Women talk about their need for "safety" ad nauseum. "Just make her feel safe" advice got to be up there with "just be nice" or "just be confident". But we know better. Like always, it's actually about looks.
One only needs to observe women's behavior in bars and night clubs. They consume excessive amounts of alcohol and drugs, then go to some stranger's home at the middle of the night, provided that stranger is attractive. But this is extremely risky behavior and it is self imposed. Yet the same woman who did this on Friday night can go to her university class on Monday and lecture everyone about her need for safety. The explanation is obvious: her feeling safe is not connected to the behavior of men or the actual circumstances. She sees an attractive man, she is aroused by him, then she "feels safe" because of her arousal. The man can act aggressively or have a criminal record, it does not matter. There was a Tinder experiment, where lots of women matched with a profile stating that the man is a child rapist. He looked good on the pictures, though.
One also needs to consider birth rates, country by country. As a general long standing trend, birth rates in the West are extremely low compared to birth rates in Muslim countries or in Africa. Women in Africa are more willing to have sex and bear children despite the conditions being extremely poor. In some of those countries there is no rule of law. Violent gangs just go around killing and raping people. And there is a severe scarcity of food. Meaning, the child being born might literally starve to death. So, again, the "feeling of safety" is disconnected from the actual circumstances.
And when a woman does not "feel safe", then the man is a "creep". If she "feels safe" with and attractive man, then the reverse is true here. But there is an important detail to add. Majority of unattractive men are simply invisible to women. So, in order for her to be creeped out, the man needs to be noticed first. And he is noticed if he tries to establish a romantic relationship with her. So, in essence, it is just this:
ugly = invisible
ugly + showing interest = creep
Make no mistake - if you are a user here and if you ever did try to flirt with a woman in any way, shape or form, does not matter how politely, she called you a creep and laughed about you. If not in your face, them definitely behind your back.
One only needs to observe women's behavior in bars and night clubs. They consume excessive amounts of alcohol and drugs, then go to some stranger's home at the middle of the night, provided that stranger is attractive. But this is extremely risky behavior and it is self imposed. Yet the same woman who did this on Friday night can go to her university class on Monday and lecture everyone about her need for safety. The explanation is obvious: her feeling safe is not connected to the behavior of men or the actual circumstances. She sees an attractive man, she is aroused by him, then she "feels safe" because of her arousal. The man can act aggressively or have a criminal record, it does not matter. There was a Tinder experiment, where lots of women matched with a profile stating that the man is a child rapist. He looked good on the pictures, though.
One also needs to consider birth rates, country by country. As a general long standing trend, birth rates in the West are extremely low compared to birth rates in Muslim countries or in Africa. Women in Africa are more willing to have sex and bear children despite the conditions being extremely poor. In some of those countries there is no rule of law. Violent gangs just go around killing and raping people. And there is a severe scarcity of food. Meaning, the child being born might literally starve to death. So, again, the "feeling of safety" is disconnected from the actual circumstances.
And when a woman does not "feel safe", then the man is a "creep". If she "feels safe" with and attractive man, then the reverse is true here. But there is an important detail to add. Majority of unattractive men are simply invisible to women. So, in order for her to be creeped out, the man needs to be noticed first. And he is noticed if he tries to establish a romantic relationship with her. So, in essence, it is just this:
ugly = invisible
ugly + showing interest = creep
Make no mistake - if you are a user here and if you ever did try to flirt with a woman in any way, shape or form, does not matter how politely, she called you a creep and laughed about you. If not in your face, them definitely behind your back.
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