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why self improovment is useless and you shouldn't bother

proudweeb

proudweeb

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From somewhere between the ages of 21 and 28, I did the following:

-Wake up early every day
-Shower daily
-Brush teeth
-Good hygeine
-Dress better
-Get a basic job
-Graduate college
-Get a haircut
-Get a good career
-Try not to think so negatively
-Better diet, no sugar
-Avoid alcohol, drugs
-Take supplements
-Move out of parents' house
-Get a decent car
-Invest for retirement
-Have plenty of hobbies
-Occasional exercise
-Try to talk to people, attempt to make friends
-Attempt "online dating"

The ONLY thing I achieved by all this is to afford mildly better copes than I could 10 years ago. Yet I'm still incel at age 32. In retrospect it would have been better to only looksmax and moneymaxx. Everything else was just wasted effort and cope. The worst thing is I'm probably less happy than I was at age 22. I feel like I peaked then, and now it's downhill. I still feel like I wasted my 20s despite all that crap I tried. I could have enjoyed life more had I not bothered with the self improvement treadmill. Plus, now all this stuff is a pile of additional responsibilities.

All I really want to do in my 30s:
-Continue to invest aggressively so I can quit wagecucking much earlier than normal (mainly just want the freedom from a 9-5, NEETing is sadly not an option where I live)
-Be somewhat healthy enough that I don't have to deal with medical issues
-Maybe consoom the occasional product here or there to cope (but not too much, because that takes away from the first item)
-Somehow make it to 40 without roping
 
Self help is a cope i hate people with passion whoever has a self help book in their homes
 
It's hard to believe a postmaxxer did those things
 
Self help is a cope i hate people with passion whoever has a self help book in their homes
That's true. I think I read that shit "the 7 habits of highly effective people" at like age 14 or something lol
 
In retrospect it would have been better to only looksmax and moneymaxx.
I honestly think so.
If you have late bloomer genetics, you could have probably heightmaxx with MK 677, aromatase inhibitors, among other things.
You probably could have leg lengthening surgery to heightmaxx or surgery to improve your face.
I mean, Kim Kardashian changed from a Becky to gigastacy with money.
 
Well, sitting at the computer for hours grinding away at sewer threads takes effort :feelshaha:
Yes, it takes a lot of effort, especially with the current rules and 10-second waiting periods.
 
I want to die
I see what you mean. I'm running out of copes. I'm pretty much down to food, drinks, this forum, and the occasional interesting article/video I can find online. That's about it
 
no self improvement 4 ur face
 
I'm coping with self improvement right now, boyo. Hope I will ascend but I know I won't. :cryfeels:
 
I'm coping with self improvement right now, boyo. Hope I will ascend but I know I won't. :cryfeels:
Depends on your age and if you're still in high school or college (i.e., tons of foids around to interact with). Beyond that, it's over, and self improvement will ONLY help you make money
 
I'll probably end up roping before I ever turn 30.
 
Depends on your age and if you're still in high school or college (i.e., tons of foids around to interact with). Beyond that, it's over, and self improvement will ONLY help you make money
My plan is to moneymaxx to buy stacies eggs and make a chadilte or at least a normie, or never reproduce at all. Either way my incel bloodline will end. :feelzez:
 
My plan is to moneymaxx to buy stacies eggs and make a chadilte or at least a normie, or never reproduce at all. Either way my incel bloodline will end. :feelzez:
The idea of ever getting married or having a kid is so foreign to me, I feel like getting abducted by aliens is a higher probability
 
The idea of ever getting married or having a kid is so foreign to me, I feel like getting abducted by aliens is a higher probability
Extremely true. I reccomend coping with math and sciences like chemistry or physics. The anger and frustration will keep you distracted from the lack of attention foids give us.
 
Extremely true. I reccomend coping with math and sciences like chemistry or physics. The anger and frustration will keep you distracted from the lack of attention foids give us.
I had plenty of that stuff in college lol, some chemistry stuff is interesting to read about
 
-Wake up early every day
-Shower daily
-Brush teeth
-Good hygeine
-Dress better
-Get a basic job
-Graduate college
-Get a haircut
-Get a good career
-Try not to think so negatively
-Better diet, no sugar
-Avoid alcohol, drugs
-Take supplements
-Move out of parents' house
-Get a decent car
-Invest for retirement
-Have plenty of hobbies
-Occasional exercise
-Try to talk to people, attempt to make friends
-Attempt "online dating"
I do none of these things
 
Someone posted this in another thread, and I think it sums up very well what I mean to get at here:

"Self improvement is ultimately a cope, and it definitely should not be done or practiced simply for foids; no amount of wealthmaxxing or gymmaxxing will ever truly make you attractive to foids, seeing as your subhuman bone structure/facial features/race/height/NT status will always remain... :feelsclown:

Though it may help in terms of self defense/comfort/copemaxxing; anything else having to do with "personality" or such is instantly a useless bluepilled cope, considering that your looks and other halos/failos directly influence how foids percieve your personality/how interesting you are. :feelsUgh:"
 
I see what you mean. I'm running out of copes. I'm pretty much down to food, drinks, this forum, and the occasional interesting article/video I can find online. That's about it
i have pretty much nothing. im now starting a porn video mashup of my favorite scenes. maybe i can rise to fame
 
The ONLY time proudweeb is serious
 
Shit, proudpimp is going mental

You are 32??? Wow, the fuck - you can easily chat like some 16 yo.. thats actually great, you are not overly serious

Good man, good man.. i want to invest too - but you need money to start it
 
Based. Self improvement is a load of crap
 
-Somehow make it to 40 without roping
Shit. I can't imagine living past my 50s or 60s at best. I'd rather die alone in my own home then be stuck in some retirement community where your caretakers don't give two shits about you. It would become boring and miserable pretty quickly as well considering you have absolutely nothing to talk about with the old people there (unless you wanna tell them that you rotted on incel fourms and wageslaved for your entire life), nor any family or friends to come visit you.

Being alone in a crowd of people is way more brutal than being alone by yourself.
 
im now 21 and smoking,drinking my life away :smonk:
 
Ugh… posts like this make me feel fuckin sad.
 
Why is self help a cope? Who else is going to help me, you?
Not some book written by a conman thats for sure, lookmaxx and leanmaxx is the only way for you to ascend not some shit like "think and grow rich"
 
It all depends on the potential of each person but the reality is that it is only for a handful of people.
 
No improvement for face or height
 
Shit, proudpimp is going mental

You are 32??? Wow, the fuck - you can easily chat like some 16 yo.. thats actually great, you are not overly serious

Good man, good man.. i want to invest too - but you need money to start it
Yeah im an oldcel pretty much lol, spent most of my formative years on the internet. I have to be serious enough in day to day life, so when I come here I try to be a bit more light hearted

No improvement for face or height
Yup that's pretty much my issue
 
I have to be serious enough in day to day life, so when I come here I try to be a bit more light hearted
yeah, can totally relate
aint like somebody gonna bitch over my antics in the internet.. cant do shit irl - why not get it back at the internet?
 
im now 21 and smoking,drinking my life away :smonk:
I tried this but the side effects actually felt worse than the buzz

Shit. I can't imagine living past my 50s or 60s at best. I'd rather die alone in my own home then be stuck in some retirement community where your caretakers don't give two shits about you. It would become boring and miserable pretty quickly as well considering you have absolutely nothing to talk about with the old people there (unless you wanna tell them that you rotted on incel fourms and wageslaved for your entire life), nor any family or friends to come visit you.

Being alone in a crowd of people is way more brutal than being alone by yourself.
That's very true. When my parents pass (they are late 60s-early 70s) I will be 100% alone. I'd bet a lifetime of mental illness will result in dementia or other issues by the time I'm in my 60s
 
i dont feel anything honestly, i just dont care anymore
This is how I feel in general. Running out of copes. My only emotions are either nothing, or angry
 
Not some book written by a conman thats for sure, lookmaxx and leanmaxx is the only way for you to ascend not some shit like "think and grow rich"
I agree 100% with you on that. Also practically every book written on religion/spirituality can be put in the same category of conman except for a rare few.
 
If you have late bloomer genetics, you could have probably heightmaxx with MK 677, aromatase inhibitors, among other things.
Do those even work past like the age of 20 (even with late bloomer genes)? Seems like snake oil especially once your growth plates are fused.
 
Do those even work past like the age of 20 (even with late bloomer genes)? Seems like snake oil especially once your growth plates are fused.
Probably if they are late bloomers, they can grow; some grow until like 25.
Growth plates also close at different stages of life; spine growth plates can close around 25.
 

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