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Would you stop hating yourself if you had a girlfriend?

Yes, because that tells us that we are not undesirable to everybody and that means validation, which makes it easier for us to love ourselves.
 
Yes, because that tells us that we are not undesirable to everybody and that means validation, which makes it easier for us to love ourselves.

Well written.
 
Yes, because that tells us that we are not undesirable to everybody and that means validation, which makes it easier for us to love ourselves.
 
all i know is my life would be infinitly better if i had girlfriend
 
Nope.
I'd probably end up hating myself and my girlfriend.
 
I don't hate myself. I just hate my circumstances.
 
Only chads get real gf's who love them unconditionally. Those are only 10% of men at most. The rest of the men are seen as incels or betabux. We don't want validation from these creatures that only care about looks. Having a femoid only means your looks are validated and nothing else. It would be simpler to escortcel than to betabux or becoming a chad.
 
No because I have made to many mistakes and I should have done a lot more with my life
 
Only if she didnt dump me after a while tbh.
Otherwise it just gets worse
 
No. I would just be depressed thinking she's gonna leave me at any moment for Chad.
 
no cause i would be constantly feeling not good enough then when she would finally break up with me id feel 10x worse than i do now
 
No because the only girlfriend I'd be able to get would be low SMV. Even then I'd worry about what she thinks of me and have so many insecurities.
 
hating yourself is for cucks
 
I don't really hate myself, but I would be really happy if a girl loved me...
 
Yeh, knowing that a girl would thinks I'm worth a damn would be great for my self esteem
 
Only if my girlfriend wouldn't complain about me for small reaosns such as in household, and doesn't have affairs with other men, yes.
 
Nope, I'd still fucking hate every aspect of my existence.
 
Nope, it would come far too late to have an impact. I am 25 yo. If a girl were to like me after all these years, it would feel like a trick or a joke. I would be highly suspicious.
 
Nope, it would come far too late to have an impact. I am 25 yo. If a girl were to like me after all these years, it would feel like a trick or a joke. I would be highly suspicious.

Exactly... im 27 and by this point i dont think i can feel loved or love. Also, women only interact with me when they need something (obviously not sex) and want me to orbit them so... i just cant trust any woman now. Trusting them as an incel is retarded.
 
Exactly... im 27 and by this point i dont think i can feel loved or love. Also, women only interact with me when they need something (obviously not sex) and want me to orbit them so... i just cant trust any woman now. Trusting them as an incel is retarded.
Your avi is perfect
 
A little less but a part of me is scarred for ever. I will keep comparing myself to others and will make an effort to improve/ maintain looks, money, status.
 
No because I don't hate myself, I hate the world, I hate Chad, I hate Chadlite, I hate normies, and I hate roasties. But I don't hate myself or fellow truecels.
 
Don't know and don't care because I have a better chance of winning the lottery than ever getting a girlfriend.
 
The only thing I'd need a gf for would be sex.
 
no cause i would be constantly feeling not good enough then when she would finally break up with me id feel 10x worse than i do now
It's over
 
At this point, no. She'd hate me and I'd probably end up killing her. I'm too far gone. Unless she was absolutely fucking insane, and I mean literally insane, but the tradeoff would be that she'd be ugly as sin, so I'd still hate her.
 

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