position to make that point, these low paid positions have next to no value as a bargaining chip and genuine ability is required yet even there networking is rewarded over ability, the OP mentioned music and that's probably the least talent focused industry there is at least at the higher levels where it's better than being a wageslave. Why waste market space on some nobody with talent rather than the kid of someone who you can negotiate a deal with? Wagies can always be used to make something successful without having need of any one talented individual.
 
IQ doesn't matter and sports are worthless except for the most miniscule percentage. Networks really are the most important thing and I intentionally went with a low status position to make that point, these low paid positions have next to no value as a bargaining chip and genuine ability is required yet even there networking is rewarded over ability, the OP mentioned music and that's probably the least talent focused industry there is at least at the higher levels where it's better than being a wageslave. Why waste market space on some nobody with talent rather than the kid of someone who you can negotiate a deal with? Wagies can always be used to make something successful without having need of any one talented individual.
harder the mog harder the cope , I got you
 

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