You knew you were an incel beyond all last remaining hope when...

[ugly_genius]

At what point was it signed and sealed for you beyond any last remaining doubt?

What was the event that for you just engraved that shit in stone, and you knew...
That motherfucking last straw that did it, and made you realise...

Ok no point fooling myself anymore. It's over for me...
???


Mine came quite recently, cos even up til now I had some slight faint glimmering hope against all hope that I was maybe just a "late starter" or simply desperately unlucky (which I kind of have been, but makes no difference anyway), or some other bullshit like that.

I was visiting family I hadn't seen for decades, and we had all grown up now. Them all with wives gf's,bf's, etc... talking about life experiences, bringing their kids etc... Obviously none of that over here, being the only incel cunt in the whole vicinity probably. There were quite a few people there including some others a bit younger than me (cousins friends etc... one or two actually single).

So anyways, we all are out at some bar after having being practically dragged out and unable to avoid this.

And the ENTIRE night, not only did they not say a word or even ask a question about relationships etc to me (which actually was a relief tbh...). But when that topic did inevitably come up, and they started joking saying to the other male members of our group "hey what about those chicks over there, or those girls there...what you think of her.. her... them... they they're looking at you guys, etc...".
They visibly just skipped me and did not even pose the question.

Now to be honest I didn't care that much as I am now used to this type of shit. But right there and then was when I knew beyond any fragment of a shred of a remaining doubt. Ok - this whole thing is beyond OVER for you son. The fuckin incel stamp of certified approval was dished out to me that very night... by my very own family.

Watching the chicks actually come over and sit with us and begin to flirt etc with all the rest of the single guys was the icing on the cake. Needless to say, I was one of the first to bail and "call it an early night".

Anyway, wondering what the experience that finally solidified it for the rest of you was?

 

[Deleted member 21770]

women never gave me the time of day ever in any moment of my life

 

[Incelius Savage]

Brutal story. I bet my family would do the same thing. That's why i'll never interact with them.

 

[Mecoja]

My cousins do the same treat me as an asexual preteen. They tried hooking up my brothers with some girls but never me, because they know its a lost battle.

 

[MMA_Cel]

When I MSGD a girl in my class asking about normal stuff and got blocked, made fun of and almost got reported

 

[ugly_genius]

Brutal story. I bet my family would do the same thing. That's why i'll never interact with them.

I actually do love my family a lot, they're the only people I'm close to.

But yeah man, the women - especially the younger female members of my family - they all know I'm through.

I can't tell you how embarassing it is to be sitting next to your cousin who is almost 15 years younger than you and he's telling you about his 3 kids and great job flying round the world etc with the airline he flies for. To make matters worse they all heightmog and generally lifemog me by fuckin hectares.

To any of you who think there isn't really such a thing as drawing the short straw in life. Trust me man, there fuckin well is.

Either you hit the jackpot when that genetic and geographical/situational roulette spins, or you don't. and it's kaput and kaplunk from there.

 

[Incelius Savage]

I actually do love my family a lot, they're the only people I'm close to.

But yeah man, the women - especially the younger female members of my family - they all know I'm through.

I can't tell you how embarassing it is to be sitting next to your cousin who is 15 years younger than you and he's telling you about his 3 kids and great job flying round the world etc with the airline he flies for. To make matters worse they all heightmog and generally lifemog me by fuckin hectares.

To any of you who think there isn't really such a thing as drawing the short straw in life. Trust me man, there fuckin well is. either you hit the jackpot when that genetic roulette spins, or you don't. and it's caput from there.

My family never had a "sit down" plus all my dreams were taken and crushed from me. What made you fall so hard OP?

 

[ugly_genius]

My family never had a "sit down" plus all my dreams were taken and crushed from me. What made you fall so hard OP?

I've sat n analysed it for (literally) years mate.

Sheer random chance. A lot of things all went wrong in chillingly perfect succession. Even on paper it shouldn't have ended up like this.

Maybe curses are real. I duno. either way I've grown to accept my fate. I'm well and truly hated by the universe, and fucked.

This forum is a relief and resthaven. At least for now. Just to know there's others. Even if not so bad.

 

[AutisticMonstrosity]

How old are you? And virgin?

 

[Deleted member 42691]

I actually do love my family a lot, they're the only people I'm close to.

But yeah man, the women - especially the younger female members of my family - they all know I'm through.

I can't tell you how embarassing it is to be sitting next to your cousin who is almost 15 years younger than you and he's telling you about his 3 kids and great job flying round the world etc with the airline he flies for. To make matters worse they all heightmog and generally lifemog me by fuckin hectares.

To any of you who think there isn't really such a thing as drawing the short straw in life. Trust me man, there fuckin well is.

Either you hit the jackpot when that genetic and geographical roulette spins, or you don't. and it's caput and kaplunk from there.

How old are you OP ?

And what’s your height?

 

[ugly_genius]

How old are you? And virgin?

How old are you OP ?

And what’s your height?

40 in a few months
100% KHHV,not even as much as a look at a distance from a woman my whole life (barring those of revulsion)

I'd rather not say with the height, but it's under 6, and this is short in my family, very short

and on top of all this, ethnic
, as well as non-NT

...in a white country, and with no family for thousands of miles, surrounded by people whom I know bitterly hate me already.

 

[Deleted member 42691]

40 in a few months
100% KHHV,not even as much as a look at a distance from a woman my whole life (barring those of revulsion)

I'd rather not say with the height, but it's under 6, and this is short in my family, very short

and on top of all this, ethnic
, as well as non-NT

...in a white country, and with no family for thousands of miles, surrounded by people whom I know bitterly hate me already.

Brutal OP, 40!

But why didn’t you moneymaxx, sorry but in your late twenties maximum you should have realized your place not at forty.

What did you do during your thirties?

 

[ugly_genius]

Brutal OP, 40!

But why didn’t you moneymaxx, sorry but in your late twenties maximum you should have realized your place not at forty.

What did you do during your thirties?

LDAR'd.

And you're absolutely right. that's what I even wanted to do (i.e. moneymaxx etc...). But the psychological complications from all this just got the better of me. The last 10 years were an indescribably brutal slog. That's why on nearly every second post I'm trying to encourage 30cels to moneymaxx for all its mfkn worth. And hold on to anything they can, even if it's just one thing - for dear life.

This shit knocked me down so hard and without any support for literally miles, that I just gradually went out of service completely.
A lot of subsequent health problems then came knocking on my door to gobble up the final remaining hopes/time I had left.

Even though I know I'm nothing but a POS, there was a lot of potential that just got brutally flushed down the drainage system of this cosmic casino-house called life.

But that's the

Once you realise it just is what it is. Especially after multiple confirmations.

 

[12 Years a Rotter]

Watching the chicks actually come over and sit with us and begin to flirt etc with all the rest of the single guys was the icing on the cake. Needless to say, I was one of the first to bail and "call it an early night".

this is the brutal shit i encounter that convinces me i will be a perma virgin. there's nothing worse than this

 

[Deleted member 42691]

LDAR'd.

And you're absolutely right. that's what I even wanted to do (i.e. moneymaxx etc...). But the psychological complications from all this just got the better of me. The last 10 years were an indescribably brutal slog. That's why on nearly every second post I'm trying to encourage 30cels to moneymaxx for all its mfkn worth. And hold on to anything they can, even if it's just one thing - for dear life.

This shit knocked me down so hard and without any support for literally miles, that I just gradually went out of service completely.
A lot of subsequent health problems then came knocking on my door to gobble up the final remaining hopes/time I had left.

Even though I know I'm nothing but a POS, there was a lot of potential that just got brutally flushed down the drainage system of this cosmic casino-house called life.

But that's the

Once you realise it just is what it is. Especially after multiple confirmations.

Really thanks to reinforce my view point about money , by your unfortunate situation.

I’m almost 30 , my life is exclusively dedicated to make money through Job and trading no distractions my goal is 1million