Why is it specifically set at 25? What's wrong with late 20s or early 30s? Is this based on looks, mentality?
I see users saying this all the time with very little to no explanation.
A lot of men refer to other men in their 20's as 'kids'. Is this cope, projection?
Don't women typically like men older than them?
I'm in my late 20s, but could easily age fraud by saying I'm 5 years younger than I actually am.
You’ve had 10 years of opportunity to try to have sex or date and now you’re just starting when you are a near middle aged man? It’s weird and creepy.
It’s like collecting Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle figurines at 25. It’s a series made for kids about teenage cartoon characters. Why haven’t you found better things to do like a productive meaningful hobby or a career or something?
It’s even worse than that.
For most people, dating just sort of happens if you have a non-autistic social circle. You meet people through friends, you have sex at some point, you hang around them and become boyfriend and girlfriend. Most people don’t really try. It just sort of happens. Especially in college with the party scenes and dorm rooms, etc.
If this doesn’t happen, it usually indicates you don’t have any normal friends. Now of course there’s a small chance this is circumstantial (e.g., maybe you’re a nice guy who grew up with a really anti-social family or a dysfunctional neighborhood, maybe you were abused by a priest and that made you a loner, etc.)
However, many people end up in that situation due to very anti-social behaviors. Maybe you are a pedo, you love gore, you stalk people, maybe you’re abusive, maybe you like killing animals for fun. And that scares women away.
When you are a loner to such degree that you literally don’t have a community or friend group, it’s like a black shadow that lurks over you. What are you hiding? If she took a chance on you, what if you killed her or raped her?
It’s creepy.