Theory Women Use Therapy To Avoid Personal Accountability/Responsibility

[DarkStar]

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In recent years, "therapy" has become a buzzword

However, a concerning pattern emerges—many women seem to approach therapy with the assumption that they are never the problem, but rather the victims of the men in their lives.

Isn't it quite hilarious how foids claim we need therapy since it's all up to us to change, and that all of this is in our head -implying it's all our own causing- yet then approach it this way?

However, a concerning pattern emerges—many women seem to approach therapy with the assumption that they are never the problem, but rather the victims of the men in their lives.

So in other words, they're pulling the classic foid tactic of deceit, deflection, and simply making themselves seem as a victim to further exploit the nature of males.

Many women advocate for therapy, not as a space for self-reflection but as a tool to "fix" the men in their lives. They encourage boyfriends, husbands, fathers, or brothers to seek therapy under the presumption that these men are the root cause of instability or toxicity. Rarely do they enter therapy with the same level of scrutiny toward their own behavior. Instead, the narrative often focuses on how others have harmed them, reinforcing a cycle of victimhood rather than accountability.

Foids hardly go to therapy with a "well we're both at fault here, myself included:" Instead, they seem to approach it with the kind of mentality which they claim we ourselves have.

Overlooking Their Own Role in Conflict

Interactions are rarely one-sided. Yet, when discussing past relationships, workplace struggles, or family tensions, many women position themselves as the innocent party while labeling men as emotionally unavailable, immature, or manipulative. If their relationships repeatedly end in chaos, or they find themselves constantly surrounded by "toxic" people, at what point should they consider that they might be the common denominator? Therapy should be about recognizing one’s own contribution to dysfunction—not just diagnosing others.

When I was in therapy(still am but don't take it serious)I understood the whole point of it was attempting to find solutions to the issues I was facing, which ofc amounted to concede that I myself, could at times be at fault. Therapy isn't about venting about how shit others have treated you, it's about finding a way to solve these conflicts which you yourself in all likelihood contributed to.

Therapy as a Justification Rather Than a Solution

Another issue is the way therapy is sometimes used as a justification for bad behavior rather than a means to correct it. Instead of saying, "I need to work on how I handle conflict," it's often, "My therapist told me I should cut out people who don’t serve me." This mindset can lead to an unwillingness to engage in difficult but necessary conversations, instead opting to label others as "toxic" and walk away, rather than address personal flaws.

Again, foids love to be seen as "victims n' 'pressed n'sheit" since it allows for them to do exactly this, take their therapists "advice" out of context & use it as a means to justify their own behavior: Thus, foids reinforce this cycle of perpetual victimhood it seems.

The "Healing Journey" That Never Ends

While self-improvement is a lifelong process, some women treat their "healing journey" as an indefinite excuse for why they can’t be held accountable. If a man reacts emotionally, he is unstable; if a woman does, she is "processing trauma." If a man struggles with communication, he "needs therapy"; if a woman struggles, she’s just “protecting her peace.” The double standard creates a situation where therapy is used to reaffirm biases rather than challenge them.

Ah, this is perhaps my favorite one.

Like myself & @GeckoBus mention a lot, it seems that feminists like to follow that dialectic of "we're fighting a revolution" similar to what Bolsheviks said. The thing here is, what happens after the revolution? What's the plan after- I've yet to see that addressed?

Simply, foids just like the whole ": Healing journey!!!!!!!!" since it just merely provides them with another excuse.

 

[Wrath]

you can only love women or understand them

 

[blackpillednigga]

that subreddit is half based. it would be full if it wasnt for the cringe redpill dialogue

 

[DarkStar]

that subreddit is half based.

Trtvh

It's a good start for some guys at least, and if any kind of "anti foid" message is out there I'd say it's a W for us

it would be full if it wasnt for the cringe redpill dialogue

I mean, it is called "purplepilldebate" after all what do you expect?

 

[blackpillednigga]

I mean, it is called "purplepilldebate" after all what do you expect?

for some of these incels-in-denial it's taking them a bit too long to cough out the redpill and take the blackpill. not to flex but I skipped straight from the bluepill to blackpill because I knew red was BS. but whatever, it takes time for some to fully digest the truth

 

[Todd Thundercock]

Therapy is an overwhelmingly feminist field, so these women are correct. It's a hugbox for women to talk out their problems (unwise social decisions, drug abuse, overcoming trauma) which are mostly fixable because they have or can easily make social connections. Then, if women keep making unwise social decisions (i.e. dark triad types above their looksmatch), repeatedly go to therapy because of these bad men and the Patriarchy.

For men, the process is first convince us to socialize. If attractive enough, quit drugs, make friends and maybe find a loving woman. This gives them to the motivation to integrate with society and be a good wageslave. If ugly, shut up, stop complaining and be a good wageslave. Or for extreme cases like myself, here's your autismbux in exchange for not committing mass murder against us.

 

[Red445]

Therapy genuinely only works for foids, that's why they recommend it so much. Because women are delusional, the most attractive socially successful women will pretend like they are so ugly and unloved. And so they just need a therapist to remind them that "actually you have a lot of men lining up to date you so you're not ugly" so they go "oh yeah you're right! Wow therapy really works" and they go back to being happy. For incels like us, we are legit ugly to the world, legit unlovable due to our looks that society has determined are ugly. Nothing a therapist can say or do to change how society sees us. They can't change our reality. Any foid in our position would kill themselves.

 

[SuperKanga.Belgrade]

Therapy is gynocentric as well. Look at couples therapy. The man is almost always blamed for the problems in the relationship, and he just sits there and takes it.

The only advice that they give is regurgitated blue pill slop.

They don't care about fixing your problems, they just want your money, and for you to eventually go back to being a wageslave.

 

[DarkStar]

Therapy genuinely only works for foids, that's why they recommend it so much. Because women are delusional, the most attractive socially successful women will pretend like they are so ugly and unloved. And so they just need a therapist to remind them that "actually you have a lot of men lining up to date you so you're not ugly" so they go "oh yeah you're right! Wow therapy really works" and they go back to being happy. For incels like us, we are legit ugly to the world, legit unlovable due to our looks that society has determined are ugly. Nothing a therapist can say or do to change how society sees us. They can't change our reality. Any foid in our position would kill themselves.

Nailed it

For foids it works, because deep-down they know they get constantly validated & this will just reinforce that cycle

Therapy is gynocentric as well. Look at couples therapy. The man is almost always blamed for the problems in the relationship, and he just sits there and takes it.

Might be worth looking into tbh

The only advice that they give is regurgitated blue pill slop.

"just be a better man" notice how it's always so vague, yet also kinda closed-ended?

They don't care about fixing your problems, they just want your money, and for you to eventually go back to being a wageslave.

They want you to be "fixed" to be a good docile slave for them

Therapy is an overwhelmingly feminist field, so these women are correct. It's a hugbox for women to talk out their problems (unwise social decisions, drug abuse, overcoming trauma) which are mostly fixable because they have or can easily make social connections. Then, if women keep making unwise social decisions (i.e. dark triad types above their looksmatch), repeatedly go to therapy because of these bad men and the Patriarchy.

Therapy just reinforces their worldview, it's why they shill it so hard

For men, the process is first convince us to socialize. If attractive enough, quit drugs, make friends and maybe find a loving woman. This gives them to the motivation to integrate with society and be a good wageslave. If ugly, shut up, stop complaining and be a good wageslave. Or for extreme cases like myself, here's your autismbux in exchange for not committing mass murder against us.

 

[Emba]

Fascinating foolishness

 

[Antorian]

Therapy should be banned for women, and only be available for men, with only men being allowed to be therapists.

 

[Rapistcel]

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1jgu5at/women_use_therapy_to_avoid_personal/

Isn't it quite hilarious how foids claim we need therapy since it's all up to us to change, and that all of this is in our head -implying it's all our own causing- yet then approach it this way?

So in other words, they're pulling the classic foid tactic of deceit, deflection, and simply making themselves seem as a victim to further exploit the nature of males.

Foids hardly go to therapy with a "well we're both at fault here, myself included:" Instead, they seem to approach it with the kind of mentality which they claim we ourselves have.

When I was in therapy(still am but don't take it serious)I understood the whole point of it was attempting to find solutions to the issues I was facing, which ofc amounted to concede that I myself, could at times be at fault. Therapy isn't about venting about how shit others have treated you, it's about finding a way to solve these conflicts which you yourself in all likelihood contributed to.

Again, foids love to be seen as "victims n' 'pressed n'sheit" since it allows for them to do exactly this, take their therapists "advice" out of context & use it as a means to justify their own behavior: Thus, foids reinforce this cycle of perpetual victimhood it seems.

Ah, this is perhaps my favorite one.

Like myself & @GeckoBus mention a lot, it seems that feminists like to follow that dialectic of "we're fighting a revolution" similar to what Bolsheviks said. The thing here is, what happens after the revolution? What's the plan after- I've yet to see that addressed?

Simply, foids just like the whole ": Healing journey!!!!!!!!" since it just merely provides them with another excuse.

Therapy is gay

 

[DarkStar]

Therapy should be banned for women, and only be available for men, with only men being allowed to be therapists.

Eh, not sure what this would solve

 

[IRLJamie]

you can only love women or understand them

or beat them (in mixed-gender sport competition ofc)

 

[Thugs-5-Less]

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