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Blackpill Never get attached to anyone

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Something i’ve learned about life in general. Dont get attached to anyone even if they’re nice to you. Stop having fantasies of these people that you think are your friends and future girlfriend cuz in reality they all are gonna leave you eventually.

They probably aren’t real friends and your crush prob is just using you. Find other things to make you happy before they break you even more. Don’t think that someone wants to talk to you just cuz they’re nice.

Don’t believe it, they just want rumors is all. You’ll end up messing up and they’ll not like you anymore. Stop having unrealistic fantasies cuz you’ll have your hopes high then get super depressed cuz of the disappointment that comes after. You’re on your own. You’re no one’s friend. People you speak with will leave you after you aren’t around anymore at the job/school
 
Nobody is nice to me so, not a problem
 
See their morals, their code: it's a bad joke. Dropped at the first sign of trouble.
 
Nobody is nice to me so, not a problem
It’s better off they show that they hate you instead of being fake. They could show it by just not talking though which usually they don’t which sucks. Then they call us the quiet ones.
See their morals, their code: it's a bad joke. Dropped at the first sign of trouble.
You mean like they’ll leave you once you tell a bad joke? That’s true but they’ll never tell you til they eventually finish the grade year and never have to see you for a while
 
I got attached to some people I met on discord but they abandoned me and lied about me in the end. I'm still sad about this to this day and think about it a lot.
 
It’s better off they show that they hate you instead of being fake. They could show it by just not talking though which usually they don’t which sucks. Then they call us the quiet ones.
I literally have no social life, outside of immediate family I don't know anyone. There is nobody to speak with in the first place jfl.
 
I got attached to some people I met on discord but they abandoned me and lied about me in the end. I'm still sad about this to this day and think about it a lot.
You just gotta think of other shit my man. Think of other video games or movies Or just think of you doing random fucking shit maybe being rich or ruling the world. Dont talk to people personally on discord. Just chat on servers, therefore you wont have to deal with anyone personally.

There’s people out there who only talk cuz they got no choice or no one else. everyone in this world is sadly fucked due to social media and hollywood movies. No one is normal anymore. Friendships come and go. The reason we get so sad about it is that we never had that good experience and so we crave it a lot cuz we keep wishing for something that won’t ever happen meanwhile they don’t care cuz they have many others around. Notice how they quickly got rid of you
I literally have no social life, outside of immediate family I don't know anyone. There is nobody to speak with in the first place jfl.
Thahs how it is in this world. Mainly chads still get tons of friends throughout there lives meanwhile normies keep like maybe 1-3 friends throughout there life and then there’s incels like us who actually get nothing. At best we got like acquaintances but not actual friends who care enough about us
 
Thahs how it is in this world. Mainly chads still get tons of friends throughout there lives meanwhile normies keep like maybe 1-3 friends throughout there life and then there’s incels like us who actually get nothing. At best we got like acquaintances but not actual friends who care enough about us
Yeah no shit
 
Something i’ve learned about life in general. Dont get attached to anyone even if they’re nice to you. Stop having fantasies of these people that you think are your friends and future girlfriend cuz in reality they all are gonna leave you eventually.

They probably aren’t real friends and your crush prob is just using you. Find other things to make you happy before they break you even more. Don’t think that someone wants to talk to you just cuz they’re nice.

Don’t believe it, they just want rumors is all. You’ll end up messing up and they’ll not like you anymore. Stop having unrealistic fantasies cuz you’ll have your hopes high then get super depressed cuz of the disappointment that comes after. You’re on your own. You’re no one’s friend. People you speak with will leave you after you aren’t around anymore at the job/school
Based. Because this, I just live alone and I ignore anyone. I never had friends before, only fake people in my life. But for my luck, I don't like to help people and I'm egoist.
 
You just gotta think of other shit my man. Think of other video games or movies Or just think of you doing random fucking shit maybe being rich or ruling the world. Dont talk to people personally on discord. Just chat on servers, therefore you wont have to deal with anyone personally.

There’s people out there who only talk cuz they got no choice or no one else. everyone in this world is sadly fucked due to social media and hollywood movies. No one is normal anymore. Friendships come and go. The reason we get so sad about it is that we never had that good experience and so we crave it a lot cuz we keep wishing for something that won’t ever happen
this is good advice thank you bro
 
Based. Because this, I just live alone and I ignore anyone. I never had friends before, only fake people in my life. But for my luck, I don't like to help people and I'm egoist.
That’s honestly what i’m starting to do. I’m done being some people pleaser. No one actually cares for us. They only pity us or do nice things to get something like attention and reducing boredom. Have you had acquaintances before atleast? That’s all i ever had ever since middle school
 
That’s honestly what i’m starting to do. I’m done being some people pleaser. No one actually cares for us. They only pity us or do nice things to get something like attention and reducing boredom. Have you had acquaintances before atleast? That’s all i ever had ever since middle school
Yes and they are fake people.
 
Meh im passed being sad, you get used to it
How long did it take for you to get over it. For me it started right after i finished high school I realized how majority are just fake. It’s been a long while now and still depressing honestly how the world works
Yes and they are fake people.
No one is a genuine friend unless they’re interested in having your contacts and hanging out and trying to be around you
 
I learnt that a while ago and I've given up on trying to form bonds with others since it never ends well.
 
Learned the hard way in my youth.
 
Nah, I need shit to help push me over the edge to ER
 
I felt really used before and it left me devastated. Most people these days are self serving assholes, plain and simple.
 
I know that's why I only talk to drug dealers now at least we both understand we are using each other
 
Something i’ve learned about life in general. Dont get attached to anyone even if they’re nice to you. Stop having fantasies of these people that you think are your friends and future girlfriend cuz in reality they all are gonna leave you eventually.

They probably aren’t real friends and your crush prob is just using you. Find other things to make you happy before they break you even more. Don’t think that someone wants to talk to you just cuz they’re nice.

Don’t believe it, they just want rumors is all. You’ll end up messing up and they’ll not like you anymore. Stop having unrealistic fantasies cuz you’ll have your hopes high then get super depressed cuz of the disappointment that comes after. You’re on your own. You’re no one’s friend. People you speak with will leave you after you aren’t around anymore at the job/school
Fucking brutal bp
 
True unfortunately since I’ve been neeting for awhile without any social interaction I constantly dream of my oneitis
 
Attachments make you weak and mentally vulnerable. Blackpilled for life. I'm more than happy to die alone now. Acceptance is brutally liberating.
 
Dont even see the point in forming relationships it all results in failure
 
Does being an alcoholic numb your emotions?
Sometimes, other times it can amplify the bad feelings and thoughts, so you keep drinking more to try and suppress it, and then the cycle continues.
 

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