Serious You don't want "love" or "companionship"

[subhuman]

If this was all you wanted, you would get into a relationship with a landwhale or a grandma. Which you won't. Both of these things are dependent on, determined by physical attraction and sexual appeal.

Relationship wanters are literally pavlovs dogs. Basically this guy would ring a bell when he gave his dogs food, and he did it so much that eventually they started salivating when he rung the bell. However, when he stopped doing it, the behavior wasn't reinforced and the dogs stopped salivating at the sound of the bell. In this way, people are enticed into relationships at the promise of sex. But without sex, the whole thing falls apart.

The real whitepill comes when you realize you don't actually want a gf (except as a means of getting sex and nothing else).

 

[TheProphetMuscle]

It’s gotta be the whole package. Companionship, attraction, relation, trust. All of those things that make would you wanna stay with someone. That’s not the case for everyone but a lot of people

 

[subhuman]

It’s gotta be the whole package. Companionship, attraction, relation, trust. All of those things that make would you wanna stay with someone

The problem is, I don't think these four characteristics are independent of each other. Our perception of companionship, relation, and trust is more influenced by attraction. I don't think it works the other way around. For example, nobody would think an old grandma is more attractive because you have a good relationship with her.

 

[uo89997]

Correct. A relationship is a guise for frequent and consistent sex with an attractive women. The problem is when that attractive women hits the wall and loses her sex drive.

 

[TheProphetMuscle]

The problem is, I don't think these four characteristics are independent of each other. Our perception of companionship, relation, and trust is more influenced by attraction. I don't think it works the other way around. For example, nobody would think an old grandma is more attractive because you have a good relationship with her.

Of course sexual attraction has to be there, otherwise it’s not really more than a friendship. But having love and companionship with that is what a lot of people really want. Like it would be a lot better with someone you know and like than a random one person

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

The real whitepill comes when you realize you don't actually want a gf (except as a means of getting sex and nothing else).

I am nearly at this phase.

 

[Chopin]

I just want to cuddle with a girl who isn't ugly. My standards have plummeted over the years.

 

[BaffleTrot]

The real whitepill comes when you realize you don't actually want a gf (except as a means of getting sex and nothing else).

I have nothing against escortcelling, but if sex was the only thing out there then incels could just fuck escort and the whole thing would be solved.

And yet, escortcels continue to post here and even complain about the lack of romance in their lives. I don't buy it. I think true romance is having your companionship drive and your sex drive both fulfilled by the same person, so you kind of have to have both. Hell, if I'm being honest, I think I would be down to date an asexual foid if she made it easy for me to date her. It would still be a step up from my current situation. I'm just not going to put myself out there for an asexual foid, she'd probably reject me anyways (because even asexual foids need to have their sex drive fulfilled, they just don't want the sex part) and I wouldn't be truly, fully satisfied in a relationship like that.

 

[Billowel]

without god a relationship with another women is just carnal pleasure.that's why i consider any guy here who doesn't accept landwhales and older women and black women to be fakecels.if people here were denying them for some good moral reason that they think is right,i would respect them,but considering they just don't want these women because they want some random young girl then you are a fakecel,if you are denying the above.

now a lot of incels can't date the above,but if you can and you rejected them you are a fakecel.

btw,i am not advocating for fornication.fornication is a sin.but if you are rejecting these women,you don't belong here unless you are in a very specific situation.

 

[HeroinNihilism]

sex is vital for relationships which often means you have to get your dick hard.

 

[Deleted member 25223]

Would you date an asexual person who is repulsed by the thought of sex but would give you consistent cuddles and kisses? I honestly would.

 

[Indari]

water is wet

 

[ImvisibleForgotten]

I want teenage love, I want a virgin foid who loves me in an idealized and monogamous way.
I solve sex with a prostitute, adult relationships are polyamorous/polygamous, if you manage to have a foid, she will leave you for a chad.

 

[andinocel]

Months ago, I recall an asshole from IncelTear write that we "want a Bruce Wayne lifestyle with supermodels", but that's fucking nonsense. It's more gaslighting

All I want is companionship and loyalty with a 5 and who is not disgusted by me (and to answer your question lurkers: I'm not a fat, cheeto-ingesting, basement dweller --- I take care of myself as best as my genetics allows). It would be nice if she were a virgin but that's nearly impossible nowadays.

 

[Deleted member 40252]

It’s gotta be the whole package. Companionship, attraction, relation, trust. All of those things that make would you wanna stay with someone. That’s not the case for everyone but a lot of people