I have no (personal) contact with church girls (barely exist here) and no contact with girls at work (none exist).
But of the Christian (young) women I know, my impression is, they are very kind and more feminine than the average. But I know one young woman, who talked about abortion like it would be debatable.
The church is not part of culture like America here in Germany, so the people who go to church are mostly more dedicated to Christ and faith.
What is male identitarian ethos? When it means talking as a male pro-male, then I don't see something wrong with it currently. Genesis speaks:
1.Mo 3:16 To the woman he said, “I will greatly increase your labor pains; with pain you will give birth to children. You will want to control your husband, but he will dominate you.”
To bring men (back)into power is the right way.
Where I would may have problems to love a (imaginary) wife, like Christ has loved the Church (a command in the New Testament), but this is beyond the realms of possibility anyway.