Blackpill Women who say “improve your personality” technically mean “give up”

[Deleted member 24081]

Looks cannot be improved upon without surgery. Most men will never get surgery because they can’t afford it. You can improve your personality though, but women say this not to help you out and give you something to aim for so that you can ascend, but instead say it so that you will be stuck in a never ending loop of self improvement, forever condemned to improve your personality by getting hobbies, treating other with more respect, improving social skills, learning game and so on and so fourth. No amount of exotic hobbies or game will get the girl if she doesn’t find you attractive in the first place. A girl will not date a guy she doesn’t find attractive in her eyes.

Women who don’t find you attractive want you stuck in that unending pit of improving yourself because no amount of improvement will be enough to satisfy her, and it removes you from the dating pool. You’ll be self improving rather than participating in the dating game.

And then when you’ve improved yourself 5x over and you approach the next girl, she will once more say “improve your personality” because it’s better than saying “you’re ugly as shit, so give it up”.

 

[PresidentCel]

Actually any mental health professional who is being honest will tell you that it's almost impossible to change your personality in any significant way. Personality disorders are the most difficult psychiatric conditions to treat. Also a large part of your personality is genetic. Chances are you have a very similar personality to close family members.

 

[Deleted member 24081]

Actually any mental health professional who is being honest will tell you that it's almost impossible to change your personality in any significant way. Personality disorders are the most difficult psychiatric conditions to treat.

Mental Heath professionals are paid to be dishonest to you, to tell you it’s ok and you can change for the better, that it’s fixable, that you’re fine, that your looks aren’t the problem. Never get help from them.

 

[NEETard]

Personality isnt real

 

[metabuxx]

I ain't improving shit for those worthless whores

 

[PresidentCel]

Mental Heath professionals are paid to be dishonest to you, to tell you it’s ok and you can change for the better, that it’s fixable, that you’re fine, that your looks aren’t the problem. Never get help from them.

They can give you meds to calm you down and some coping strategies. That's about it. If they were completely honest they'd make far less money.

Truth is that personality just like looks can't be changed that much.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

yup, social skills are a biproduct of looks

https://incels.is/threads/social-skills-mean-absolutely-nothing.181561/

that thread is accurate for the most part

 

[happiless]

Women who say “improve your personality” technically mean “become a sweetheart simp who I can potentially betabux when I'm over 30”

 

[dirtykombatcel]

Everything they ever tell an unattractive male technically means 'give up'

 

[Levcel]

Women who say “improve your personality” technically mean “become a sweetheart simp who I can potentially betabux when I'm over 30”

 

[Deleted member 27159]

You can’t even change your personality. It is physically impossible. Even therapists admit it