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Serious Why normies say to "just go outside" and laugh at BP + where i've been if anyone knows me/gives a fuck

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I've been trying to normie socialcirclemaxx recently, i've been moderately succesful but theres still a lot of work to do.

I'm fortunate that it has resulted in me going out to do things outside on occasion, rather than sitting on .is posting for 8 hours a day (i seriously used to do this)

After awhile, even though it is still incorrect, you can start to understand why a normie may dismiss the blackpill, and simply tell you to just "go outside bro" :soy:

Obviously for inkwells with no friends (formerly me) this advice sucks, you can't just "go outside" by yourself thats obviously shit, boring and pointless.

And I don't think joining a club is amazing either although I have never tried it, I may well try it once or twice at some point however I already doubt it will yield me as strong results as I am having now.

And that's really the only 2 main options for a friendless incel, I didn't do either of these, I was just lucky (luckpill is the most important of them all) that my old high school friend decided to start being friends with me again, and has brought me into a new friend group that is not associated with my old high school.

After being around these people for a few hours, all of them taller than me and nearly by a foot, only one of them is my height or close to it. I can tell you that due to propinquity effect (effect of being around people alot makes you like them more) and just messing around and being tired and exhausted from going out and running around a bit, you're not thinking about a blackpill, a heightmog, a canthal tilt etc.

I don't feel inferior at all even though they are all taller than me, it is there a little in the back of my mind "oh this guys 6'1, this guys 6'3" but it really isnt a big deal.

This isnt a bluepill defense or promotion or anything, I could possibly explain it better but I am tired and I think if I don't make this post now I never will as I stopped coming on here as much as I would like to sadly.

And I really am not sure yet if these friend groups can really help with women much, I honestly think i'm on my own there or I still have a very long way to go so the blackpill still applies there.

@BlackCel_from_ZA @VintageCarCoper @ilieknothing @DarkStar @TheGrayWolf @reveries @Mecoja
 
friend mogs me
I'm still kind of like the outer circle friend but yeah, they were talking about plans without me and stuff but i'm not like bullied or outcasted, I just can't be autistic and invite myself I have to NTmaxx
 
Happy for you brocel.
 
I always advocate for lifemaxxing overall and social circle maxxing, so you have my full support saaar and I'm glad you're doing great brocel :dab::feelscomfy: one step at a time. I got very good at masking/faking being NT with years, normies almost never sniff out my autism. If you're not hideously ugly and deformed you shouldn't rot, in my opinion. You still have a chance at life
 
Good for you. I wish I could fit in with the people around me, but no matter what I try, it just doesn't seem to work.
 
You are lucky you are NT, we aspiecels dont have these opportunities
 
Happy for you brocel.
Thank you I really appreciate that, im just lucky lucky lucky
I always advocate for lifemaxxing overall and social circle maxxing, so you have my full support saaar and I'm glad you're doing great brocel :dab::feelscomfy: one step at a time. I got very good at masking/faking being NT with years, normies almost never sniff out my autism. If you're not hideously ugly and deformed you shouldn't rot, in my opinion. You still have a chance at life
The issue with advocating is what do you do if you have no social circle to maxx? lol that was my issue for a long time.

I'm not ugly, my issues are mostly my height, I used to also be non NT, I have alot of other issues too (back acne, scoliosis) etc. that I could list off but they arent really something like race or face

I still have a chance at some life but im never having teen love, parties etc. my lifes still shit compared to most normies and I have missed out on a lot but its better than perma rotting, I still rot sometimes.
Good for you. I wish I could fit in with the people around me, but no matter what I try, it just doesn't seem to work.
I think i'm just lucky that these are good people, they could easily bully me but they don't, life is just luck, maybe if you were with these people too you could fit in, although that being said its not effortless on my part either but they make it very easy.
You are lucky you are NT, we aspiecels dont have these opportunities
I am yeah, idk if I am completely naturally NT though I kind of had to learn it, throughout all of school I was non NT and it completely ruined me honestly and its made me incel to this day, now I am NT or I guess i'm just good at playing pretend maybe? But it's too late, i am making some progress trying to get in this new friend group or whatever but it's hard work in a sense, way harder than if I was just back at high school and I am nowhere near an ascension, if theres any opportunities related to ascending by socialcirclemaxxing that are interesting I will probably post it.
 
I got my "friend" group through jestermaxxing. If I wasn't manlet and balding I wouldn't have needed to do that. Fuck this life.
 
I have some friends as well and it doesn’t help in getting foids. A foid wanting to have sex with you is purely due to looks. If a foid is willing to be your friend and not fuck you is an indication that you’re ugly
 
>Just go outside

A timeless classic
 
I usually take two week breaks form this place

Nothing ever changes
 
I've been trying to normie socialcirclemaxx recently, i've been moderately succesful but theres still a lot of work to do.

I'm fortunate that it has resulted in me going out to do things outside on occasion, rather than sitting on .is posting for 8 hours a day (i seriously used to do this)

After awhile, even though it is still incorrect, you can start to understand why a normie may dismiss the blackpill, and simply tell you to just "go outside bro" :soy:

Obviously for inkwells with no friends (formerly me) this advice sucks, you can't just "go outside" by yourself thats obviously shit, boring and pointless.

And I don't think joining a club is amazing either although I have never tried it, I may well try it once or twice at some point however I already doubt it will yield me as strong results as I am having now.

And that's really the only 2 main options for a friendless incel, I didn't do either of these, I was just lucky (luckpill is the most important of them all) that my old high school friend decided to start being friends with me again, and has brought me into a new friend group that is not associated with my old high school.

After being around these people for a few hours, all of them taller than me and nearly by a foot, only one of them is my height or close to it. I can tell you that due to propinquity effect (effect of being around people alot makes you like them more) and just messing around and being tired and exhausted from going out and running around a bit, you're not thinking about a blackpill, a heightmog, a canthal tilt etc.

I don't feel inferior at all even though they are all taller than me, it is there a little in the back of my mind "oh this guys 6'1, this guys 6'3" but it really isnt a big deal.

This isnt a bluepill defense or promotion or anything, I could possibly explain it better but I am tired and I think if I don't make this post now I never will as I stopped coming on here as much as I would like to sadly.

And I really am not sure yet if these friend groups can really help with women much, I honestly think i'm on my own there or I still have a very long way to go so the blackpill still applies there.

@BlackCel_from_ZA @VintageCarCoper @ilieknothing @DarkStar @TheGrayWolf @reveries @Mecoja
Holy fucking shit mang, thats good to hear. No ways we made a similar thread pertaining to why we don't spend as much time on .is as we used to do kek


That's good to hear that the blackpill intrusive thoughts don't run rampant anymore, I can't say the same for myself but I've accepted that it's over, now it's time to live life mang.
 
Happy for you brocel
 
I have some friends as well and it doesn’t help in getting foids. A foid wanting to have sex with you is purely due to looks. If a foid is willing to be your friend and not fuck you is an indication that you’re ugly
Well I mean a socialcircle is better for getting foids than none lol, but most of the time socialcircle doesnt even have foids in it and if it does they will just go to the chaddiest in the group which isnt me, unfortunately I dont think its that type of social circle that will make me ascend but at least now I cant be like "oh if i had GF she will think im friendless loser" but then again you do see those ugly normies that just got a a GF because they are normiemaxxed.

Trust me literally EVERY SINGLE TIME you see an ugly short guy, every SINGLE time, they are always NT ALWAYS normiemaxxed to the maxxxx.

I've genuinely never seen a guy thats ugly, short and non NT/no social circle have a GF
Holy fucking shit mang, thats good to hear. No ways we made a similar thread pertaining to why we don't spend as much time on .is as we used to do kek
Lol, i guess yours is more wageslaving and stuff but yeah, coincidental, it'll be something new working for a few months at least but probably gonna get boring sadly, the site itself has just gotten kinda not so good I feel like
That's good to hear that the blackpill intrusive thoughts don't run rampant anymore, I can't say the same for myself but I've accepted that it's over, now it's time to live life mang.
It's bound to run less rampant, i guess its that whole idle hands are the devils work thing

I only regret learning the BP when im home alone and depressed but it can only enhance my life when im not a friendless loser, the issue is upgrading my life to the point I consistently have enough friends and possibly even a lady to the point where im not always thinking about this stuff as much because of that
Happy for you brocel
Thank you, its been a better year than 2023 because of that for me, I hope I can make my ascension thread at some point, its far off at the moment but I think maybe I could do it eventually this stuff just takes time, I still need to get my drivers license which is a big one but I have been feeling more confident in the car recently in areas where I was not as confident (mainly stuff like parking, reverse parking, using mirrors, not hitting objects)
 
Its impossible to get into a group if youre solo, for normies its always their older friend, brother cousin etc that helps them around. Being around people breaks social anxiety down, because reshapes the damage done to the brain which makes you fear it. Facing fear is only way to beat it little by little. Socialization is learned, people learn social rules by interacting and imitating others, its hard once youre an adult, as normies learn this while growing up so it comes to them naturally. The older you get you have less opportunities and willpower to get into social group so its important not to give up early on. Theres a possibility for them to just ditch you one day sadly.
 

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