Let's say you're some Arab Sheikh and you had a Stacy pretty much delivered to your door, or you found the genie's bottle and he provided exactly the girl/woman you longed for. Would you be okay with fucking her and forming a relationship knowing well that she doesn't physically desire you nor lust over you like you do her? That she needs to close her eyes and imagine someone else is fucking her, that she needs to fill her mind with stories about why she "likes you" to compensate the lack of physical attraction there is.
I read a study a while back that women are just as visual as men are, which us incels have known for a while. Personally, I can't imagine having a successful long-term relationship with a woman I don't find attractive. Imagine working hard every day breaking your back and destroying your mental health, and on your way home you see a chick you'd absolutely love to obliterate in bed, your animalistic side awakens like the most ruthless predator and your mind is filled with the desire to make a move, take a step further, whatever it takes to fulfill the existential goal of impregnating her and passing down your DNA. Suddenly, you remember: "oh wait, I'm married, and I'm not supposed to lust over other women, it's wrong and immoral! I must suppress this feeling now". A bit disappointed over what just happened, you remember what's waiting for you at home. With sorrow and regret, you realize the woman that's waiting for you at home doesn't evoke a fifth of that, but society respected you because you chose her for her personality. You remind yourself that personality is what truly matters and continue repressing your true feelings and thoughts, and with that, letting your virility take yet another hit.
The female equivalent of the above text has a more feminine tone and corny story, I'm just speaking from the POV of a (tested) high-T adult incel. But the point remains the same; would you like to be settled with? Would you be fine with your woman wishing she had a Chad instead of you, actively trying to overlook this fault in you through your other positive attributes, that despite it not being your fault, it's there nonetheless? This would be the reality for us even if we had a great personality and managed to get a girlfriend. For the vast majority of guys, a woman, with a great personality even (not just good), is not enough to overlook her being fat and ugly. And if they are just as visual as we are, which we know they are, if not more... well, I think we can connect the dots...
I read a study a while back that women are just as visual as men are, which us incels have known for a while. Personally, I can't imagine having a successful long-term relationship with a woman I don't find attractive. Imagine working hard every day breaking your back and destroying your mental health, and on your way home you see a chick you'd absolutely love to obliterate in bed, your animalistic side awakens like the most ruthless predator and your mind is filled with the desire to make a move, take a step further, whatever it takes to fulfill the existential goal of impregnating her and passing down your DNA. Suddenly, you remember: "oh wait, I'm married, and I'm not supposed to lust over other women, it's wrong and immoral! I must suppress this feeling now". A bit disappointed over what just happened, you remember what's waiting for you at home. With sorrow and regret, you realize the woman that's waiting for you at home doesn't evoke a fifth of that, but society respected you because you chose her for her personality. You remind yourself that personality is what truly matters and continue repressing your true feelings and thoughts, and with that, letting your virility take yet another hit.
The female equivalent of the above text has a more feminine tone and corny story, I'm just speaking from the POV of a (tested) high-T adult incel. But the point remains the same; would you like to be settled with? Would you be fine with your woman wishing she had a Chad instead of you, actively trying to overlook this fault in you through your other positive attributes, that despite it not being your fault, it's there nonetheless? This would be the reality for us even if we had a great personality and managed to get a girlfriend. For the vast majority of guys, a woman, with a great personality even (not just good), is not enough to overlook her being fat and ugly. And if they are just as visual as we are, which we know they are, if not more... well, I think we can connect the dots...
