Why is cope bad?

[Golden Blue]

This is the definition of cope:
(of a person) deal effectively with something difficult.

So why is cope considered to be a bad thing?

 

[Deleted member 7573]

It's not, just the act of thinking that when you are doing a cope it is not because you are coping, if you can admit you cope realising that your situation is bad and that's why you cope then there is nothing wrong with cope

 

[giganticel]

It's not, just the act of thinking that when you are doing a cope it is not because you are coping, if you can admit you cope realising that your situation is bad and that's why you cope then there is nothing wrong with cope

Respectable iq

 

[Deleted member 1060]

All copes are not bad, stupid copes are bad.

Haircut, gym, buying expensive clothes, think oneself as a "white" while being a curry etc. are bad copes.

Posting on this forum is also a cope, but it's not a bad cope.
Rope is always better than cope.
But I am too pussy to rope, so I come here to cope.

 

[jerrycan dan]

But I am too pussy to rope, so I come here to cope.

 

[Deleted member 10124]

It's not, just the act of thinking that when you are doing a cope it is not because you are coping, if you can admit you cope realising that your situation is bad and that's why you cope then there is nothing wrong with cope

 

[FuckFace]

it's not, it just means that somebody isn't being completely honest about something

That's the original PSL usage of the word.

 

[Cuyen]

It's not, just the act of thinking that when you are doing a cope it is not because you are coping, if you can admit you cope realising that your situation is bad and that's why you cope then there is nothing wrong with cope

 

[Red Shambhala]

It's not, just the act of thinking that when you are doing a cope it is not because you are coping, if you can admit you cope realising that your situation is bad and that's why you cope then there is nothing wrong with cope

 

[Anger]

It's only bad in the eyes of normies

 

[Deleted member 12256]

Copes are not bad they keep us alive.

 

[KingOfRome]

Cope is bad when it's founded on self-delusion.

 

[Jockcel]

Cope is bad when it's founded on self-delusion.

Tesla iq

 

[Mainländer]

The word "cope" has two different meanings here. One is do something to deal with the fact you're an incel and distract you from the pain, that's good cope. But self-delusion and refusal to acknowledge reality is bad cope.

Cope is bad when it's founded on self-delusion.

Hivemind, I had not seen your post.

 

[Incel called Chad]

Why are copes based on self-delusion bad.
If it looks stupid but works, it aint stupid.

 

[ShadowMonk]

You either cope or you rope.

It is used only in degatory fashion when redpills think they found a magic bullet.
If I lowinhib, thugmaxx, moneymaxx at the gym I will get stacies.
It is not bad, but it won't result in stacies. It is just a coping mechanism. Cope.

 

[Angus13]

there are good copes and there are bad copes, good copes harm nobody else, does not separate one from reality or self awareness (but can offer a temporary escape from it).

Bad copes are copes that rely on putting others down, diminishing others, particularly other incels. Copes like the oppression olypmic mentality, everyone has to have it worse than everyone else so they can call everyone else a volcel, as if they are the only legit incel on the face of the earth and everyone else's struggles either are apparently non-existent, or their own fault (which is the same shit we hear from the IT crowd). Usually comes from low IQ idiots who failed to reach mental puberty.

 

[Deleted member 1410]

>not choosing the third option and going ER

 

[caudino]

So why is cope considered to be a bad thing?

I dunno, it's a good thing IMO

Bad copes are copes that rely on putting others down, diminishing others, particularly other incels

I see this attitude here - but how is this a cope?

 

[Vodaccenu]

it's not, it just means that somebody isn't being completely honest about something

That's the original PSL usage of the word.

 

[Angus13]

I dunno, it's a good thing IMO

I see this attitude here - but how is this a cope?

It's a cope because they put others down to build themselves up at their expense.

 

[Juxtaposition6]

Nothing is bad about it, it's a positive thing.

 

[Deleted member 1042]

So why is cope considered to be a bad thing?

This is not true.

 

[Hunter]

cope