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Edmund_Kemper
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i love how when a man punches a woman, white knights are all like "ThAt wOmAn bEaTeR iS a CoWaRd. hE's tOo sCaReD tO hUrT sOmEoNe HiS oWn SiZe. i'D mUrDeR HiM iF tHaT wAs mY dAuGhTeR ". Woman beaters aren't cowardly. what they're doing is definitely bad but it isn't cowardly. Let me explain.
The reason woman beaters might beat up a woman is NOT because she's vulnerable or weaker. That's just some dumb assumption people make up just to trick themselves into think they're "more brave" than the woman beater. Common motives for domestic violence against women include wanting to attempt to control their partner usually because of traditional beliefs about women, jealousy, difficulty in regulating anger, feeling inferior to their partner because of educational/socioeconomic background, etc. and some saw or suffered abuse as a child. Some domestic abusers do it for power or control (eg.: assertion of dominance, punishing unwanted behavior, pent-up anger, control of physical/verbal behavior and emotional responses). so some do it to control their partner and get what they want in the relationship or because of anger. some do it for power but that doesn't mean they pick their wife because their wife is vulnerable. they probably pick to overpower their wife because their wife is who they live with. Other common motives among wife-beaters include using violence to prevent their partner from cheating or leaving the relationship, the belief that men are supposed to be in charge of the relationship, etc.
A lot of wife-beaters are also big and strong, so i doubt they're afraid to beat up men and i'm sure most men can easily beat up men. How do I know? Here's how I know:
*Domestic violence is one of the most common crimes of professional athletes, including football players and wrestlers/fighters. look at ray rice, stone cold steve austin, floyd mayweather, greg hardy, dan wilkinson, etc.
*Muscular men actually are more likely to be aggressive and more likely to be experienced in physical violence and this stereotype is true
*Men focused on being muscular are more "misogynistic".
*A lot of the domestic abusers i saw on google images look pretty strong.
*Hypermasculinity (aka emphasis on being as manly as possible, physical strength, and emphasis on aggression) often causes physical and sexual aggression towards women.
*I read a study that men who conform to masculine stereotypes and masculine norms/traditions are more likely to beat their intimate partner. Men who don't care about being manly are less likely to beat their intimate partner.
*Domestic violence is a problem in the military (and so is sexual assault). People in the military are tough and very strong.
If you beat up a woman BECAUSE she's vulnerable, then you might have a cowardly reason for punching her. but if that has NOTHING to do with your motive and you beat her up because you're mad at her and you would be ok with beating up strong men too, then you are NOT a coward at all. in fact, refusing to punch a woman because you're afraid to be called a woman beater and get hated by everyone is cowardly. the reason men often refuse to hit a woman is because they're afraid to be hated violently by everyone and they don't want to be seen as a woman beater. that's cowardly. if hitting a woman was allowed, men would do it. beating a woman takes more balls than beating up a big guy because the big guy will just beat you up and that's it. if you hit a woman, everyone will violently hate you and you'll be ostracized or even jailed. that's worse than getting beaten up by a big guy.
remember some good deeds are cowardly and some bad deeds are brave. you can be a cowardly hero or a brave villain. if you beat up a woman because she's pissing you off or you hate her and it has nothing to do with her being weaker, then how are you cowardly. what are you being afraid of? cowardly means being afraid. Beating up a woman takes a lot of balls and is brave despite being a bad thing to do.
men like this:
are way more likely to beat up a woman than girly men like this:
The reason woman beaters might beat up a woman is NOT because she's vulnerable or weaker. That's just some dumb assumption people make up just to trick themselves into think they're "more brave" than the woman beater. Common motives for domestic violence against women include wanting to attempt to control their partner usually because of traditional beliefs about women, jealousy, difficulty in regulating anger, feeling inferior to their partner because of educational/socioeconomic background, etc. and some saw or suffered abuse as a child. Some domestic abusers do it for power or control (eg.: assertion of dominance, punishing unwanted behavior, pent-up anger, control of physical/verbal behavior and emotional responses). so some do it to control their partner and get what they want in the relationship or because of anger. some do it for power but that doesn't mean they pick their wife because their wife is vulnerable. they probably pick to overpower their wife because their wife is who they live with. Other common motives among wife-beaters include using violence to prevent their partner from cheating or leaving the relationship, the belief that men are supposed to be in charge of the relationship, etc.
A lot of wife-beaters are also big and strong, so i doubt they're afraid to beat up men and i'm sure most men can easily beat up men. How do I know? Here's how I know:
*Domestic violence is one of the most common crimes of professional athletes, including football players and wrestlers/fighters. look at ray rice, stone cold steve austin, floyd mayweather, greg hardy, dan wilkinson, etc.
*Muscular men actually are more likely to be aggressive and more likely to be experienced in physical violence and this stereotype is true
*Men focused on being muscular are more "misogynistic".
*A lot of the domestic abusers i saw on google images look pretty strong.
*Hypermasculinity (aka emphasis on being as manly as possible, physical strength, and emphasis on aggression) often causes physical and sexual aggression towards women.
*I read a study that men who conform to masculine stereotypes and masculine norms/traditions are more likely to beat their intimate partner. Men who don't care about being manly are less likely to beat their intimate partner.
*Domestic violence is a problem in the military (and so is sexual assault). People in the military are tough and very strong.
If you beat up a woman BECAUSE she's vulnerable, then you might have a cowardly reason for punching her. but if that has NOTHING to do with your motive and you beat her up because you're mad at her and you would be ok with beating up strong men too, then you are NOT a coward at all. in fact, refusing to punch a woman because you're afraid to be called a woman beater and get hated by everyone is cowardly. the reason men often refuse to hit a woman is because they're afraid to be hated violently by everyone and they don't want to be seen as a woman beater. that's cowardly. if hitting a woman was allowed, men would do it. beating a woman takes more balls than beating up a big guy because the big guy will just beat you up and that's it. if you hit a woman, everyone will violently hate you and you'll be ostracized or even jailed. that's worse than getting beaten up by a big guy.
remember some good deeds are cowardly and some bad deeds are brave. you can be a cowardly hero or a brave villain. if you beat up a woman because she's pissing you off or you hate her and it has nothing to do with her being weaker, then how are you cowardly. what are you being afraid of? cowardly means being afraid. Beating up a woman takes a lot of balls and is brave despite being a bad thing to do.
men like this:
are way more likely to beat up a woman than girly men like this:
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