Looks, Money, Status.
If you're ugly, that's not good enough for women.
If you're poor, that's not good enough for women.
If you're a beta loser, that's not good enough for women.
Very rarely is there any room for nuance in this triad of requirements for women, so the fictional romances which they create are filled with exceedingly attractive, wealthy, alpha men who are somehow loyal, loving, passionate, etc (and not a sociopathic degenerate who uses women and people in general as objects as he pleases, yet only finds pleasure in the most indulgent and extreme endeavors; a.k.a. most of wealthy men). The men they create in their fanfictions (or even published novels like 50 Shades Of Grey) don't fucking exist in real life, there are likely hardly any men who come close to these fantastical apparitions. Thus it is even more clear that most women are very unhappy with their normie male partners who betabuxx for them. They will always dream of Gigachad instead even if their normie boyfriend/husband works his ass off for his entire life for them.