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Cope will therapy actually help me

brootalcel

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I've been debating going to therapy for maybe 2 years and its always between money and actual support, I wish their was a trial to see if it actually helped or not. those who have gotten therapy? did it help at all?
 
No it will not. The only person that can save you is you
 
only fakecels and toilets go to therapy,trucels know there's no therapy 4 ur face
 
Probably not, its might be more useful to go out to the middle of the forest and talk to yourself. I tried some before but I felt it was not helping.
 
Yes, trust the process brother, give your money to Israel while you’re at it.
 
No

You'll only get bluepilled garbage shoved (or they'll try to shove) down your throat. I have been through several, and all of them have bullshit talking points you'll encounter in some listicle written by a foid with a BA in marketing, or MSNBC/CNN pop psychology.
Therapists are CLUELESS when dealing with men in our situation - simply because many of them are woke, hate men (including male therapists themselves), and since they have this implicit belief that 'most men shouldn't reproduce so its not a problem if he's alone the rest of his life', they don't view lonley man as an urgent matter. A foid that hates her fat body (whose simple solution is to stop chugging margaritas every weekend) are more important than lonely men with simmering anger

Want some real examples? Here you go:
  • One therapist started dozing off while I was talking
  • Another one laughed when I started explaining the halo effect and how it starts from childhood
Though extremely rare, there are good psychologists out there, but they have a brutally high price and are often overbooked. The vast majority of psychologists - and pretty much damn near ALL female psychologists - were bar hopping party animals that majored in psychology because they didn't really know what to do after high school, and then, decided to go to grad school because they either still weren't sure what they wanted to do and/or wanted to delay the usual M-F 9-5 work grind
 
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Saving money will actually help you
 
You are paying for an foid to gaslight you.
 
My opinion on TheRapists, SSRIs and similar:
Therapy is a professional gaslighting service. The entire purpose of therapy is to tell you that your suffering is entirely brought upon you by yourself, not by anything external. It could be argued that therapy could help some extremely low IQcels who genuinely don't know why they are unhappy, but if you are here on this website you already know the problems you have and where they stem from.
The thing about SSRIs is that their entire premise is false. People are not depressed because there is some sort of chemical imbalance in their head, people are depressed because there are tangible things that suck about their lives, like being an incel for example. Besides that, the idea that one can be constantly happy or constantly miserable is also false. Life follows a cycle where things feel bad, then good and then bad again and so on. How much worse or how much better each of these stages in the cycle feels is completely random, sometimes you will only feel 5% better or worse meanwhile other times you can feel as much as 70% better or worse. How long each of these stages lasts is also completely random, you could feel so bad that it's as if death's hand is on your shoulder for months on end, or things could be cycling rapidly throughout the day which can be pretty disorienting. Either way it helps to be aware of this cycle, and you should allow yourself to act appropriately to how you are feeling in each stage. Don't get fooled by all the redpill "thug it out" attitude nonsense, if you feel the need to bitch out, then bitch out.

Besides all that it helps to develop advanced copes, and to accrue knowledge about how the world and people are truly like. If you for example deeply desire to love or to be loved by a woman, it helps to understand the true nature of women and how that just isn't possible (bluepilled niggas on here will disagree with me on this). Here are two good threads on that:
The second thread goes into the faults normie (neurotypical/NPC) men have as well, and how friendships aren't really a thing either (again, bluepilled users will disagree with me on this, take it or leave it).

There is more that can be said about it than that but hopefully the above is enough information to get you started on real blackpill knowledge. A lot of it is painful, but there are silver linings you can find in it, and those things will actually set you free, unlike the poison that is SSRIs and TheRapists (therapists = professional gaslighters).
 
Going to therapy just makes everything worse than it already was before.
 
How a man who uses .is can debate going to TheRapy for 2 years is beyond insane. With that sort of neuroticism you'd probably benefit from it, just don't expect it to fix anything related to being an incel.
 
Don't waste money on theRAPEy. They're just a bunch of "clinical professionals" who scam people legally. Imagine being gaslighted into bluepilled thinking, just to "feel better" temporarily and then be a part of soyciety, just to notice that lookism and discrimination still exist. Oh, and don't forget, misandry as well.
 
Therapy is horseshit used to confuse you're head, all they do is gaslight and lie so weak people and foids feel better
 
pretty much damn near ALL female psychologists - were bar hopping party animals that majored in psychology because they didn't really know what to do after high school, and then, decided to go to grad school because they either still weren't sure what they wanted to do and/or wanted to delay the usual M-F 9-5 work grind
This. None of them wanted to be a therapist. They did psychology because it is an easy degree that sounds important.

I had to take therapy/counselling as a part of employment and I would never have done it if it weren't 100% paid by the company and taking therapy counted as work hours.

It was absolutely worthless. It's only good if you want woke or feminist ideology drilled into you. They also just try random psyche tip they heard on a podcast. This was all done by highly reviewed therapists/counsellers/doctors who charged the company upwards of $2,000 an hour.

They don't care about you at all. Don't do it
 
It's a waste of money for 95% of ppl
Some ppl do need it
 
Therapy can help you to have good habits and thinking good, I guess, but at the end, a therapist is a bluepiller.
 
Therapist
The(RAPIST)
Don't go
 

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