Blackpill "You gotta love yourself first before someone loves you :^)"

[Gymcelled]

This is such bullshit. How can you love yourself if no one has ever loved you in the first place? If no one has ever seen any value in you?

According to maslow's hierarchy of needs, self esteem and self actualization come AFTER love and belonging. If anything, I bet they're just a byproduct of being loved and appreciated.

And even if you "love" yourself. Guess what: other people will still have a different opinion of you. Just because you think something of yourself, doesn't mean everyone else thinks the same. And chad will still love himself, on top of having so many other things going for him that you don't have.

 

[BachusPL]

JUST LOVE YOURSELF BRO FORGET ABOUT WOMEN BRO

 

[Bane of Arthropods]

h2O = wet tbhngl

teenlovepill is brutal

 

[Deleted member 23656]

It's no different from just be confident bro.

Yeah and how do people get confident again? Delusionmaxx?

 

[Convergence]

Love (romance-wise) requires contractualism, boundaries, touch, and affection; you don't make the first two if you are alone; ergo, you can't have full love from isolation.

 

[Gymcelled]

teenlovepill is brutal

We all grow up exposed to countless forms of media that show examples of teenage love. We all assume at first that it's something we'll experience. We all love ourselves at first. But through countless rejections and disappointments over years, decades we begin to hate ourselves. Then ITcels turn around and say "see, you didn't love yourself :^)"

Love (romance-wise) requires contractualism, boundaries, touch, and affection; you don't make the first two if you are alone; ergo, you can't have full love from isolation.

100% this

 

[Animecel2D]

If you‘re the only one who loves yourself, they call you a narcissist.

 

[NearlyOver]

This is such bullshit. How can you love yourself if no one has ever loved you in the first place? If no one has ever seen any value in you?

Good looking person doesn't love themself --> "You just don't see your value! You're so hot and an obviously good person! I looooooove you!!!!"

Ugly person loves themself --> "You're so delusional. Have you looked in the mirror lately?"

It's no different from just be confident bro.

Yeah and how do people get confident again? Delusionmaxx?

 

[Codependency]

This meme really means to take care of yourself ie shower, gymmax, wear nice clothes, brush your teeth, etc, etc.

Yet it utterly forgets/leaves out the poor incels and Wizards out there that have physical/facial deformities or are damn near dwarf/midget short.

No amount of showers or weight lifting is going to help them.

The only exceptions of course being the late Vern Troyer and the still living Peter Dinklage but then again they are/were simply proof that famemaxxing works.

 

[Deleted member 15737]

I already love myself.

 

[Gymcelled]

This meme really means to take care of yourself ie shower, gymmax, wear nice clothes, brush your teeth, etc, etc.

Yet it utterly forgets/leaves out the poor incels and Wizards out there that have physical/facial deformities or are damn near dwarf/midget short.

No amount of showers or weight lifting is going to help them.

The only exceptions of course being the late Vern Troyer and the still living Peter Dinklage but then again they are/were simply proof that famemaxxing works.

They always assume we're smelly obese neckbeards. They will never admit that some people are screwed because of their genetics.

 

[Galleo]

I do love Galleo. Unfortunately, Galleo's penis can't suck itself, that's what women are for.

 

[Gymcelled]

I do love Galleo. Unfortunately, Galleo's penis can't suck itself, that's what women are for.

Just stretchmaxx bro, just flexiblemaxx

 

[Izayacel]

If you‘re the only one who loves yourself, they call you a narcissist.

solipsism is a good drug tbh , being self centered , realizing that only you matters