FinnCel said:
But it's your dick in her pussy so it's not gay.
With your logic, immediately after putting in your dick in, you'd be gay
That's not my logic, it's a simple fact she stops being a virgin after you fuck her once.
So instead of "fucking non-virgins is gay" it should be "fucking girls who have been fucked by other men is gay"
I would say it ties into the squeamishness we have about using a pre-used fleshlight/onahole.
That said: when I sit on a toilet-seat my ass-flesh is touching something another man's ass-flesh probably touched mere hours ago.
Somehow I get over that so I try to think of it that way that perhaps I should try to be a bit less squeamish about what my cock-flesh touches.
I mean obviously this is an area where literal toilets are much cleaner and easier-to-clean than foids because you can usually just look at a toilet seat to see if there's shit or piss or pubic hair on it, but it's harder to know if a vagina is clean because it's not in clear sight and has a bunch of ridges and folds inside to hide microscopic bateria and cum.
Plus obviously our penis-hole is a mucous membrane where germs can enter more readily than your glue-skin unless you have an open wound back there or something.