You aren't cucked. It's just that your parents, the media, and everyone around you sold you on a lie that on paper sounds amazing. You've probably heard wholesome stories of your parents "in love". You've probably have read a book, or watched something that showed some fantastic, deep romance that made you think, "I want that." You've seen couple after couple in public, holding hands, embracing, kissing. You've heard of and seen couples doing cute shit. It probably made you feel a little bit sick emotionally to see that. All you wanted is more than a best friend. You wanted a partner. A soulmate. Your other half.
But of course, it's all a lie. You know this. Women don't care about personality. They don't care about being a loyal, loving wife to go on adventures with you, have children and lovingly raise them. They care about looks, most. They care about getting gangbanged by tens, maybe even hundreds of Chads and the genetic elite of men. They are hypergamous. Even the least attractive women have access to men more attractive than you. And even with personality, they prefer evil, dark triad men who do not care about them. Who abuse them. They aren't all "manipulated" into abusive relationships like feminists may tell you. No, these negative emotions are the apex of masculinity. To be masculine is to be dominant, and women love to be dominated (by Chad). They not only don't like average and below men, but also men being anything other than some emotionless, stoic hardass. You must suffer in silence to be respected by her. She will not ever be a shoulder to cry on, or one to comfort you when you feel down or stressed. You have to do that for her, but good fucking luck doing that with her and not severely damaging your relationship. Being cheated on seems inevitable for guys. Oh and if you have to resort to betabux, she'll divorce you and take everything.
You were sold a lie. Really, only your mother can love you, and even then that is not a guarantee. It's justified to be upset about this. It truly does suck that your fairytale romance that you read in some manga or watched in some anime is simply not possible, because women are not wired to be that way. While all couples love conditionally, women love men entirely conditionally. You won't be loved for you, You won't be loved because you make her smile, because you make her laugh. You're only "loved" for your looks, your status, how masculine of a man you are. Any of these disappear and your relationship is doomed. Men are nothing but a tool to women. Chads are nothing but an expensive toy to show off to her girlfriends to make them jealous. Oh yeah, that's another thing. Women really like men that other women like. It makes her feel special since she was chosen out of a bunch of other thots.
Don't feel bad about wanting love. Don't feel bad if someone here calls you a simp or a cuck because you prefer a loving relationship over just pumping and dumping a bunch of girls you'll never see again the following day. Everyone wants to be loved. Even the ones that say they don't, probably did at some point. Love, on paper, is a beautiful thing. It's a shame that only men seem capable of it. Even then, I lack a lot of real world experiences and most of my thoughts are from stories I've read. So I cannot explicitly confirm or deny any of this. But it often really does seem that women are that way when women have ignored and rejected you all your life.
But yeah. You are not an idiot for wanting love. You deserve to be loved. And don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
PS don't feel ashamed for fantasizing about "less masculine" things with women, like wanting to be held, spooned, lay your head in her lap after a bad day, want to be protected by her, role reversal/mommy gf stuff. There's nothing wrong with desiring a partner that cares and supports you.
But of course, it's all a lie. You know this. Women don't care about personality. They don't care about being a loyal, loving wife to go on adventures with you, have children and lovingly raise them. They care about looks, most. They care about getting gangbanged by tens, maybe even hundreds of Chads and the genetic elite of men. They are hypergamous. Even the least attractive women have access to men more attractive than you. And even with personality, they prefer evil, dark triad men who do not care about them. Who abuse them. They aren't all "manipulated" into abusive relationships like feminists may tell you. No, these negative emotions are the apex of masculinity. To be masculine is to be dominant, and women love to be dominated (by Chad). They not only don't like average and below men, but also men being anything other than some emotionless, stoic hardass. You must suffer in silence to be respected by her. She will not ever be a shoulder to cry on, or one to comfort you when you feel down or stressed. You have to do that for her, but good fucking luck doing that with her and not severely damaging your relationship. Being cheated on seems inevitable for guys. Oh and if you have to resort to betabux, she'll divorce you and take everything.
You were sold a lie. Really, only your mother can love you, and even then that is not a guarantee. It's justified to be upset about this. It truly does suck that your fairytale romance that you read in some manga or watched in some anime is simply not possible, because women are not wired to be that way. While all couples love conditionally, women love men entirely conditionally. You won't be loved for you, You won't be loved because you make her smile, because you make her laugh. You're only "loved" for your looks, your status, how masculine of a man you are. Any of these disappear and your relationship is doomed. Men are nothing but a tool to women. Chads are nothing but an expensive toy to show off to her girlfriends to make them jealous. Oh yeah, that's another thing. Women really like men that other women like. It makes her feel special since she was chosen out of a bunch of other thots.
Don't feel bad about wanting love. Don't feel bad if someone here calls you a simp or a cuck because you prefer a loving relationship over just pumping and dumping a bunch of girls you'll never see again the following day. Everyone wants to be loved. Even the ones that say they don't, probably did at some point. Love, on paper, is a beautiful thing. It's a shame that only men seem capable of it. Even then, I lack a lot of real world experiences and most of my thoughts are from stories I've read. So I cannot explicitly confirm or deny any of this. But it often really does seem that women are that way when women have ignored and rejected you all your life.
But yeah. You are not an idiot for wanting love. You deserve to be loved. And don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
PS don't feel ashamed for fantasizing about "less masculine" things with women, like wanting to be held, spooned, lay your head in her lap after a bad day, want to be protected by her, role reversal/mommy gf stuff. There's nothing wrong with desiring a partner that cares and supports you.
but if you're into her fucking you with a strap-on whatever I'm sorry but that shit is weird
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also use it as en excuse to try debunk the blackpill.I would say you aren't cucked for wanting affection, which is basic Human desire, just keep in mind is not something that really exist in today's world
