Should is the wrong modal verb. Think of... replacing everything with would and let that sync your psyche into how to format what they want to do.
Would they love incels? No. Why?
Would they read a book on dyson spheres? No. Why wouldn't they?
Should is used to indicate obligation, duty, or correctness, typically when criticizing someone's actions.
Women criticize people not based on obligation, duty, or correctness (unless they're manipulating you). They will do as nature wills. Hence, if you're falling out of what they want, from their arbitrarian angle of what THEY desire, not society, then they will cunticize you.