Is he a boomer? They often say dumb shit like that
Being excluded and treated like dirt for years will lead to a 'horrible outlook on life.' If he wasn't an annoying fag he would realize that there's nothing wrong with your outlook, it's just that you've seen life and society from a different perspective which he has never had to see
People with all sorts of bad 'outlooks' get by just fine, because they're normies. It's not like soyciety is immaculate, the elite screw over the poor, the powerful take advantage of their power, there are wars and retarded neocons clapping it on. Plenty of criminals aren't single, war hawks aren't single, cynical corrupt people aren't single, etc. Soyciety doesn't care about outlooks, in fact it's likely that most people don't care what you are inside and will just judge based on surface appearance