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Story Would you stay with a woman if she still loved you more than other men, despite also finding other men more attractive?

You aren't as handsome as other men, but you're somehow the best.


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There will always be girls that are more physically attractive than your wife out there
This.
What a horrible state, to be married, and to see a woman, and to think "I'd rather fuck her than my own wife." Marriage is supposed to sacred, your wife should be the only woman in the world for you.
Well if Humans didn't act like animals and weren't degenerates they would act on impulses.

Assuming I was goodlooking enough to get a foid that loved me and I loved her: if you're both truly in love, you'll accept each other and despite their being millions of way more attractive men/women in the world, you'll never act on lust (cheat on them) but come back home to them and keep your mind on them.

Foids can't do that sadly because all they want is Chad.
No. I should be seen as the king of my castle so to speak. This kinda sounds like foid logic.

Foids can't see other people as more attractive and still be happy
Also this.

If you truly love your partner, surely you'd see them as the most attractive person (subjectivally) In the world.
Yes; it’s almost a certainty every couple will both find other people more attractive than their partner.
 
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Why wouldn’t I?

Wait, would you or wouldn't you be upset at your spouse lusting after others? Because you said looks are objective and some people are just more attractive than others. So logically, if your spouse wants to hop on Yaoibooru or whatever the fuck it is heterosexual women get off to, and post comments about how badly they wanna be cockwalloped by whatever fujoshi fantasy du jour is getting the upvotes, that's just objective human nature, isn't it?

The main reason why most men who are in committed relationships consume pornography is because they aren't getting as much sex as they want.

This study shows that once a women 'bonds' or knows she has fully secured her mates commitment, there is a high likelihood that she will lose interest in sex, even if her partner is attractive. To quote the author "Women have evolved to have a high sex drive when they are initially in a relationship in order to form a "pair bond" with their partner. But, once this bond is sealed a woman's sexual appetite declines."

The fact that gay couples have much more sex on average than heterosexual couples can only be explained by the fact that women have a lower sex drive and frequently deny their partners sex.

Many men don't want to appear needy as this makes them more unattractive in their partners' eyes, so instead of begging for sex everyday, they consume porn whenever their partners aren't "in the mood". For most of history, it used to be considered inappropriate for married women to deny sex for no valid reason, and marital rape was legal in the United States until the 1990s. Unfortunately, today women are allowed to be as selfish as they want and are no longer expected to take care of their partners' sexual needs.



I think it should be acceptable for married men to visit prostitutes. Men are much at compartmentalizing sex and love than women. As long as you don't fall in love with the prostitute, I wouldn't even consider it cheating.

Wait, but gay people in committed relationships also look at porn. Lots of married persons look at porn. It's not always what the spouse is comfortable with, but it happens.


Whose JoJO ?

The woman in the opening post.

Well if Humans didn't act like animals and weren't degenerates they would act on impulses.

Assuming I was goodlooking enough to get a foid that loved me and I loved her: if you're both truly in love, you'll accept each other and despite their being millions of way more attractive men/women in the world, you'll never act on lust (cheat on them) but come back home to them and keep your mind on them.

Wait a minute. Doesn't that contradict what you say here?

If you truly love your partner, surely you'd see them as the most attractive person (subjectivally) In the world.

Is or isn't your spouse the hottest person in the world, in your eyes?
 
Wait a minute. Doesn't that contradict what you say here?



Is or isn't your spouse the hottest person in the world, in your eyes?
Notice how I said:

(subjectivally)

Subjectivally, because of your love for a foid and the foids' love for you, she'll be the "most attractive foid", however OBJECTIVALLY she won't be the most attractive foid out there.
 
She was so madly in love with her ex-boyfriend

"I had my pick of dudes, every last one of them much richer and hotter than my ex-boyfriend. But I still love you best baby please come back!"
"Ex-chadlite betabuck"

"I've rided the cock carousel and gave my holes to rich hot chads and now that i'm used and lonely i want you back as my emotional tempon teehee"
 
Notice how I said:

(subjectivally)

Subjectivally, because of your love for a foid and the foids' love for you, she'll be the "most attractive foid", however OBJECTIVALLY she won't be the most attractive foid out there.

What do you mean by "attractive?"
 
Worthy of admiration.

By "attractive" I mean "Want to have sex with." I can admire other men, doesn't mean I wanna have sex with them. Or even that I would marry them.
 
By "attractive" I mean "Want to have sex with." I can admire other men, doesn't mean I wanna have sex with them. Or even that I would marry them.
I dont know tbh.

I wouldn't say it's just "sex" because that's objective territory.

To subjectivally love and find them subjectivally attractive, I believe it means inspite of them not being objectivally attractive, their flaws and imperfections don't override the aspects of them which you find attractive and so you still find them sexually attractive and would only want a committed monogamous sexual relationship with them.
 
I dont know tbh.

I wouldn't say it's just "sex" because that's objective territory.

To subjectivally love and find them subjectivally attractive, I believe it means inspite of them not being objectivally attractive, their flaws and imperfections don't override the aspects of them which you find attractive and so you still find them sexually attractive and would only want a committed monogamous sexual relationship with them.

Question is though, do you wanna fuck anyone else besides them? Sure you love them for other reasons besides sex, but as far as sex itself, sex alone, are they the best, only one you want?
 
Would you stick a rock that is wet but also scorching hot up your ass?

Not only is it a raw deal, to put it lightly, but it's also an oxymoron. I reject this hypothetical.
 

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