Blackpill You jump from hobby to hobby not because of autism/ADHD/etc, but because you never recieve validation

[Deleted member 2047]

Incel Trait: Constantly and unendingly trying new things. Speedrunning. the gym. Learning a language. Writing. It goes on and on

You NEVER stick with it because at the end of the day, part of being an incel is never recieving validation. You hope that focusing on something will get you noticed, but at the end of the day, being born an incel means being born to ROT

The idea that autists have "special interests" is turbocope. Normal people can stick with interests because people don't hate them. An incel is hated everywhere. Even in online spaces where your face is hidden, your lack of social tact built up from being a high school failure shines through.

Just give up. Incels have lower IQ anyway (Chad is a package deal) so you'll never be good at them.

 

[Speed]

Vanta

 

[incelerated]

Goddamn fucking based and teraIQ.
I can 100% relate and had never looked at it this way. Of course I never get validation. I just go on until I burn out then I go to next hobby or go into depression.

 

[Negroid Berber]

I do that with competitive online games because I am a competitive person and still suck at every single thing in this gay earth

 

[JayGoptri]

The implication in the title is most probably correct. It obvious that this and other "disorders" in western medicine aren't truely real in the way so called "experts" believe

 

[BrettyBoy]

My hobbies are for me, not for validation.

 

[Deleted member 3129]

For hobbies like certain competitive vidya game yes. Getting even something as pathetic as 4.5k on dota felt great. Not used to that sort of validation as I'm shit at almost everything I do.

I do that with competitive online games because I am a competitive person and still suck at every single thing in this gay earth

Brutally over for online gamingcels

 

[Negroid Berber]

Getting even something as pathetic as 4.5k on dota felt great.

brutal
I had like 3k hours in cs just to peak DMG
can't escape being a loser even on vidya

 

[Deleted member 3129]

brutal
I had like 3k hours in cs just to peak DMG
can't escape being a loser even on vidya

LOL. I had 800+ hours, brutally training my aim and 1v1 dueling and only ever got MG2, where as my chad friend played for like less than half my time and got LEM, FUUUUUUUUUCK!!!!!!!!!

 

[Negroid Berber]

where as my chad friend played for like less than half my time and got LEM, FUUUUUUUUUCK!!!!!!!!!

can relate so hard
all online "friends" I made on different videogames had 1/3 of my hours and double my ELO/Rank
most of them had girlfriends as well

 

[Deleted member 36342]

Joined Dec 9, 2017 Posts 3,224

My hobbies are for me, not for validation.

 

[Deleted member 2047]

My hobbies are for me, not for validation.

cope

 

[BrettyBoy]

cope

Not really.

 

[JayGoptri]

The implication in the title is most probably correct.

My hobbies are for me, not for validation.

Yes. Moving out of the realm of social hobbies into focusing on what one can do by themselves is the right direction. It always goes bad when social masturbation.

cope

That's okay boss. Your physical and mental copes can and should be ones you don't need other people for.

 

[BrettyBoy]

The implication in the title is most probably correct.

Yes. Moving out of the realm of social hobbies into focusing on what one can do by themselves is the right direction. It always goes bad when social masturbation.

That's okay boss. Your physical and mental copes can and should be ones you don't need other people for.

Yeah, man, you only get one life so why waste it doing shit you don’t even enjoy just for the sake of trying to gain validation?

 

[dirtykombatcel]

Vanta

 

[Deleted member 35171]

OP on a spree with god IQ thread.

You NEVER stick with it because at the end of the day, part of being an incel is never recieving validation

Imagine having family and friends, someone, literally anyone who's actually rooting for you and not constantly trying put you down or sabotage you.

 

[JayGoptri]

Yeah, man, you only get one life so why waste it doing shit you don’t even enjoy just for the sake of trying to gain validation?

Exactly.

There are many things which actually do not require the social bullshit environment which people think they need. Instead they can just focus on how to enjoy their copes alone. I now know and prefer that meeting with people socially (if and when it happens) should be mostly for serious discussion and spiritual necessity. It works best that way.