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So many guys here cold approaching lately, the most notable being @uninstall. He is on a quest towards 1000 rejections. If you don't get a single number in 100 approaches, you're simply just very unattractive in women's eyes.
Most slayers get rejected most of the time, but they still get contact information of some of the girls they approach.
Example from another forum, from a slightly above average looking guy (guy is far from being a male model):
This guy got 30 numbers and an instant date from 100 approaches.
Look how easy it is for guys who don't look like absolute ass. Girls will absolutely give out their contact information to guys they find attractive. If you don't get a single number after 100 approaches, you won't after 1000 or 1000000 for that matter. It's time to face reality and call it quits.
Most slayers get rejected most of the time, but they still get contact information of some of the girls they approach.
Example from another forum, from a slightly above average looking guy (guy is far from being a male model):
(I tried to write everything down yesterday but my PC broke down :sick: )
Yesterday I did 38 approaches
Won't retell them all
But this time I took count with a notepad, usually I tried to recall and forgot some, not this time.
38 approaches = 11 rejection 8 taken 6 unavailable 13 contacts (1 insta-date)
Very few missed approaches
The insta-date
Met her closer to the end. Walked together towards her place, the metro was crowded from all the people, I was holding her tight. Got a bit of a romantic vibe going on.
New record
My last one was 33 in a day, at the beginning of my career, that one was crazy, this day was much more chill in comparison. I've grown a lot.
So 38 is my new record for daily approaches (and 97 for the weekly).
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Week Summary (09.07 - 16.07 2018)
5 + 3 + 13 + 11 + 2 + 25 + 38 = 97 approaches
26 rejection 25 taken 5 don't remember 9 unavailable 30 contacts(1 insta-date)
I was aiming for 100, I could have definitely done, I thought I did, I miscalculated, fuckinch: Well, no worries I was close and know I can do it. Perfectionists get nothing. Plus, this is a chance to get it next time
1 date which didn't work due to miscommunication
1 date - nothing
1 date - touching and light kissing
1 insta-date - touching and light kissing
1 date with aggressive groping in public
2 meetups with Witness
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Found my new style of approaching
We were discussing with Witness which style of approach to use. I found it on Sunday.
I just approach and say "hi you are cute", then "I was just checking X", then "look I have to go, how about we get drinks sometimes" and that's it. Works like a charm, got plenty of contacts, even better than usual, but maybe it was just luck. Either way, at least no worse than usual, plus I spend less time. I don't think you gain anything from talking longer.
To be fair, only a few answered back, a bit less than usual, but again, maybe a bit of fluke. I will have to test both approaches back to back and see which works better for what. But I like my new one so I will stick to it for now.
Got a complete grip
So I finally got a complete grip on daygame for the most part. I finally found my approach, the "perfect" one, and I just repeat it over and over. It takes minimal effort now, I really feel like I know what I am doing. I said such stuff before, but now it is different. It doesn't involve even 0 percent of effort, I really can do it blindfolded.
Plus, thanks to Witness, I was inspired and now I even approach girls that pass me, just go from behind if I miss her or whatnot.
Still could improve killer instinct and add more screening in the mix. Called girls sexy a few times, could do it more, but yeah growing a lot.
The mega-session did wonders, took advantage of being in a big city. I was pumped, catching momentum left and right. Will try to use this approach in the closest future.
Was supposed to reach 100 approaches last week, let's hope I can get those soon
The meetup with Witness
Had fun, I will post some edited pics later
Learned a lot for myself and he learned too, very productive. The Sunday session proved it to me
Would have had dates every single day last week
If it wasn't for the meetups I would have had dates every single day. That's quite an achievement. I have dates almost every day now.
I am on the verge of a breakthrough, real crazy soon, but I am tired and need a small break.
Found the ratio
Fun fact, my ratio this week is similar to the ratio of my first 500 aproaches.
approx.
25% rejection 25% taken %10 unavailable 33% contacts 2% other 5%- margin of error / variance
Seems like a pretty stable pattern so far.
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Today I approached 3 girls
1) rejection
2) taken
3) married
Don't even remember the details
3 approaches = 1 rejection 2 taken
Missed opportunities
1 or 2 missed opportunities cause I was slow, killer instinct could have been on higher alert
Met some girl from ago, she's still busy, eh fuck her
Had a date today that was cancelled. Have dates planned from tomorrow to Friday / Saturday. Let's see how it goes
A girl has oneitis for me
This girl is texting out of blue and wants to meet, she's ready to fly just to meet me, crazy. Later she said she wants a serious relationship and I said it won't happen.
If we ever meet I'll probably smash.
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Need a break
Getting used to the grind, but a break would be nice.
This guy got 30 numbers and an instant date from 100 approaches.
Look how easy it is for guys who don't look like absolute ass. Girls will absolutely give out their contact information to guys they find attractive. If you don't get a single number after 100 approaches, you won't after 1000 or 1000000 for that matter. It's time to face reality and call it quits.
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