Theory You are either an incel or a normie

[Eightcel]

Something I observed.

It's very hard to get first gf.

But if you get at least one gf it is very easy to get another one.

There are a lot of men who had 0 gf.
There are a lot of men who had more than 3 gfs.
But there are not many people who had 1 gf and given up on this. They will soon get another one.

 

[ReplaceMyJuice]

True

 

[Lebensmüder]

Yes. If you have proven yourself to get one girl it often means that your attractiveness for other girls increases. A friend I met on the Internet was involuntarily celibate (KHHV) until his mid 20s, met one girl/married her and after the marriage/first children many other women approached him (although he didn't do looksmaxxing). Prior to this he was rejected by all women. Being married/in a relationship increases your appeal for women.

Of course it's possible to become an incel if you have been in a relationship for decades and then she leaves you - like the case of Sodini shows because during that time hypergamy could have increased so much that you nowadays don't make the cut or because the age pill destroyed you.

 

[Deleted member 34706]

And it's very easy to get a gf and sex if you've ever hugged or kissed, only KHHVs should be allowed here because otherwise you're above a ton of men. Being a KHHV is common these days.

 

[Eightcel]

And it's very easy to get a gf and sex if you've ever hugged or kissed, only KHHVs should be allowed here because otherwise you're above a ton of men. Being a KHHV is common these days.

Hugs, yeah maby are somehow sexual, but are given very often by friends that are close and even by random people. Depending on culture. I think many people here hugged a girl somehow lol ofc she was somehow forced to do so because it was expected of her, not by her will, so maybe it doesn't count.

 

[BrokenAndThrownAway]

From the moment one girl shows interest in you and is prepared to be your girlfriend. That's a confirmation that your worth something and gives u the idea if this girl loves me other girls also can love me. It's a motivation that keeps u going in life and a reason to keep working on yourself.

On the other side of the coin, u have people who never had any romantic relation. The idea that no girl ever loved you makes you depressed and full of doubt about how u look.

Once u experience the love and affection of a girl it boosts your confidence which results in more success with women.

 

[Kamikaze]

Yep. If there was one, there will be more. You have passed the minimum SMV treshold.

If there were none, there will be none. You are forever alone.

 

[I want to believe]

It's all about your face (and height, etc.)

 

[Meus]

Absolutely brutal.

 

[TaciturnCel]

Never had one and I'm heading into my 30s in a few years. Over.

 

[Therapywasaaste]

Hugs, yeah maby are somehow sexual, but are given very often by friends that are close and even by random people. Depending on culture. I think many people here hugged a girl somehow lol ofc she was somehow forced to do so because it was expected of her, not by her will, so maybe it doesn't count.

This. I'm Khv but an asian foid my age hugged me once in middle school in a non romo way like how guy friends do in a no homo way.

 

[Loner94]

Well said

 

[BITG]

True

 

[MarquisDeSade]

Incel, Betabuxxer, or Chad.

There are no in betweens anymore.

 

[Claude]

You either grew up watching Nickelodean and beome (non NT)
or Disney Channel (NT)