Haha... I was gone for quite a while, and this is what I've missed.
Anyway, I'm not fat, nor am I super ugly; I just don't quite fit into your tiny box. My standards remain the same, though unfortunately... the way I see it, I can only imagine you're below my standards considering I see most women as average at best. And my hunch is that you're overweight, which luckily... I have that right considering I'm quite fit, and compensate in many ways that can give me an advantage. I imagine you're overweight, but your hypergamous nature compels you to seek out someone who's not only fit/tall/muscular, but far beyond your looksmatch as well.
The funny thing is, there are a few women I know, or one in particular who is out of my league, but is humble in nature. And in more ways than one, she's the one person I'm attracted to in a very unique way. Maybe because she has that "shine" in her eyes.