Zesto
Chair of the Beautification Committee
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Imagine this scenario.
You get a date from this girl you've been casually chatting with, let's say you're both in the same class and you're friendly enough that you go out to a coffee shop to study together.
But during the date you bring up about possibly doing something serious together and she gets shocked and practically disgusted.
But everything before and after that point is completely fine. On the way there and on the way back you have some really cool conversations and really relate to each other.
But you know you will be in the friend zone forever despite this girl actually liking your personality.
Would you feel good? Would this validate you in anyway? Would you feel worse than before? Would you be glad that you were able to do someone for once in your life alone with a girl or would you rather it never happened so you don't get haunted by a "taste" of something you could never have?
Would someone this happened to have the right to complain about it or should they be thankful a girl gave them a chance this way?
I never made a poll before but I'm really interested to know.
* Keep in mind you are not this girl's beta orbiter but a genuine friend.
You get a date from this girl you've been casually chatting with, let's say you're both in the same class and you're friendly enough that you go out to a coffee shop to study together.
But during the date you bring up about possibly doing something serious together and she gets shocked and practically disgusted.
But everything before and after that point is completely fine. On the way there and on the way back you have some really cool conversations and really relate to each other.
But you know you will be in the friend zone forever despite this girl actually liking your personality.
Would you feel good? Would this validate you in anyway? Would you feel worse than before? Would you be glad that you were able to do someone for once in your life alone with a girl or would you rather it never happened so you don't get haunted by a "taste" of something you could never have?
Would someone this happened to have the right to complain about it or should they be thankful a girl gave them a chance this way?
I never made a poll before but I'm really interested to know.
* Keep in mind you are not this girl's beta orbiter but a genuine friend.