This is also the only site where you can be completely unfiltered about your and flaws and be heard instead of simply being told “it’s your fault, take accountability” when we all know that’s a load of shit past a certain point.
For instance: If someone decided to climb mount Everest and froze to death, that’s their fault for being too retarded to ignore their survival instincts.
If someone leaves a baby in a hot car and the baby dies of heat exhaustion, that’s also their fault.
Perfectly reasonable, but biology and the complexities of the human mind, specifically the female mind, is when it becomes complicated. If a young optimistic man with a heart full of love and a body full of hormones pursues women, and does everything in his power to become better but still gets rejected and excluded from the gene pool, his entire biological imperative has failed and this of course will have a deeply negative impact on his mental health.
For a young man to go through so much pain and isolation despite trying his best, only to end up hating women because of the way they are, is that truly his fault?
After a certain point, you can’t fault a man for simply being a normal human being falling into despair when he can’t attain the most important aspect of his biology: companionship and reproduction.
The point is that every popular social media app was intricately designed for normies, and therefore popular because every normie uses it, and of course normies don’t have the problems we have and won’t even begin to try and understand it. This is why if you talk about these issues there, you won’t get very far. Even on subreddits full of soys you have to fit in and know what you’re talking about or no one will give a flying fuck about you.
At least here, someone always responds, and it’s always a familiar face (well, username but you get the idea). That’s what I’ve picked up on about this site from the moment I came across it. It’s bittersweet because we all share the same pain, so there’s no true fulfillment in suffering together because what we’re suffering from runs so deep, but at least it’s something.
