The issue you have identified is something that is endemic to all higher animals, all of which reproduce sexually. That is that the very act of sexual competition is essentially a giant obstacle course designed to weed out undesirable traits. There will always be winners and losers in this game. In mammalian species like apes, the males are usually the ones that run through this course. This is where bribing, betabuxxing, LMS, etc come into play. Consider the female as a giant evolutionary filter. They are the selectors in our species. They choose who gets to pass on their genes. All sexual, and subsequently romantic, inequality seems from this competition and method of reproduction.
Now, their criteria isn't based on anything modern, but instead on criteria from 20k years ago. They don't value intelligence or stability for sexual encounters, just bone length and status. Civilization, a uniquely male concept designed to equally distribute reproductive access, cannot survive this devolution, and our IQ scores and overall quality of life indexes are starting to show what happens when foids are allowed to breed with whoever they want. Left to their own devices, females will destroy civilization (patriarchy) and replace it with endless anarchy and entropy (matriarchy). We are beginning to see this in the West with the gradual destruction and decline of our societies. By the end of the century, our once great nations will be reduced to third world conditions if this is not stopped.
The problem is that females control evolution and who gets to pass on their genes. Their selection criteria for who gets to pass on their genes is based on criteria from 20000 BC and not 2020 AD.
There are a few solutions to this problem. The first is to simply control foids (the traditionalist path). This is what was done in past societies. The problem is that these control mechanisms will break down over time and the system will collapse over and over again. What is happening today happened in ancient Rome and China and quite possibly other advanced civilizations. In short, it is not a permanent solution, and akin to keeping smallpox or a super virus locked in your freezer. One or a small series of mistakes are all it takes to destroy civilization.
Furthermore, technology and mechanized systems of agriculture and production have made many nonsexual female roles obsolete. Foids no longer have to spend hours doing menial chores. Men created machines that do all those things faster and better than they could. This leaves foids with no real purpose, idling aimlessly and getting themselves, and society at large, into trouble. We also eliminated the threat of accidental pregnancy via contraception. Foids can now have aimless sex and not worry about consequences, excepting STDs of course. Add instant communication to all of this. This is how we got to where we are today.
So the traditionalist path forward, in my opinion, is no longer viable. We can't keep them in chains anymore because they will constantly try to destroy those chains, and the tools used to break those chains (social media/instant communication, rapid transportation, other forms of technology) have proliferated to a point of no return.
The path I propose, and I believe it is the best solution, is to begin to move away from females entirely and replace them with artificial alternatives. The alternatives will exclusively serve males and our needs, and will provide a more stable environment for our progeny and civilization to grow and prosper. These alternatives are on the horizon already, and will be competitive with foids in 20 years.
tl;dr
Foids and their reproductive monopoly are the problem. They are naturally destructive to civilization because they don't reproduce based on modern criteria but based on prehistoric and preagricultural criteria. Sexual reproduction grants them the exclusive power to produce more humans, thus we have to deal with them. By replacing them in their roles with machines of various kinds and making it to where we can reproduce by ourselves without foids, we liberate ourselves from this evolutionary tyranny and finally escape this hellish cycle we, and males in general, are trapped in.
