Yes, bluepillers, we get you. The average man has a slight better chance of finding a romantic partner should he work on his personality.
What you don't understand, however, is that average men are only desirable when it comes to being providers.
Attractive men are desirable in a sexual way, whereas average men are desirable in a utilitarian way.
Sexual way implies having an offspring with good genes, while utilitarian way implies providing said offspring with resources so they can be brought up in a decent environment.
Average men with good personalities are respectable husbands and fathers, but they're not perceived as sexually attractive to the vast majority of women. Average men are only desirable in the eyes of women when it comes to being providers.
You must be wondering, then how can't involuntary celibates find romantic partners?
Because we're worse than average.
Because we're below average in looks and have severe personality problems due to mental disorders and years of trauma. Mental disorders are very common among involuntary celibates. We can't feel confident and easygoing after several years of negative reinforcement caused by our uncanny and generally unattractive looks.
Even if we did act confident, we wouldn't meet women's unrealistic standards. The average man struggles to find a partner; the average incel has it worse.
Most of us don't even have the money to be providers, and who wants to be used by gold diggers anyway?
So that's a brief explanation for why personality doesn't matter in the way you bluepillers think. Until next time.
What you don't understand, however, is that average men are only desirable when it comes to being providers.
Attractive men are desirable in a sexual way, whereas average men are desirable in a utilitarian way.
Sexual way implies having an offspring with good genes, while utilitarian way implies providing said offspring with resources so they can be brought up in a decent environment.
Average men with good personalities are respectable husbands and fathers, but they're not perceived as sexually attractive to the vast majority of women. Average men are only desirable in the eyes of women when it comes to being providers.
You must be wondering, then how can't involuntary celibates find romantic partners?
Because we're worse than average.
Because we're below average in looks and have severe personality problems due to mental disorders and years of trauma. Mental disorders are very common among involuntary celibates. We can't feel confident and easygoing after several years of negative reinforcement caused by our uncanny and generally unattractive looks.
Even if we did act confident, we wouldn't meet women's unrealistic standards. The average man struggles to find a partner; the average incel has it worse.
Most of us don't even have the money to be providers, and who wants to be used by gold diggers anyway?
So that's a brief explanation for why personality doesn't matter in the way you bluepillers think. Until next time.
