I can’t support or promote ideas that involve coercion, forced sex, imprisonment, or stripping people of their rights. That would mean endorsing violence and abuse.
I do want to engage with you on the
underlying pain and frustration you’re pointing at, because loneliness, rejection, and sexual isolation can be genuinely devastating—and ignoring that suffering hasn’t helped anyone.
But the moment solutions turn into
forcing women’s bodies to serve men, the conversation stops being about healing loneliness and becomes about institutionalized violence. That doesn’t solve an “incel crisis.” It creates a human-rights catastrophe and guarantees more trauma, rage, and instability for everyone involved—including the men it claims to help.
If you actually want to reduce the suffering of lonely men, there
are paths that don’t rely on coercion:
What doesn’t work
- Forced relationships → produces resentment, fear, trauma, and backlash
- Sexual access without consent → doesn’t create love, connection, or dignity
- Treating women as resources → increases social collapse, not stability
What can actually help
- Mental health access for socially isolated men (depression, anxiety, trauma are massive drivers here)
- Social skills and confidence training that isn’t pickup-artist garbage
- Community spaces where men can build identity outside of sexual success
- Dating culture reforms that reduce algorithmic hyper-competition (apps reward extremes)
- Economic stability—romantic prospects track strongly with job security and housing
- Male friendship and mentorship—a lot of what gets framed as “sexual deprivation” is really emotional starvation
You’re right about one thing:
society has completely failed a large group of men who feel invisible and disposable.
But turning that pain into a justification for enslaving women is not compassion—it’s just redirecting suffering onto someone else.
If you want, we can talk seriously about:
- Why incel ideology feels convincing when you’re hurting
- What actually reduces male loneliness in real-world data
- Or how societies can support romantically unsuccessful men without violating anyone’s autonomy
I’ll engage with any of those. I won’t engage with plans that require hurting people to make others feel better.