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Oh why don’t you go take dancing lessons? Maybe you’ll meet a nice girl and you can dance together
Why don’t you go to the library? Find a nice smart girl and you can talk about books
Why don’t you go to a festival with some friends? Meet new people, maybe your friends can introduce you to some girls
To a red pilled incel, this shit is amazing, it feels and sounds like a worthwhile solution to his perpetual loneliness and rejection by women. Heck, even at university, the whole GO AND MEET PEOPLE AT CLUBS AND SOCIETIES, have fun, enjoy yourself! And a girl will come along! Sounds fucking amazing, as if it could be true
But then you go out and actually do these things. Not just once, but many times, each time thinking, “surely, this time it will be different. SOME girl will eventually like me, right?”
So you take dancing lessons. If you’re lucky they’ll do the all boys and girls dance with each other thing and you get to hold all the pretty girls. Then you notice how feebly they hold your hands. They avoid eye contact. They’re awkwardly fake smiling not to draw attention to themselves, how uncomfortable they are with you touching them practicing couples dance moves together. When it’s time to switch partners, they IMMEDIATELY move away from you with relief that you touching them is finally over.
Every single girl in the class behaves the same towards you
Then you go to the library. Generally not a place for really attractive foids to go through, but hey this time you’re lucky and you spot a decent looking young girl you’re attracted to.
You approach for conversation. Those same eyes, cold and calculating, uncomfortable that you approached them. The eyes of disappointment that you’re not an attractive man. Any responses she gives are monosyllabic. No eye contact. She is intensely conveying with every fiber of her non verbal being that she wants you fuck off and leave her alone. If you’re an autist you might even ask for her number at this point, at which she will definitely leave, and say she has a boyfriend. You pushed her too far.
You try the festival. You get the one, possibly even two friends/acquaintances/people remotely your age who may be interested in a festival. All girls have partners. Nobody is looking st you, nobody is interested in you, and you are all but invisible to the women around you. You are worth nothing. Any approaches are met with polite monosyllabic responses. There was never going to be anything happening. Ever.
So you get home after all these things you’ve tried. Going out into the greater world and meeting people, doing things that people do, and you wonder.... was that at all worth it? The experience was not at all how I was told it would be. I didn’t meet new people, I didn’t have fun in a group while chatting with a girl I may take interest in, and I certainly wasn’t shown any romantic interest from any girl.
You wonder
Is this worth it? Am I really having a good time at all?
Why don’t you go to the library? Find a nice smart girl and you can talk about books
Why don’t you go to a festival with some friends? Meet new people, maybe your friends can introduce you to some girls
To a red pilled incel, this shit is amazing, it feels and sounds like a worthwhile solution to his perpetual loneliness and rejection by women. Heck, even at university, the whole GO AND MEET PEOPLE AT CLUBS AND SOCIETIES, have fun, enjoy yourself! And a girl will come along! Sounds fucking amazing, as if it could be true
But then you go out and actually do these things. Not just once, but many times, each time thinking, “surely, this time it will be different. SOME girl will eventually like me, right?”
So you take dancing lessons. If you’re lucky they’ll do the all boys and girls dance with each other thing and you get to hold all the pretty girls. Then you notice how feebly they hold your hands. They avoid eye contact. They’re awkwardly fake smiling not to draw attention to themselves, how uncomfortable they are with you touching them practicing couples dance moves together. When it’s time to switch partners, they IMMEDIATELY move away from you with relief that you touching them is finally over.
Every single girl in the class behaves the same towards you
Then you go to the library. Generally not a place for really attractive foids to go through, but hey this time you’re lucky and you spot a decent looking young girl you’re attracted to.
You approach for conversation. Those same eyes, cold and calculating, uncomfortable that you approached them. The eyes of disappointment that you’re not an attractive man. Any responses she gives are monosyllabic. No eye contact. She is intensely conveying with every fiber of her non verbal being that she wants you fuck off and leave her alone. If you’re an autist you might even ask for her number at this point, at which she will definitely leave, and say she has a boyfriend. You pushed her too far.
You try the festival. You get the one, possibly even two friends/acquaintances/people remotely your age who may be interested in a festival. All girls have partners. Nobody is looking st you, nobody is interested in you, and you are all but invisible to the women around you. You are worth nothing. Any approaches are met with polite monosyllabic responses. There was never going to be anything happening. Ever.
So you get home after all these things you’ve tried. Going out into the greater world and meeting people, doing things that people do, and you wonder.... was that at all worth it? The experience was not at all how I was told it would be. I didn’t meet new people, I didn’t have fun in a group while chatting with a girl I may take interest in, and I certainly wasn’t shown any romantic interest from any girl.
You wonder
Is this worth it? Am I really having a good time at all?
