I posted this before when I first joined, but that was 2-3 years ago. Posting it again as I’m looking for new opinions, and the original thread did not get much comments, and also because to this day I still think about how my aunt suddenly switched up on me and I’m so confused.
Story:
Looks wise, I’m facially average and 5”7’, and carousel.
Haven’t seen this auntie in 7 years now. As a kid she used to be very kind to me, and I used to visit her often. I don’t know what happened now. I think it's the transition from teenager to adult.
When I was approaching 20 years-old she started to act very awkward and uncomfortable around me, as if I did something unforgivable to her.
If I was in the same room as her she would turn her body away as if she was too scared to be in my line of sight. If I was sat in her line of sight she would put her child on her lap and hide behind it. She would hesitate entering a room if I was in there.
Once I saw her in public while I was with my friend, she gave me this cold emotionless look and looked away. No smile, no wave, nothing.
I then dreaded going to any of my relatives' houses just in case she would be there as I couldn’t stand being treated like a sub-5 again unprovoked. At this point I can never forgive her for behaving like this for no reason, and would not want to see her ever again. But at the same time I'm very disappointed because she's a really cool auntie . . . I just wish things were different.
What the fuck did I even do? Why is she behaving like this? She’s my auntie I should be able to confide in her but she acts like I’m a subhuman disease who should just die.
Could it be because I didn’t grow much past my teenage years and I’m now roughly the same height as her? But in curry culture everyone’s used to males being short and facially below average. Even her husband is the same.
Story:
Looks wise, I’m facially average and 5”7’, and carousel.
Haven’t seen this auntie in 7 years now. As a kid she used to be very kind to me, and I used to visit her often. I don’t know what happened now. I think it's the transition from teenager to adult.
When I was approaching 20 years-old she started to act very awkward and uncomfortable around me, as if I did something unforgivable to her.
If I was in the same room as her she would turn her body away as if she was too scared to be in my line of sight. If I was sat in her line of sight she would put her child on her lap and hide behind it. She would hesitate entering a room if I was in there.
Once I saw her in public while I was with my friend, she gave me this cold emotionless look and looked away. No smile, no wave, nothing.
I then dreaded going to any of my relatives' houses just in case she would be there as I couldn’t stand being treated like a sub-5 again unprovoked. At this point I can never forgive her for behaving like this for no reason, and would not want to see her ever again. But at the same time I'm very disappointed because she's a really cool auntie . . . I just wish things were different.
What the fuck did I even do? Why is she behaving like this? She’s my auntie I should be able to confide in her but she acts like I’m a subhuman disease who should just die.
Could it be because I didn’t grow much past my teenage years and I’m now roughly the same height as her? But in curry culture everyone’s used to males being short and facially below average. Even her husband is the same.
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