Venting "You don't know what you have"

[TheGrayWolf]

My mum and sister told me this several times. I have a disability, autism, I'm short and much worse ugly, I'm 26 and if you look at me you'll see that I'm a KHHV.

So, I told my mum about my struggles so that she understands my occasional moods and annoyed outbursts.

My sister has no trouble finding chad boyfriends, and she's 22.

So when I complained to them that I act frustrated bc of my disability and that I'll be forever alone, they told me "you don't know what you have. You have food on the table and a roof over your head, you can walk and you're healthy." (I'm not fucking healthy, I'm deformed bc I'm disabled!)

That's just so unfair hearing that. So I said most people in this country have a roof over their head and food on the table, and my mum just shook her head and muttered 'no' even if she knows it's true.

Yeah, she has known since I was 15 that I'm a lost cause when it comes to getting a girlfriend, so she makes up these things so she herself can cope, she provokes annoyed reactions out of me so I react rude, she often tells me I'm "an ass" when I act out bc I think she's treating me unfair. She tells herself that so she doesn't have to feel bad that she doesn't care I will never get a girlfriend. I have those really short moments of hope, but I'm not that dumb. I have nada social skills, I'm very ugly, short, autistic, have never talked to anything above a 5 in my life, I'm insecure... FML

 

[PersonalityChad]

also jfl @ u kids.is

I'm 26

 

[TheGrayWolf]

even prisoners and shitskins in mud huts have food and shelter

my cunt mum said the same

godforbid us men want better

also jfl @ u kids.is

I know right??

Also what do u mean with last sentence ?

 

[TheGrayWolf]

I don’t get what he meant

 

[PersonalityChad]

I don’t get what he meant

He thinks you're young, probably because of this phrase

Yeah, she knows since I'm 15 that I'm a lost cause when it comes to getting a girlfriend

 

[Man]

U.S. slaves were given food, housing, education, and faith.

literacy and faith were very important hundreds of years ago.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

He thinks you're young, probably because of this phrase

Ahh ok, I get it lol. "Since I'm 15" haha. I should've written "since I was" ...

 

[TheGrayWolf]

U.S. slaves were given food, housing, education, and faith.

literacy and faith were very important hundreds of years ago.

Yeah exactly. She also tells me "you're healthy", which I'm not (and she knows it, I have a disability, but she tell herself that I'm healthy). She tells me stuff so I feel better

 

[TheGrayWolf]

even prisoners and shitskins in mud huts have food and shelter

my cunt mum said the same

godforbid us men want better

also jfl @ u kids.is

I am 26. I phrased it wrong

 

[TheGrayWolf]

point proven
kids.is

maybe but I'm a KHHV, ugly and short. So even in 10 yrs I'll never get gf

 

[felizhombre]

what is provoking this fights? when my mom starts with trouble i just become cocky or ignored her

 

[TheGrayWolf]

what is provoking this fights? when my mom starts with trouble i just become cocky or ignored her

mostly it's the other way round in my case. IWhenever I have one of my "moods" (frustrated bc no gf ever) my mum gets annoyed, tells me to "go outside" (she knows I won't bc I have social anxiety, it's just a cope, she tells me I look good bc she wants me to be able to go outside to find a job after I graduate college, she only cares about me getting a job and is worried that I'll never be able to get or hold a job). I act annoyed towards her bc she's trying to manipulate me, so that I don't want one anymore (she'd be really happy if I do get one, but she wants me to forget the idea – she didn't explicitly say this but its obvious – because she knows I'll never get one but ofc she'd be happy if I do get one, which I won't). I don't have any IRL friends as support, so I'm angry towards her even if inherited a condition from my dad that makes me short and ugly – ironic thing is, he wasn't impacted at all by the condition. he's tall and was good looking. my mom was good looking. without the disease, I'd probably be married and have a kid by now, with a Stacy girlfriend. But I have this condition, I'm 26, and a KHHV, so here we are. FML

 

[felizhombre]

mostly it's the other way round in my case. IWhenever I have one of my "moods" (frustrated bc no gf ever) my mum gets annoyed, tells me to "go outside" (she knows I won't bc I have social anxiety, it's just a cope, she tells me I look good bc she wants me to be able to go outside to find a job after I graduate college, she only cares about me getting a job and is worried that I'll never be able to get or hold a job). I act annoyed towards her bc she's trying to manipulate me, so that I don't want one anymore (she'd be really happy if I do get one, but she wants me to forget the idea – she didn't explicitly say this but its obvious – because she knows I'll never get one but ofc she'd be happy if I do get one, which I won't). I don't have any IRL friends as support, so I'm angry towards her even if inherited a condition from my dad that makes me short and ugly – ironic thing is, he wasn't impacted at all by the condition. he's tall and was good looking. my mom was good looking. without the disease, I'd probably be married and have a kid by now, with a Stacy girlfriend. But I have this condition, I'm 26, and a KHHV, so here we are. FML

how is the illness called?

 

[SeetheBot9000]

"you don't know what you have. You have food on the table and a roof over your head, you can walk and you're healthy."

God I hate this stupid fucking line. Those are NOT the requirements for happiness. That's the fucking baseline for survival. A dog has food, a roof and health, that doesn't guarantee it happiness, and that's a fucking DOG. No I don't give a shit about some starving fucking goblins in far away sand land or whatever, and them having a shittier life than me doesn't make my life any better!

 

[TheGrayWolf]

God I hate this stupid fucking line. Those are NOT the requirements for happiness. That's the fucking baseline for survival. A dog has food, a roof and health, that doesn't guarantee it happiness, and that's a fucking DOG. No I don't give a shit about some starving fucking goblins in far away sand land or whatever, and them having a shittier life than me doesn't make my life any better!

This. I agree. Your problems don't vanish into Finn air. I have a dog and a cat. My cat has a great life, she can come and go whenever she pleases, when she loudly demands food she gets some, then she sleeps 16 hours per day, the rest she's out hunting or playing with her cat-gang. Yes, she's really in a cat-gang

 

[SeetheBot9000]

This. I agree. Your problems don't vanish into Finn air. I have a dog and a cat. My cat has a great life, she can come and go whenever she pleases, when she loudly demands food she gets some, then she sleeps 16 hours per day, the rest she's out hunting or playing with her cat-gang. Yes, she's really in a cat-gang

Honestly most pets have a better life than humans. Dogs eat, shit, go on walks and sometimes fuck. Cats eat, shit, sleep for hours, explore the world and sometimes fuck. They don't have to wage slave, they don't have to grind their bodies and souls to dust just to maintain their existence and the pride of their families. Their brains are too small to experience the mental anguish of humans. Fuck man, I would rather have my cat's life than mine any day of the week. I'd rather trade places with most animals to be fair. Even the ones that have to fight for survival in the wild are at least free from the burdens of society.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Honestly most pets have a better life than humans. Dogs eat, shit, go on walks and sometimes fuck. Cats eat, shit, sleep for hours, explore the world and sometimes fuck. They don't have to wage slave, they don't have to grind their bodies and souls to dust just to maintain their existence and the pride of their families. Their brains are too small to experience the mental anguish of humans. Fuck man, I would rather have my cat's life than mine any day of the week. I'd rather trade places with most animals to be fair. Even the ones that have to fight for survival in the wild are at least free from the burdens of society.

My dog never fucked, my cat did, she's already a grandmother I've heard, she mated with my earlier teacher's cat. Yeah man, they both have a nice life, though my cat has the nicer one than my dog. But I totally agree with you, animals have nicer lives and don't have to worry about so many things (ok, some animals have really shit lives, like foxes in cages to make fur, I'd love to do the same to the humans that did it to them, I'd love to avenge the many animals that get mistreated, that would be my best cope, though I'd still want a girlfriend.,..

 

[TheGrayWolf]

how is the illness called?

It's better to read my description (you can also look it up but its a very individual disease). It's called legius syndrome, but I look even weirder, you won't have any idea of what I look like when you look it up, bc everyone looks different. better read my description.

overheard "monster" or "ugliest person I've ever seen" so many times since I'm 13 years old, from strangers and in school, but they never said it to me directly, I only overheard. Ok one tome in 8th grade, someone directly said to me "you look like a monster." now I just overhear that, for 13 years now. I'm 26, and look very feminine, even if I have above average dick, which does me no good, for obvious reasons. 50% chance of inheritance. My dad is tall and was good-looking, he only passed it on. FML, I'm so unlucky. I'm only 1.62m/5'4" tall...

I was always treated differently by strangers... once a mother pulled a kid away from me and looked at me like I was some alien... It was bc of my face. I was clean etc. and my mannerisms were fine. That was 12 years ago. Or I overheard someone say "I'd kill myself if I were him".... (this was a complete stranger).

 

[Inceldia]

foids and normies in general will never understand and aknowledge your suffering, yet alone help you as a man

God I hate this stupid fucking line. Those are NOT the requirements for happiness. That's the fucking baseline for survival. A dog has food, a roof and health, that doesn't guarantee it happiness, and that's a fucking DOG. No I don't give a shit about some starving fucking goblins in far away sand land or whatever, and them having a shittier life than me doesn't make my life any better!

I was always treated differently by strangers... once a mother pulled a kid away from me and looked at me like I was some alien... It was bc of my face. I was clean etc. and my mannerisms were fine. That was 12 years ago. Or I overheard someone say "I'd kill myself if I were him".... (this was a complete stranger).

Do you live in Germanistan?

 

[TheGrayWolf]

God I hate this stupid fucking line. Those are NOT the requirements for happiness. That's the fucking baseline for survival. A dog has food, a roof and health, that doesn't guarantee it happiness, and that's a fucking DOG. No I don't give a shit about some starving fucking goblins in far away sand land or whatever, and them having a shittier life than me doesn't make my life any better!

I forgot to add.... I'm not even healthy. I'm ugly and short bc of a disability. According to science, I'm not healthy. But she basically "others have it worse than you, so you have it good" (And I'm sure she somehow believes that, in a way, not 100%, but in a way. She says it to me so everyone feels better about themselves, yet she knows I'll never get a gf. I'm 26 and its over for me, and never began, as she knows too)

 

[darkvoice87]

Your mum and sister are bitches. If they cared about you they would find you a girlfriend - not that they'd be able to. As an alternative, they could at least sympathise with your situation and accept it. Admit that "yeah wow my life is so much more fulfilled than yours due to genetic lottery". Instead, they'll make you out to be the bad guy. In the end your mum is probably going to have the cops kick you out of the house.

You'll probably also be disowned and your sister will get everything - including her future chad husband.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Your mum and sister are bitches. If they cared about you they would find you a girlfriend - not that they'd be able to. As an alternative, they could at least sympathise with your situation and accept it. Admit that "yeah wow my life is so much more fulfilled than yours due to genetic lottery". Instead, they'll make you out to be the bad guy. In the end your mum is probably going to have the cops kick you out of the house.

You'll probably also be disowned and your sister will get everything - including her future chad husband.

- once in summer 2023, we were at a lake/my sister windsurfed, I walked the dog. People looked at me and literally said "wtf". Later we are at the outside restaurant. My mom said "now we’ll find you a girlfriend" (she didn’t really mean it.

- my parents were very good looking when they had me, my dad is 6‘2“ tall, I’m 5‘4“. But not bc of my mom. She’s 5‘1“, I should have been 5‘10“ bc I’m male. My sister is her predicted height, 5‘3“. I was a beautiful kid actually, brown hair and a promising face, but then after 12, things crashed. Puberty totally messed up my skull. Since i was 13, I overhear so many mean stuff. "Monster" or "ugliest person I’ve ever seen", skull also makes me look like a woman so people sometimes call me miss. I have a 6.3 inch dick, which is ok, but it does me no good.

Sex-escorts are legal here in Europe. So I’ll do that eventually. I’m a KHHV, 26 years old.

So I was extremely unlucky. If I were not disabled, I’d be average height and good-looking. I almost can’t get over my unluckiness. I can’t.

 

[BarrelStuffer]

Lazy argument. If all you need is food, shelter, and the ability to walk to be happy why not lock everyone inside a room by themselves forever with a couple meals per day.
Both of them constantly seeked sex and relationships, know how they raise the quality of their life, and then tell you with a straight face that you don’t need it and aren’t missing out. Your sister probably went and fucked her chad bf after telling you that

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Lazy argument. If all you need is food, shelter, and the ability to walk to be happy why not lock everyone inside a room by themselves forever with a couple meals per day.
Both of them constantly seeked sex and relationships, know how they raise the quality of their life, and then tell you with a straight face that you don’t need it and aren’t missing out. Your sister probably went and fucked her chad bf after telling you that

This. Exactly bro.

3 years earlier. My sister and her chad BF are in her room, watching tv. Suddenly the tv is very loud for a few minutes. I cringed and hated it.

2 years ago. New chad bf (my sister is good looking, I’m not bc I have disability). I’m outside with them chilling in the garden (summer). The neighbour’s small daughter is also there. Suddenly chad and sister go inside. I tell the neighbor girl to go inside and look what they’re doing (LOL hahaha), she comes back and says they’re “sleeping” hahaha LMFAO hahaha

 

[Izayacel]

- once in summer 2023, we were at a lake/my sister windsurfed, I walked the dog. People looked at me and literally said "wtf". Later we are at the outside restaurant. My mom said "now we’ll find you a girlfriend" (she didn’t really mean it.

- my parents were very good looking when they had me, my dad is 6‘2“ tall, I’m 5‘4“. But not bc of my mom. She’s 5‘1“, I should have been 5‘10“ bc I’m male. My sister is her predicted height, 5‘3“. I was a beautiful kid actually, brown hair and a promising face, but then after 12, things crashed. Puberty totally messed up my skull. Since i was 13, I overhear so many mean stuff. "Monster" or "ugliest person I’ve ever seen", skull also makes me look like a woman so people sometimes call me miss. I have a 6.3 inch dick, which is ok, but it does me no good.

Sex-escorts are legal here in Europe. So I’ll do that eventually. I’m a KHHV, 26 years old.

So I was extremely unlucky. If I were not disabled, I’d be average height and good-looking. I almost can’t get over my unluckiness. I can’t.

Your 5 1 , there was never even a begin " for you.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Your 5 1 , there was never even a begin " for you.

No man. I'm 1.62m / 5'4" dude... but more importantly, I look very weird

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Your 5 1 , there was never even a begin " for you.

my dad is 6‘2“ tall, I’m 5‘4“. But not bc of my mom. She’s 5‘1“ I should have been 5‘10“ bc I’m male.

My dick is 15.8cm, which is ok, but it won't matter for me anyways

 

[Zhou Chang-Xing]

"you don't know what you have. You have food on the table and a roof over your head, you can walk and you're healthy." (I'm not fucking healthy, I'm deformed bc I'm disabled!)

A wheelchair-bound Chad with a wifr gets love and respect and is desired by another human being, a homeless Chad can take a shower and sleep at a toilet's place tonight, and a sick dying Chad has a toilet standing by the side of his bed taking care of him.

 

[LeFrenchCel]

I know what I have: my khhv status and several undiagnosed mental illnesses

 

[Zhou Chang-Xing]

my dad is 6‘2“ tall, I’m 5‘4“. But not bc of my mom. She’s 5‘1“ I should have been 5‘10“ bc I’m male.

My dick is 15.8cm, which is ok, but it won't matter for me anyways

Suddenly I'm afraid for my kids, even though I'm taller than my father ever was. It's brutal to be the same height as your mother.

Having a sister is the most brutal Blackpill, because she has most of your genes and she can date whomever she wants.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Suddenly I'm afraid for my kids, even though I'm taller than my father ever was. It's brutal to be the same height as your mother.

Having a sister is the most brutal Blackpill, because she has most of your genes and she can date whomever she wants.

I’m 1.62m, my mom is 1.55m. Yeah, my sister has only dated chads till now. Without this disability/gene mutation id be 1.79m and probably a 7+, and I’d have dated by now. Very likely. So I was very unlucky.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Suddenly I'm afraid for my kids, even though I'm taller than my father ever was. It's brutal to be the same height as your mother.

Having a sister is the most brutal Blackpill, because she has most of your genes and she can date whomever she wants.

Also, my dad was a Chad. My mom was a “Stacy”. My sister is 7+. I’m a 2, max. I was very promising looking till the age of 11. Then after my rise, in I began to fall, in the time-span of 2 years. I was once a club that played in the Premier League and Champions League, I got relegated many times over the last years, and now play on the 6th level the semi-professional league… in the English National League South… that’s a pretty good metaphor. Once successful and wealthy (beautiful) 16 years ago now poor and forgotten (ugly and short).

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Lazy argument. If all you need is food, shelter, and the ability to walk to be happy why not lock everyone inside a room by themselves forever with a couple meals per day.
Both of them constantly seeked sex and relationships, know how they raise the quality of their life, and then tell you with a straight face that you don’t need it and aren’t missing out. Your sister probably went and fucked her chad bf after telling you that

This. She also tells me she’s “against relationships” (bc my dad cheated on her), she only says that bc she wants me to forget about getting a gf. Sure she’d be happy for me if I do, but I won’t, so she wants me to forget the idea, she wants me to be “happy”, but under any condition (loneliness too), not happy in terms of being happy when I reach my goals (getting love).

My sister only dated chads, because she could. My mom, 27 years ago, too. So yeah, I think they only half believe it (I’m not sure, maybe they just lie to themselves) and just tell me so I feel better (although they should know it’s a ridiculous argument). When I’m like most people in this country have [food and shelter] she’s like “no…”. Wtf.

She tells me to “go outside” if I want a gf and that there are no pretty women out there (she knows I have social anxiety and won’t go outside. She tells me there are no pretty women bc she knows I can never have one, even if she told me I look good- which I don’t, she’s just trying to make me feel good). Oh and if she says I look good, she’s comparing me to other men here in my country (most don’t look good). So she’s basically saying I look “ok” (which I don’t, I’m a 2). She showed me a pic of a chad and said i don’t quite look as good as him…

 

[Doomer Guy]

God I hate this stupid fucking line. Those are NOT the requirements for happiness. That's the fucking baseline for survival. A dog has food, a roof and health, that doesn't guarantee it happiness, and that's a fucking DOG. No I don't give a shit about some starving fucking goblins in far away sand land or whatever, and them having a shittier life than me doesn't make my life any better!

 

[TheGrayWolf]

God I hate this stupid fucking line. Those are NOT the requirements for happiness. That's the fucking baseline for survival. A dog has food, a roof and health, that doesn't guarantee it happiness, and that's a fucking DOG. No I don't give a shit about some starving fucking goblins in far away sand land or whatever, and them having a shittier life than me doesn't make my life any better!

By “goblins” do you mean humans or animals? (I’d hope you mean humans)

 

[TheGrayWolf]

foids and normies in general will never understand and aknowledge your suffering, yet alone help you as a man





Do you live in Germanistan?

Yup

and yup

 

[blackpillednigga]

and if I were an actual starving kid in Africa, I would be told I have it better because atleast Im not an incel in a western country

 

[ADHD_cel]

All gaslighters should fukin die

 

[Michael15651]

JFL there is always someone who has it “better.”

 

[northwesterner]

Yes, she's really in a cat-gang

Thugmaxxed

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Thugmaxxed

 

[Inceldia]

Yup

and yup

yups me

my condolences. living in Germanistan, even worse as a manlet, is beyond brutal.
I can relate