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Would you rather have sex without love or love without sex?

Would you rather have sex without love or love without sex?

  • Sex without love

    Votes: 28 63.6%
  • Love without sex

    Votes: 16 36.4%

  • Total voters
    44
Chopin

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(The sex is on the regular, it isn't a one time deal.)
 
if this is the choice: love without sex it is. love beats everything, end of story.
 
Sex without love. You don't need a foid to have love, but you need one to have sex
 
Having a woman be infatuated with me is largely just something to facilitate sex anyway. I don't believe in these sorts of concepts, as it just seems like shit people deliberately mystify so they don't have to ask themselves difficult questions or acknowledge reality.
 
SEEEEEEX SEEEEEEEEXO
SEEEEEEEEEEX
1f2
 
Having a woman be infatuated with me is largely just something to facilitate sex anyway. I don't believe in these sorts of concepts, as it just seems like shit people deliberately mystify so they don't have to ask themselves difficult questions or acknowledge realit
thats rich coming from someone not having a choice anyway
 
biological needs =biological needs
thats like saying have a roof is more crucial than food

erm, i dont think so
 
(The sex is on the regular, it isn't a one time deal.)
Love without sex isn't love :feelsgah::feelsgah:
The roasties who starve their husbands till madness don't love them at all. These roasties who "love" Chad won't think to give sex to Chad. They just get wet and give sex to Chad. :feelskek::feelskek:
They don't give sex to their husbands because foids were designed to refuse having sex to unattractive men. For that reason they conditionate sex with the silliest things. :feelsdevil::feelsdevil:
The absolute state of Incel.is in 2021.
 
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Having a woman be infatuated with me is largely just something to facilitate sex anyway. I don't believe in these sorts of concepts, as it just seems like shit people deliberately mystify so they don't have to ask themselves difficult questions or acknowledge reality.
Then why are you here? If you don't care for love or relationships in the first place, why are you spending your time here?
 
Really, a very philosophical question. On the one hand, if love is considered as a need or attachment in a person, then how I will feel it internally, the hormone responsible for reproduction will be absent, and I will not be able to recognize love. If you choose sex without love, then I will remain without emotional feelings and will be an animal fucking everything in my path.
How difficult everything is.:feelsohgod:
 
thats rich coming from someone not having a choice anyway
I don't see your point.

Experiencing life as an ugly male has been exactly what made me realize just how shallow and conditional attraction, infatuation, and even positive responses all are.
Then why are you here? If you don't care for love or relationships in the first place, why are you spending your time here?
I used to care, however the desire was beaten out of me and replaced with revulsion. To answer your question though, I don't really have anything better to do. There is almost nothing that I want to do. Moreover, this is the only forum which I frequent where I don't have to censor my own thoughts.
 
I can jerk off
but i can't cuddle or hold hands with air :feelsaww:
 
Everyone here wants only "love".
If it was sex, incels would just go to hookers and be sated, but they aren't.
 
Everyone here wants only "love".
If it was sex, incels would just go to hookers and be sated, but they aren't.
I think you're projecting what you want onto us.

For me it's more accurate to say that what I want is a whole different experience of youth, and I wish that I could've remained blissfully ignorant and not have developed into the person who I am now.

When I try to think about what I want in a future sense it's hard to come up with much of anything. Although I do have a fantasy of dying of an OD with a woman, in case that the moment of death is somehow eternally experienced.
 
who ever choose the second needs to be banned ASAP
 
Interesting choice

depends on the age


when I was younger I would say love without sex buit now I say sex without love
 
does love exist nowadays?

if you’re a guy that’s not particularly attractive, you’re only valued for utility. if you have no utility (monetary), no one cares about you. you are disposable.
 
I don't believe women can 'love' anyways, so there is no real choice to be made.
 
In love the essential thing is not perhaps mutual affection, but possession, in other words, physical enjoyment. The certainty of the former, therefore, cannot in any way console us for the want of the latter; on the contrary, in such a situation many a man has shot himself. On the other hand, when those who are deeply in love cannot obtain mutual affection, they are easily satisfied with possession, i.e., with physical enjoyment. This is proved by all forced marriages, and likewise by a woman’s favour, so often purchased, in spite of her dislike, with large presents or other sacrifices, and also by cases of rape.
 
I can't have sex without feeling some love. Even when masturbating I feel some love towards the woman I look at while masturbating.

So it is literally impossible question to answer.
 
No such thing as love without sex
 
some people voted love without sex, take the Blackpill guys.
I don't believe women can 'love' anyways, so there is no real choice to be made.
based
 
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I don't believe women can 'love' anyways, so there is no real choice to be made
I've been thinking about this issue for a few months now. I kind of think that women don't even find men attractive, they only date men deemed "attractive" to establish dominance of other females
 
Actual love ( not lust) is the rarest of all emotional expression, i’m taking that over the sex. It literally changes lives completely. Sad that humans very rarely show it. Pretty sure it can’t be shown or given by those with power/influence. Alot of people actually don’t know how to love.
No such thing as love without sex
Thats sad asf.
 
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cuck if you choose the latter
 
Definitely Love Without Sex. If you voted Sex Without Love, you're lucky.. I wish I could be so satisfied with an escort. I might still try one out anyways, someday.
 

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