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You know what I really hate about life?

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Name is Abdu, live in Laos, born on 24.08.1992.
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Everything is so open-ended and complicated, nothing is ever clear and straightforward or simple.

You do something, there's so many consequences and risks, you don't do something, there's so many consequences and risks. You want to do something, there's a thousand alternatives, each shittier than the next, with no way of knowing which one is shittier until you actually step in the shit and you're stuck in shit.
 
You know what I Hate about life?

Existing.
 
Are you me OP? Thinking about that since I was 8 years old, there is no simple linear way
 
Everything is so open-ended and complicated, nothing is ever clear and straightforward or simple.

You do something, there's so many consequences and risks, you don't do something, there's so many consequences and risks. You want to do something, there's a thousand alternatives, each shittier than the next, with no way of knowing which one is shittier until you actually step in the shit and you're stuck in shit.
 
Give less fucks
 
Do you have examples ? I can relate in a way.
 
Do you have examples ? I can relate in a way.
It's everything, really. Do you want to make money? Thousands of options, but when you really look at it, there aren't really any options. Either shit jobs that pay way too little for working you way too much in something you hate to do, which are available everywhere, or the alternatives, which are way too many to count, but when you boil them down, they don't actually exist. Every alternative is shit, with thousands of requirements and caveats that are not even told to you plainly, you have to research thoroughly. Even learning things is god damn difficult. Maybe you want to learn some programming and make money, like I tried. Well, get ready for hours and hours of research, asking questions online to find out what's best to study, where's the money making - only to be discouraged by the realization that programming is indeed a good way to make money - but not for me, cause I happen to live in this god damn country where wages are small and nothing ever gets done, and apparently even working online from this god damn place means most hiring or freelancing opportunities are not available, or that you'll get paid shit.

It's just a rant of mine, it might not have made great sense, but I'm very tired and too beaten down by life at this point to make any sense anymore.
 
It's everything, really. Do you want to make money? Thousands of options, but when you really look at it, there aren't really any options. Either shit jobs that pay way too little for working you way too much in something you hate to do, which are available everywhere, or the alternatives, which are way too many to count, but when you boil them down, they don't actually exist. Every alternative is shit, with thousands of requirements and caveats that are not even told to you plainly, you have to research thoroughly. Even learning things is god damn difficult. Maybe you want to learn some programming and make money, like I tried. Well, get ready for hours and hours of research, asking questions online to find out what's best to study, where's the money making - only to be discouraged by the realization that programming is indeed a good way to make money - but not for me, cause I happen to live in this god damn country where wages are small and nothing ever gets done, and apparently even working online from this god damn place means most hiring or freelancing opportunities are not available, or that you'll get paid shit.

It's just a rant of mine, it might not have made great sense, but I'm very tired and too beaten down by life at this point to make any sense anymore.
It's the same in my country, even if wages are higher (life in general is also more expensive, so it's not like normal people are getting super rich). Nobody really helps you to know where are the good things, people are just running the rat race, even people who are literally paid to inform other people of "opportunities".

For instance I learned how to avoid business school enthusiasts like the plague, most of those are obvious scams where you pay 20k a year for literally nothing in return, except dreams of a successful career that doesn't even exist. What's the point in working in a huge international company if you do it for $0 during endless (((((work experience placements))))).

I know Stacies from high school who are doing that. JFL at their life, they only survive thanks to their dad paycheck. But hey, they "work" (for $0) doing some bullshit job in marketing for some shitty luxury company, so it's "the dream".
 
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I tend to think that we're just painfully self aware.
Yeah I feel like we’re actually more socially intelligent in some subtle ways.

Maybe that’s just cope.
 
Yeah I feel like we’re actually more socially intelligent in some subtle ways.

Maybe that’s just cope.
No, I think it's a valid point. I think the irony of the whole situation is that we're too aware, we lack the ability to switch off in social situations because we're overly conscious of the world around us.
 
Yeah I feel like we’re actually more socially intelligent in some subtle ways.

Maybe that’s just cope.

No, this is galactic IQ, not cope.

NT:s are social troglodytes because they don't use their cognition for that. NT:s use their "feels", which is why everything is kekked.
 
You might just be an aspie bro.
Google: Asperger syndrome (AS),
also known as Asperger's, is a developmental disorder characterized by significant difficulties in social interaction and nonverbal communication, along with restricted and repetitive patterns of behavior and interests.
Shit, after reading the definition, this actually describes me very well. After all, I was always friendless and isolated, and all I did since I got a computer at like age 9 was to just sit in front of it as much as possible, since like ~13 it was 100% of my free time. I still do it when I'm not working, watching the same sitcoms over and over and playing the same games.

Holy shit I might be an actual aspie.
 
Everything is so open-ended and complicated, nothing is ever clear and straightforward or simple.

You do something, there's so many consequences and risks, you don't do something, there's so many consequences and risks. You want to do something, there's a thousand alternatives, each shittier than the next, with no way of knowing which one is shittier until you actually step in the shit and you're stuck in shit.
Life is a scam if you arent foid or Chad.
 
Asperger syndrome (AS), also known as Asperger's, is a developmental disorder characterized by significant difficulties in social interaction and nonverbal communication, along with restricted and repetitive patterns of behavior and interests.

Shit, after reading the definition, this actually describes me very well. After all, I was always friendless and isolated, and all I did since I got a computer at like age 9 was to just sit in front of it as much as possible, since like ~13 it was 100% of my free time. I still do it when I'm not working, watching the same sitcoms over and over and playing the same games.

Holy shit I might be an actual aspie.
You never thought about going to see a doctor and getting diagnosed or whatever?

I was diagnosed when I was 6.
 
You never thought about going to see a doctor and getting diagnosed or whatever?

I was diagnosed when I was 6.
Well, I live in a very conservative (and poor) country, being diagnosed with a mental disorder would be an absolute catastrophe and would mean that I would have had to go to special (for retards) school.

Most parents don't want to put their children through that, and I was getting good grades in a good school, of course they wouldn't put this stigma on me.

I do have a bachelor's degree in psychology, and I did know I have some mental disorders, but I really didn't want to delve too deep into what's wrong with me, cause there's a lot of things, so I didn't look into aspergers. I was thinking more like schizoid or avoidant. More likely avoidant personality disorder.
 
Normies have to make everything so complicated and unclear. So many retarded unwritten rules. Fucking normfilth. They do all this to filter out non-NT subhumans.
I'm convinced you can't actually earn good money unless you're NT and have a social circle. It'll be very hard for me to find any job because of my autism and other problems, let alone a well-paying job.
Well, I live in a very conservative (and poor) country, being diagnosed with a mental disorder would be an absolute catastrophe and would mean that I would have had to go to special (for retards) school.

Most parents don't want to put their children through that, and I was getting good grades in a good school, of course they wouldn't put this stigma on me.

I do have a bachelor's degree in psychology, and I did know I have some mental disorders, but I really didn't want to delve too deep into what's wrong with me, cause there's a lot of things, so I didn't look into aspergers. I was thinking more like schizoid or avoidant. More likely avoidant personality disorder.
Whereabouts are you? Southeastern or eastern Europe? I'm Croatian.
 
Normies have to make everything so complicated and unclear. So many retarded unwritten rules. Fucking normfilth. They do all this to filter out non-NT subhumans.
I'm convinced you can't actually earn good money unless you're NT and have a social circle. It'll be very hard for me to find any job because of my autism and other problems, let alone a well-paying job.

Whereabouts are you? Southeastern or eastern Europe? I'm Croatian.
Romania, from the more conservative and poor parts of an already shitty country.
 
Everything is so open-ended and complicated, nothing is ever clear and straightforward or simple.
Another reason to bring back patriarchy; very simple and straightforward life.
 
Just save game before you make a critical choice then
 
Life can be pretty complicated and confusing, it can lead to people fucking up pretty easily. The thing is, part of the reason we hate it so much is because, as ugly incels, we don't get passes for fucking up. Every time we fuck up and make mistakes we get shit on endlessly by people with more value. This leads us to hate ourselves for making mistakes.

When someone attractive or high value fucks up, everything is forgiven for them. So even though they might fuck up and be as confused about the same things we are, they don't have people shitting on them, and the years of negative feedback that we do, so they have no reason to care.

So there's all that and the autism celery mentioned.
 
Romania, from the more conservative and poor parts of an already shitty country.
As an advice, move to a more richer and "civilized" Western European country, and it's your right as a Member State of the Union. Then try to get autismbuxx, or any other help, which is also your right.
 
Try not to think about it too much. Causes really high inhib that most successful people don't have.
 

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