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“My (38m) long distance gf (33f) of 9 months thinks I should contribute more financially. How do we reconcile this?
TL;DR my long distance gf thinks I should contribute more to her bills and expenses even though I pay for a lot of things already
So me and my girl are long distance. She lives in the US me the UK. We’ve been having a conversation about the future and she says she feels I don’t support her enough financially. We’ve together nearly a year.
She has two kids.
I see her every couple of months. When I do go and see her I pay for everything. Meals, gas, my flights, activities etc.
When I’m back home I order her lunch and coffee and send flowers m.
I easily outweigh her in the spending.
However she feels like I don’t support her financially when it comes to helping out with her bills from time to time.
She says as she’s my girl I should be supporting her as test to see if I would integrate into her life well.
I pushed back on that because I feel she’s trying to reframe as my obliterating rather than a courtesy. She says she can’t see why when j have a little extra j can’t pay a bill from time to time. Or groceries. Nails.
I have my own saying goals and plans for my money. It doesn’t make sense to me right now at this stage to invest in a house I hardly ever see, or her groceries for her and her two kids.
When we eventually come together and work as a unit, yes I can understand that.
But right now, 9 months in and we’re still long distance. It makes no sense.”





