The hardest pill to swallow for me.
Many people using this site or know this site (yeah you IT faggot) will never experience love, instead we experience loneliness, depression, and other bad fate foid will never experience.
Some people just go to escort as they getting old. But i've seen enough post to know most people here still craving love & ltr and still have oneitis. And getting older you'll experience more loneliness and this will brutally make your mind break. You'll start to try betabuxxing some foid and coping with something like "atleast i have someone to talk" or "atleast i'm not alone". And you just become average cuck, and forgetting all edgy stuff on here and bluepilling yourself.
I rather off my self or go ER than slowly becoming cuck.
No escape.
You aren't becoming a cuck, were all raised to be potential cucks by default. Were all raised to be blue pilled, weak hearted men that can easily be manipulated by women
The men you described are choosing to remain a cucks
If you are thinking the way that you speak right now, you never stopped being a cuck to begin with lol (so you aren't "becoming" anything)
I was never the "lovey dovey" type, so all this obsession that I see incels have with the concept just seems foolish to me
How can you claim to be black pilled and yet you have not accepted that there was never such a thing, there was only physical attraction
Romantic Love = Biology (Physical Attraction - A bond that is induced by ones biological imperatives to reproduce)
Familial Love = Biology (Genetic Preservation - A bond that is induced by ones biological imperatives to ensure that members that share their genes survive)
Platonic Love (Friendship) = Biology (Survival Instincts - A bond that is induced by ones biological imperatives to survive through strength in numbers)
Humans evolved all these "emotions" and "bonds" because they increased our chances of surviving. People who were "more caring" and "more emotional" had a higher "trust score" and therefore made more allegiances/pairings. None of these things are "deep", special or "magical"
Us experiencing "empathy", "sadness" (to the point of crying, unlike any other animal), etc is the reason why we made it this far as a species, because these emotions made us bond more strongly to others, and therefore created stronger communities and partnerships
We evolved to be "team players"
ITS ALL JUST BIOLOGY
I know how it "feels" to you, but feelings don't matter, what you feel is just what your brain is using chemicals
TO MAKE YOU FEEL
At the end of the day were all being
USED by our own bodies, our own minds, to carry out its goals, were only partially in control
To me, the difference between a human and an animal, is the self awareness to realize this, accept it, and not be blindly led by your emotions and biological imperatives
Anyone who hasn't reached that state of mind to me is really no different than an animal
To not place high value on things when you know full well these "mechanisms" are all just "part of the machine" and you are being manipulated, that's what it means to be black pilled
In the same way that you
KNOW "personality matters" is BS based on biology
In the same way that you
KNOW "just be yourself" is BS based on biology
You
SHOULD KNOW that all these bonds that you are so strongly attached to
ARE ALSO BS based on biology
They don't matter, stop clinging to them and stop endlessly chasing after them your entire life
The black pill isn't some pick and choose all you can eat buffet, you either accept all of it or you are just kidding yourself, you can't have it both ways
You can't whip out evolution psychology whenever its convenient, but when it comes to an issue that is sensitive to you, all of a sudden emotions matter and stop thinking about things in terms of logic