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Wouldn't being friendless be an automatic cause for inceldom?

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Cold approach has an extremely small success rate even for chad, so if you don't even have a social circle would it doom you if you are a normie in appearance? Can't warm approach and you have to literally go ask a stranger to be your girlfriend when you aren't stunning and she wants to be left alone. I have never seen cold approach work in real life. So this could explain all the normal looking guys in ratings megathread (who lasted). And making friends past college is known to not be very easy.
 
No social circle = No women

I know some normie looking guys and its exactly like you described.
 
Not if you are 7/10.

At 7/10 you can slay without friends, just download tinder.
 
Kinda yes. It's hard, but you probably know this being an aspie as well, right?

I basically have no friends. I have some contacts to "ex-friends" from my earlier life but it broke all away when I was blind for some time.

But then again it's kinda overrated at the same time. You can fastly get ostracized if you are non NT and hit on people in a group.

After I lifemaxxed I go for onlinedating I think. Can't risk to fuck up my social cirlcle if I can ever get one.
 
Yes, pretty much.

Without friends, your only recourse is dating apps. If you're below 5/10, it probably dooms you.

This is coupled with the social ineptitude resultant from spending years by yourself.
 
If you have a normie face, white, tall + gymmaxx you can hop on Tinder and smash some ethnics. If dating apps don't work you are pretty much fucked. As you said, cold approach doesn't work. The only other option is to join some activity group and warm approach a foid.
 
Yes. I have no friends so I have no way of meeting females. It is over.
 
Isn't online dating now the 2nd most popular way people date? Or is that number skewed up so much from all the whores hooking up with Chads?
 
Yep this is the truth, no friends, no life, no girls, nothing
 
yup. this is why i'm totally fucked. even if i woke up as a 7/10 tomorrow, i still wouldnt get laid. i have no friends, and have always been alone
my mind is beyond repair.
 
I have read that being introduced to girls via friends is more successful than coming-on as a stranger. Of course the former is impossible without a social group to begin with.

I only have one friend and I'm his only friend too; well, he has no other friends that he is willing to introduce me to anyway. But, to his credit, he has involved me in a plan to meet girls. Apparently the university he graduated from has frequent and informal get-togethers for alumni. He and I are going to one of these get-togethers, and there I will attempt to schmooze with the attending girls (hopefully they'll be drunk).

I fucking hate women so much. They want so much from men that I don't have. So I better have a shit-load of lies ready, 'cause my face ain't getting me laid.
 
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my social circle is jsut other incels in denial plus one normie that ran jbf and has a gf. no females
 
Friends and girlfriends go together
 

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