Blackpill Why I DON'T want a girlfriend, and neither should You

[ogreism]

I made this post about the reality of being in a relationship with a woman.

How do you cope knowing no woman will ever truly love you?

We all know that if we're not attractive, we're never going to get a woman's unconditional love. The only possibility we have for a relationship is to betabuxx an unideal woman. So how do you cope knowing she's only with you for your utility/money, and the moment you stop providing, you're...

incels.is

You'll never get a woman's unconditional love. If you're not attractive, she'll only value your utility/money. Being in that kind of relationship will just bring you more pain in the long run.

You need to let go of your desire for a woman's love, because the suffering you're enduring stems from desiring something that's unobtainable for men like us.

As men, we should focus our lives on our hobbies, goals, and forging friendships with other men. If you want sex, just escortmaxx.

Chasing a woman's "love" won't fix you, it will only amplify your suffering.

 

[autisticsoy]

I wont have to worry about a women's love since I can barely get one to talk to me.

 

[Chirag gupta]

I somewhat agree. I would rather be a carefree kid again than have weekly sex with a girl that doesn’t love me, but if she gave me daily sex, then I would probably not care about her lack of love for me since having sex daily would help my mental state exponentially

 

[Senzatetto]

If you cannot order stacies to your door like pizza the way any foid can order Nephilim dick down appointments, then it's better not to associate with women because if they can sense that you are more disposable than they are, they will try to use numbers for numbers.

 

[VanGobbel]

Chasing a woman's "love" won't fix you, it will only amplify your suffering.

 

[four1298]

I never wanted a girlfriend. In fact, it's bad to have just a girlfriend. I think cohabitors have less children than married people. Marriage is important because its purpose is to create and raise children. I think this might be why divorce is so bad. Divorce goes against an institution whose purpose is to create children.

 

[Vulcan's Forge]

another cope thread

 

[flute_snoop]

You need to let go of your desire for a woman's love, because the suffering you're enduring stems from desiring something that's unobtainable for men like us.

 

[ogreism]

another cope thread

how am I coping?

 

[Hoodpreet]

If you cannot order stacies to your door like pizza the way any foid can order Nephilim dick down appointments, then it's better not to associate with women because if they can sense that you are more disposable than they are, they will try to use numbers for numbers.

 

[Hoodpreet]

another cope thread

It’s not. You’re not blackpilled if you think most men in relationships are receiving genuine desire

 

[Vulcan's Forge]

It’s not. You’re not blackpilled if you think most men in relationships are receiving genuine desire

sure they just walk around in public holding hands and kissing and hugging with them for the lolz. literally every couple i see is like that. but they’re not attracted to them because someone on an obscure internet forum said so

 

[The Scarlet Prince]

TRUTH NUKE of a thread
>inb4 people get upset and come to cry on the thread as if it's not something they should inherently know after spending years being supposedly black-pilled

 

[goyim next door]

TRUTH NUKE of a thread
>inb4 people get upset and come to cry on the thread as if it's not something they should inherently know after spending years being supposedly black-pilled

Let's be real here
The forum itself showcases that even the supposed " blackpilled" individuals, who've been here for years, would crumble like a piece of paper over some pussy and chase it like a pig chases a carrot on a stick.

 

[The Scarlet Prince]

I'll never go out of my way to actively talk or look down on someone here who is actively deluded by the idea of a 'loving relationship,' as I don't see the need to berate anyone for their copes. But, good God, it's some of the most pathetic stuff I've ever seen, and I'd say it's very close to rightfully being labeled simpetry of some variety.

I have zero clue how you can spend countless hours on this forum, see thread after thread proving that foids are intrinsically hedonistic and corrupt—and STILL have any desire to be in a committed relationship with one. Your sole desire should lie in pumping and dumping them while going on to live your life doing more important things after they've been discarded like the skanks they are.

But no, you'll still see the occasional guy on here start going on about 'muh pureee and loving wife brooo' as if what they're referencing's existence lies anywhere other than fairytales and fables that have zero basis in reality. Even worse is that some of these users become such massive faggots (which isn't that surprising considering the fantasy of getting swindled by a femroach is adjacent to cuckoldry) that they go on to do something like Mecoja did considering they're THAT desperate for a crumb of validation and attention from any roastie.

It's nothing short of pathetic.

 

[Diddlium]

how am I coping?

Tales from the GrAYs

 

[The Scarlet Prince]

Let's be real here
The forum itself showcases that even the supposed " blackpilled" individuals, who've been here for years, would crumble like a piece of paper over some pussy and chase it like a pig chases a carrot on a stick.

You're not wrong, and it's gravely unfortunate. It really makes you realize that some men can never break free of the simp within them no matter how hard they try. It's just endemic to some retards, I suppose.

 

[The Scarlet Prince]

sure they just walk around in public holding hands and kissing and hugging with them for the lolz. literally every couple i see is like that. but they’re not attracted to them because someone on an obscure internet forum said so

It's not as if roasties are stupid—at least, not entirely. They know they have to give SOME physical affection towards the Oofy Doofies that provide for them. Woman have been doing this for millennia—they are pests that leech off of whatever sod is dull enough to believe that their woman truthfully 'desires' them as if the hundred other woman he's tried getting with hadn't rejected him for being undesirable.

But no, THAT'S the one! All the others were le heckin dodged bullets!

Get a hold of yourself, GrAY.

 

[four1298]

It's not as if roasties are stupid—at least, not entirely. They know they have to give SOME physical affection towards the Oofy Doofies that provide for them. Woman have been doing this for millennia—they are pests that leech off of whatever sod is dull enough to believe that their woman truthfully 'desires' them as if the hundred other woman he's tried getting with hadn't rejected him for being undesirable.

But no, THAT'S the one! All the others were le heckin dodged bullets!

Get a hold of yourself, GrAY.

Men were always betabuxxers. Allan Carlson writes:

Writing in Evolutionary Psychology, Ronald Immerman of Case Western Reserve University reports that from the very beginning, our distinctly human ancestors showed a unique reproductive strategy in which a female exchanged sexual exclusivity for special provisioning by a male.

Women have bonded to men who reliably returned to the family circle with fresh meat or similar resources.

 

[The Scarlet Prince]

Men were always betabuxxers. Allan Carlson writes:

Any functioning society needs to have two things—women must be property of their fathers and then their husbands, and adultery must be punishable by death. Then and only THEN can I see it being justifiable to take a woman as your betrothed. If your wife is caught cheating, she will be righteously executed for being a thieving, conniving harlot who was stealing from you the entire time and almost damned you to a life of cuckoldry.

 

[Snowman888]

we will never have woman's unconditional love , acept or cope

 

[Orbiter]

oxytocin is potent

 

[Gaelic-Truecel]

I don't want friendships with other men. Other men have done nothing but bully me.

 

[Kan>Foids]

I'll never go out of my way to actively talk or look down on someone here who is actively deluded by the idea of a 'loving relationship,' as I don't see the need to berate anyone for their copes. But, good God, it's some of the most pathetic stuff I've ever seen, and I'd say it's very close to rightfully being labeled simpetry of some variety.

I have zero clue how you can spend countless hours on this forum, see thread after thread proving that foids are intrinsically hedonistic and corrupt—and STILL have any desire to be in a committed relationship with one. Your sole desire should lie in pumping and dumping them while going on to live your life doing more important things after they've been discarded like the skanks they are.

But no, you'll still see the occasional guy on here start going on about 'muh pureee and loving wife brooo' as if what they're referencing's existence lies anywhere other than fairytales and fables that have zero basis in reality. Even worse is that some of these users become such massive faggots (which isn't that surprising considering the fantasy of getting swindled by a femroach is adjacent to cuckoldry) that they go on to do something like Mecoja did considering they're THAT desperate for a crumb of validation and attention from any roastie.

It's nothing short of pathetic.

This might be the truest statement I've ever seen regarding guys on this site. The Disney movie, puppy dog romance doesn't exist. Here's just a small, non exhaustive list of bullshit you have to put up with when looking for a gf or having a foid living with you:

• Denying you sex (biggest one imo)
• Having to hear her inane and worthless drivel everyday
• Risks of STDs while dating
• Having to put up with her idiot normie friends both male and female
• Sharing living space with her
• Wasting more money on food for two people instead of just one
• Having to buy her dinners, gifts, vacations, etc
• Putting up with her when she's on her period aka extra bitch mode
• Unplanned pregnancies
• Drama/arguing
• Her judging you for your hobbies (unless said hobby is sit on your ass watching grown men kick/throw balls at each other)
• Having to sacrifice time and money away from your own hobbies to indulge her hobbies (if she even has one which most foids don't)
• Inevitable downgrade of her body because she settles and doesn't take care of herself as much (more belly fat, sagging tits, flabby ass)
• Her leaving you for the next normie worshipper because of one disagreement
• Messy breakups/divorces

How anyone can see that list and think foids are still worth anything other than using them as cumdumps will forever elude me.

 

[incel3roar]

If your ugly true love will never exist for you.

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

As men, we should focus our lives on our hobbies, goals, and forging friendships with other men

I don't want friendships with other men. Other men have done nothing but bully me.

 

[Defetivecuckachu]

You’re not blackpilled if you think most men in relationships are receiving genuine desire

This.

A lot of bluepillers are VERY invested in maintaining their delusion that they are loved and everything is going great for them.

They will cling to that cope until (1) she leaves, or (2) he catches her cheating with Chad.

 

[no love found]

another cope thread

I know damn well if Stacy walked up to him and asked him on a date he would say yes

 

[ogreism]

I know damn well if Stacy walked up to him and asked him on a date he would say yes

I’d be suspicious AF if a Stacy, or any woman way more attractive than me, asked me out. so I would say NO.

 

[glizzymcguire]

sure they just walk around in public holding hands and kissing and hugging with them for the lolz. literally every couple i see is like that. but they’re not attracted to them because someone on an obscure internet forum said so

Joined yesterday at 9:01 am

 

[fatgamercel]

I made this post about the reality of being in a relationship with a woman.

How do you cope knowing no woman will ever truly love you?

We all know that if we're not attractive, we're never going to get a woman's unconditional love. The only possibility we have for a relationship is to betabuxx an unideal woman. So how do you cope knowing she's only with you for your utility/money, and the moment you stop providing, you're...

incels.is

You'll never get a woman's unconditional love. If you're not attractive, she'll only value your utility/money. Being in that kind of relationship will just bring you more pain in the long run.

You need to let go of your desire for a woman's love, because the suffering you're enduring stems from desiring something that's unobtainable for men like us.

As men, we should focus our lives on our hobbies, goals, and forging friendships with other men. If you want sex, just escortmaxx.

Chasing a woman's "love" won't fix you, it will only amplify your suffering.

I don't even care anymore, it's extremely difficult to get one in the first place if you lack the looks, and then after that you gotta be a turbo social normalfag and talk to her etc, then you gotta constantly maintain the relationship... fuck that, too much effort.

 

[Vulcan's Forge]

Joined yesterday at 9:01 am

great argument buddy

 

[ogreism]

If your ugly true love will never exist for you.

NO,

If your NOT ATTRACTIVE true love will never exist for you.

there's a difference.

 

[incel3roar]

NO,

If your NOT ATTRACTIVE true love will never exist for you.

there's a difference.

Whats the difference between being ugly and not attractive, my definition of ugly is below 5ft 9 and sub 5 to lltn

 

[Zionist]

At this stage of my life, even if I ascended I would only get an used up hoe who got dumped by Chad, I will not get somebody who is worthy of my time and resources tho

 

[Domery]

My fantasies about having a girlfriend and being monogamous disappeared when I was 16.

 

[ogreism]

Whats the difference between being ugly and not attractive

what i'm saying is that you have to be physically attractive to get a woman's love, being average looking (not ugly not attractive) isn’t enough.

 

[Justanotherbloke]

Good thread. I Explained this tons of times. The real truth you must accept, is that human nature itself is incapable of monogamy, loyalty and longevity. It's a fantasy that only exists in Hollywood movies. The 'loyal unicorn' does not exist, it's a psy op to make you feed the system, spend and wageslave harder for something that doesn't exist.

How many times have you seen, that even the good looking men get cheated on? Men in a suit, have their stuff together, wife claims he is good looking > still gets cheated on. Even THEY have to deal with multiple others in the picture, multiple options/suitors. You are never the only one, and that doesn't end when she is your wife, cause women will always keep their options open. It's due to hypergamy.

> knowing all this, observing all this from afar, makes me not even want to 'put myself out there' at all. I literally have 0 i terest in doing so, no interest in relationships/dating: even the thought of it alone drains me, makes me feel on high alert. It's simply not the way I want to live. And the thing is. Nothing will change this, nor the sweet words or how good they claim to be, cause these culprits are not to be trusted.

Coping with the past is just as futile. Women only appeared more monogamous and loyal cause it was forced onto them through social pressure and institutions. Not because they were loyal and monogamous from their true nature. It tells you that the very nature itself is the problem, as humans were no different in the past whether that'd be 1 day after Jesus was crucified, the 1700s, 1800s or whatever timeline you cope with to drift off to lala land and sell yourself a pipe dream that doesn't exist. Matter of fact, if our grandparents and great-grandparents had access to the same stuff our generation has access to, then they would be in the same predicament with most women whoring around, 70% of men being single either willingly or not (aka society being Babylon 2.0). > this also, once again, backs up my claim that monogamy and loyalty doesn't exist, humans are incapable of it.

Hence I don't believe in concepts such as 'FOMO' (= fear of missing out). Cause the only thing we seem to 'miss out' on are disloyalty, drama, dealing with multiple others in the picture, emotional roller coasters, cheating and (in my case) being in a constant state of high alert and 'fight or flight mode', cause my body and instinct is signaling: 'no connection is safe, loyalty and monogamy doesn't exist, leave, seek peace in solitude'.


And this, is why I am on the forum. It's to spread the gospel and I stand firm in my assessment. No one will change my mind, this is what the forums ideology should revolve around. And the good thing is, I slowly see thread like these popping up more and more. It tells that people start to see through the veil. As for me, I would rather live a monotonous life, scroll through this forum every now and then and live life in solitude with my own copes, than going out there and dealing with this.

 

[senegambianbro]

If your ugly true love will never exist for you.

 

[ogreism]

I don't believe in concepts such as 'FOMO' (= fear of missing out). Cause the only thing we seem to 'miss out' on are disloyalty, drama, dealing with multiple others in the picture, emotional roller coasters, cheating and (in my case) being in a constant state of high alert and 'fight or flight mode', cause my body and instinct is signaling: 'no connection is safe, loyalty and monogamy doesn't exist, leave, seek peace in solitude'.

I feel the same. After taking the blackpill I could never be in a relationship with a woman knowing their true nature. I wouldn't feel safe, I'd be on high alert the whole time, aware that she's not actually with me because she loves me.

 

[Caichan]

because the suffering you're enduring stems from desiring something that's unobtainable for men like us.

 

[AcidTrip]

preach, brothER!

 

[yeetbender_]

You'd think this'd be common sense.