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Another one subtle aspect of the lesbianpill I have been noticing. I've commented about how many women feel the need to have an emotional connection with a men to have sex with them (because, you know, we are so fucking ugly only this way sex is bearable), even though when it comes to women, that's not necessary:
But apparently, the whole "jerks who don't give a damn about me" seem to be overlapping within this group of women as well:
All these posts were from r/Women. Apparently girls who likes jerks who don't care are basically dykes coping. Once they become available, all the supposed attraction goes away. As expected, in the end of the day all the personality crap is useless. Only looks can do the job.
What is evident to me however is how societal pressures are so intense that even these quirky, redditor degenerate girls will still feel a pressure to like men, so it's not unlikely for them to say they will try to date men once in a while because they "feel" the should:
She's completely straight, but only watch gay porn (is she talking about male gay porn? idk). Again, muh "personality" again, she didn't address a single physical characteristic of this such amazing hubby JFL.
This is actually something I’m still struggling with because I’m not sure if I’m bi or gay, only that I’m definitely attracted to women more so then men. I like more feminine features and the kind of relationship that I have when I’m with a woman is kind of different and Softer somehow and I prefer it? But at the same time I get chemistry with guys sometimes too and have crushes but it’s more based on their personalities then their physical features, even if I think they’re objectively attractive where as with girls it’s both.
Weirdly I feel like I can be attracted to women who are strangers but not men, with men it seems like I really have to know them well to even attempt at feelings and that doesn’t happen often because even if we get in really well it doesn’t mean that I will be attracted to them just that I might be. I’m at a point where I think I could be with a guy but I’m a lot less motivated to do so because I’m more naturally attracted to women then men.
But apparently, the whole "jerks who don't give a damn about me" seem to be overlapping within this group of women as well:
It felt like the typical "love sickness" which is when you're very suddenly obsessed with someone in an idealistic fashion and your mood is super dependent on your interactions with them..... I found that the only time I could ever fantasize sex with them was when they were this perfect idealistic version of themselves in my mind or if i was obsessed enough.... AKA i couldn't just cut off seeing them like I usually would. Also important to note I never actually felt this physical attraction in person. Once I saw them in person it was disappointing, and if they tried to reciprocate I would immediately stop crushing on them and be so uncomfortable.
Now that I've fully accepted I'm gay I find my crushes on women to be a lot more.... healthy. I truly want a real relationship and not this love sick romance story I was playing in my head to try and convince myself I was straight. And now that my crushes don't involve any deep rooted guilt I just feel like it's so much simpler. I either like someone and am also attracted to them or I don't.
I'm bi. Honestly I don't have a type with men. I can look at a guy who is conventionally attractive and feel nothing yet look at another guy who is also attractive and suddenly I'm reading to go.
At this point I don't have a type which is pretty frustrating for anyone trying to set me up. My type is "I know it when I see it". There's usually something that clicks for me with attraction and I can't exactly out my finger on it because of you look at the history of guys I've been attracted to, they don't have much in common.
I just wanted to hang out with them all the time and be physically close. There are two categories of men I used to like: men that gave me attention first, and men who were completely unavailable. Once, when it turned out a guy I fancied liked me back, my "attraction" basically evaporated on the spot, lol.
Weirdly, I have found that nearly all of the men I had crushes on as a teenager are queer now. I recognise these as "admiration" crushes; they are the kind of people I want to be, rather than be with. This might be similar to the straight girl's "girl crush". In my view, it's perfectly possible to be infatuated with someone not of your preferred gender! Fantasy doesn't always reflect what you really want, and stressing over what is "genuine attraction" has never been very useful.
All these posts were from r/Women. Apparently girls who likes jerks who don't care are basically dykes coping. Once they become available, all the supposed attraction goes away. As expected, in the end of the day all the personality crap is useless. Only looks can do the job.
What is evident to me however is how societal pressures are so intense that even these quirky, redditor degenerate girls will still feel a pressure to like men, so it's not unlikely for them to say they will try to date men once in a while because they "feel" the should:
I'm completely straight as in not even a curiosity toward women. In fact the thought of women is a turn off to me. I watch exclusively gay porn. That said, the things I'm attracted to in a man vary from man to man, but it's usually more about the way they carry themselves and their personality, not their looks. A man's way of thinking is generally opposite of mine (though I am not very feminine myself). I've been with my boyfriend for 13 years so I guess my opinion would be mostly based on how I feel about him (boring talk continues...)
She's completely straight, but only watch gay porn (is she talking about male gay porn? idk). Again, muh "personality" again, she didn't address a single physical characteristic of this such amazing hubby JFL.
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