Blackpill Why love doesn't exit, my essay

[xXnobodyXx]

inb4: tl;dr

(Sorry for my grammar, english is not my native language)

Love is a lie and here's why:

Love is an Ilusion, one neurochemical explosion made by evolution to guide the being into reproducing, the main drive of any living being is to propagate;

The less rational, the stronger the passion and the pleasure in sex will be, anyway, once the act is done there's a clear decline in "passion". https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/20345737/

People's nature has an influence in their behavior towards this feeling, people externally guided tend to be satisfied with lascive pleasures, no need for emotional bond,

people a little less guided externally tend to need a little emotional bond to maximize pleasure in sex, analitical people, guided mainly towards metaphisics may be too rational to get totally absorbed with such material apearences;

when an "emotion" is rationalized it loses at least half of it's power, through rationalization sex is nothing more than a friction of sexual organs, followed by espasms, muscular contractions, an orgasmic jet and one dopamine rush, all of this motivated by an primitive animal instinct.

there's a lot of reasons people may marry and love is not the real one, I'm gonna tell only some to not extend me too much, after one year into a relationship it is proven that the initial passion pretty much doesn't exist, what keeps the relationship going from this moment on are the utilitarianism of it(mainly for women due to their hipergamic nature), for the women, for example, in general they stay with men due to the amount of benefits they can get from the best man they can keep with their current beauty, if you start to remove those benefits he ensures( money, lascive pleasure, status, social validation, moral support, etc.) there won't be needed to remove much before the woman lose all "love", this just proves that she never loved him for the being he was in the first place, love has nothing metaphisical or virtuous about it, it is a an beautiful apologie for a selfish social contract of interests, that's why the number one factor to a long lasting marriage is resilience(with a drop of despair for social contact )

 

[BlkPillPres]

Watch as copers come into the thread to tell you that you're coping, and that they are going to keep chasing after the dream of "ascending" for decades until they die having wasted their life.

 

[xXnobodyXx]

Watch as copers come into the thread to tell you that you're coping, and that they are going to keep chasing after the dream of "ascending" for decades until they die having wasted their life.

I'm already expecting that, I'm just waiting for the first retard to come and say "Nice cope fagcell, you're just a loser"

 

[Oroborus]

You're coping, I'm going to keep chashing after my dream of ascending.

I'm already expecting that, I'm just waiting for the first retard to come and say "Nice cope fagcell, you're just a loser"

Nice cope fagcell

 

[Persecuted]

Romantic love is invention of exhalted romantic poets and philosphers who had too much time on thier hand. Dante Alighieri never meet Beatrice, only saw here only in his teen in Florence, whereas he spent of of his life in exile.

 

[Sigma]

Impressive take for a 2022 graycel

 

[xXnobodyXx]

Romantic love is invention of exhalted romantic poets and philosphers who had too much time on thier hand. Dante Alighieri never meet Beatrice, only saw here only in his teen in Florence, whereas he spent of of his life in exile.

The notion of love was created by the church, marriage used to be seen just as the social contract it is before that

 

[InMemoriam]

Based I've done my homework too

For naivecels, romanticels out here you've been fed lies by norms,disney and hollywood,bluepill peers, your boomer parents, your local church alongside the endless masses of social media!

This thread is much needed to debunk those lies, dissociate oneself from the fallacy of romantic love.

What is love?

• The notion of love is in fact purely a social construct that consists of ideals perpetuated by mass media and exist as societal norms; to ensure social order, alike the sanctity of matrimony, aimed at the simplification of legal dispute refinances, property, maintenance of children etc that would arise with polygamy.

• The idea of romantic love has gained force from the 12th century. But even then, it was not love as we see it nowadays. Love redefines and reconstructs itself according to the world’s new needs, visions and ideas.

Romance is an idealistic deception, an illusory feeling that gets stronger with distance and obstacles. Romantic love is instilled into every facet of Western societies to mislead people to see what they want to see, what they imagine and perfect the other person to be like inside their heads, removing all sorts of imperfections and finally resulting in the idea that two people can blend into one and lose their individuality.

What is romantic love objectively?

Romantic love can be broken down into three categories: lust, attraction, and attachment. Each category is characterized by its own set of hormones stemming from the brain.

Love can be distilled into three categories: lust, attraction, and attachment

• Testosterone and estrogen drive lust; dopamine, norepinephrine, and serotonin create attraction; and oxytocin and vasopressin mediate attachment.
• Lust is driven by the desire for sexual gratification. The evolutionary basis for this stems from our need to reproduce. The hypothalamus of the brain plays a big role in this, stimulating the production of the sex hormones testosterone and estrogen from the testes and ovaries.

The testes and ovaries secrete the sex hormones testosterone and estrogen, driving sexual desire. Dopamine, oxytocin, and vasopressin are all made in the hypothalamus, a region of the brain that controls many vital functions as well as emotion. Several of the regions of the brain that affect love. Lust and attraction shut off the prefrontal cortex of the brain, which includes rational behavior.

• Attraction involves the brain pathways that control “reward” behavior. High levels of dopamine and a related hormone, norepinephrine, are released during attraction.
• Attachment is the predominant factor in long-term relationships. The two primary hormones here appear to be oxytocin and vasopressin.
• Like dopamine, oxytocin is produced by the hypothalamus and released in large quantities during sex, breastfeeding, and childbirth, the common factor here is that all of these events are precursors to bonding.

 

[xXnobodyXx]

Based I've done my homework too

That looks perfect, well done friend

 

[InMemoriam]

That looks perfect, well done friend

 

[Persecuted]

The notion of love was created by the church, marriage used to be seen just as the social contract it is before that

Notion of love already existed in greek philosophy way before the Christ. But back then they have multiple words for different types of love - agape, philia, eros, storge etc. Church adapted those word (the new testament was written in koine greek) to explain concepts of chritian theology, the Agape was exemplfied as highest form of love.

The concept of love also took its secular shape in troubadour's song and courtly love with its most notable, centuries later, being in romanitc poetry, where love itself gained spiritual significance of its own disconnected from all religious meaning. This is essentially modern foundation of notion of love, hence the term "romantic love".

 

[ResidentHell]

in general they stay with men due to the amount of benefits they can get from the best man they can keep with their current beauty, if you start to remove those benefits he ensures( money, lascive pleasure, status, social validation, moral support, etc.) there won't be needed to remove much before the woman lose all "love", this just proves that she never loved him for the being he was in the first place

love has nothing metaphisical or virtuous about it, it is a an beautiful apologie for a selfish social contract of interests, that's why the number one factor to a long lasting marriage is resilience

Well said OP. Its a shame many males are -ers who will senselessly disagree because they've succumbed to the forces of gynocentrism

 

[Asgard]

Water thread, simple as that.

 

[xXnobodyXx]

Water thread, simple as that.

still needed to be said, some important basic things must be reinforced so they're constantly in the screen of our minds

 

[Cuckoja]

Doesnt matter. Support, companionship and both sexual and emotional intimacy, all those exist and are really important.

 

[xXnobodyXx]

Doesnt matter. Support, companionship and both sexual and emotional intimacy, all those exist and are really important.

Yes, they exist, they are a great illusion, they look noble don't they? Just know that to get them you just have to be beautiful or at least have some good amount of money, there's no imaterial reason or magical feeling towards you Anyone can replace you with the right conditions, sometimes all it needs is to her ovulation day to coincide with the day some guy with a huge bulge hit her up, damn, that's gonna be a great day for your love

 

[Inceldom Victim]

High iq as fuck