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Discussion Why has Virginity lost its value to women?

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It seems like a large majority of women don't care about being a virgin anymore. There are some women who still are virgins but that's mostly because of outside pressures like abuse or religion. I don't know how somebody could not value virginity at all. For me personally it's still a vital part of a relationship.

This isn't meant to be a hatepost against escortcels, who only want sex. Although I do think it goes against the whole concept of inceldom, to not want a lifelong relationship, which would include intimacy anyway. :feelsseriously:

To get back to the point of this post: How/why/when did this happen?
Why have so many women just given up on valuing their virginity?
 
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There are some women who still are virgins but that's mostly because of outside pressures like abuse or religion.
that's the only reason they stay virgins in the past. Women have never given a single fuck about staying caste for their future husbands but they knew they would be socially ostracized if they didn't.
 
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To get back to the point of this post: How/why/when did this happen?
Why have so many women just given up on valuing their virginity?
There isn't any penalties since most women are sluts. Some men may be picky about women and want a virgin but most men will accept a used foid. So the penalty for being a non virgin is extremely small and practically negligible.
 
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There isn't any penalties since most women are sluts. Some men may be picky about women and want a virgin but most men will accept a used foid. So the penalty for being a non virgin is extremely small and practically negligible.
that's the only reason they stay virgins in the past. Women have never given a single fuck about staying caste for their future husbands but they knew they would be socially ostracized if they didn't.
I thought about this as well but based on my own family. My mother and all other females in our family, weren't forced to stay virgin until marriage but all of them did. No outside pressures were present. My dad is obviously not :chad:, otherwise i wouldn't be here. :feelsbadman:

How would you explain a situation like this?
 
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You are so far from the truth it's not even worth trying to explain it to you. Foids never valued anything, much less virginity.
 
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Chad dick > virginity
 
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I thought about this as well but based on my own family. My mother and all other females in our family, weren't forced to stay virgin until marriage but all of them did. No outside pressures were present. My dad is obviously not :chad:, otherwise i wouldn't be here. :feelsbadman:

How would you explain a situation like this?
Your mother didn't grow up with internet, that's a factor. Do you have sisters that stayed a virgin until marriage? If so they may have just followed in mom's footsteps.
 
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Your mother didn't grow up with internet, that's a factor
Yes that could be a possible cause. I'm still having a hard time believing that the internet is the main cause though. Not saying that it wouldn't be but it feels like there is something missing.

Do you have sisters that stayed a virgin until marriage? If so they may have just followed in mom's footsteps.
I don't have any siblings but it's well known that broken families, often result in women becoming promiscuous.
 
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Yes that could be a possible cause. I'm still having a hard time believing that the internet is the main cause though. Not saying that it wouldn't be but it feels like there is something missing.
It's only a factor imo. The sexual revolution is the main cause the internet is an accelerator.
I don't have any siblings but it's well known that broken families, often result in women becoming promiscuous.
So your mom had sisters? Did your mom and her sisters grow up in a non broken family?
 
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It's only a factor imo. The sexual revolution is the main cause the internet is an accelerator.
I blame progressive feminism personally. If you look at statstics. You can see that inceldom increased a lot more, after progressive feminism became mainstream and not right after the sexual revolution, as you'd expect. They are both sort of the same though.

So your mom had sisters? Did your mom and her sisters grow up in a non broken family?
Yes, they have a stable family background.
 
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that's the only reason they stay virgins in the past. Women have never given a single fuck about staying caste for their future husbands but they knew they would be socially ostracized if they didn't.
They are whores by nature.
 
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Because being a whore no longer has consequences. She can have as much children as she wants and the wageslaving taxpayers foot the bill for every single mother and her bastard spawns.

In the past, foids had to worry because if they weren't virgins that would mean she can't find a husband to give her constant resources and instead resort to prostitution.
 
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they stopped caring when the stones stopped flying in most of the world
 
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Sex with chad gives them orgasms.

Orgasms > Virginity
 
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Because family and religious values maintained a certain idea of purity and sacredness regarding female virginity and as these two values are in decline so are these ideas ( and foids got rights biggest mistake ever :feelsaww: )
 
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It seems like a large majority of women don't care about being a virgin anymore.
It only has value for men and therefore society since the last one benefits of the endless seek of pussy. If you give or at least promise men pussy they will be willing to work. Women seek for the best genes. For that reason they monkeybranch to begin with. But propaganda has sold that society has to be progressive. For this reason is that bluepills exist. To keep men productive since is a promise of pussy. If blackpill science is One Piece, understanding that women have to be treated as property in order to keep the world spinning is the ultimate secret of the show.
I I don't know how somebody could not value virginity at all. For me personally it's still a vital part of a relationship.

This isn't meant to be a hatepost against escortcels, who only want sex. Although I do think it goes against the whole concept of inceldom, to not want a lifelong relationship, which would include intimacy anyway. :feelsseriously:
Your drag in bluepills. Lets say that men are robots. Men are robots with Chad code but non-Chad built. In the same way women seek for best genes since they are eugenic agents. Chad seek to impregnate the highest amount of foids. In the past there were 17 foids for 1 Chad. Height= more weight=therefore more firepower in battle. Face=better health, therefore more energy. Chads used to kill of non-Chads. Chads used to kill off strong foids until only breed with weak ass foids that rather Chad than incels in order to survive and five birth other Chads to repite the cycle. When Chad reached a higher spiritual plane, he just decided to divide his harem in non-Chads. Chads realized that if he promises and gives pussy to non-Chad men they could complete there spiritual projects. Chad invented the bluepill (virginity value is also bluepill) in order to use ugly men as wageslaves for his interests.
To get back to the point of this post: How/why/when did this happen?
Why have so many women just given up on valuing their virginity?
Sexual Revolution is actually sexual regression. Is going back to foids primal sexual behavior state. Rebooting all the changes done by Chad but in a society that most resources go to women and therefore Chad without giving pussy or killing off non Chad men.
 
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Women still lie about their n-count so they recognise its value, its just that they want to suck Chads dick when they are young and only commit to beta guys after they can't get Chad anymore. Women don't want long term relationships because they are predictable and boring, they only want exciting new Chads
 
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Because adult virgin women have become so rare in the west they are virtually non existent outside of deeply religious communities. The less virgin women there are, the less of a pressure to be a virgin. The bar is really low these days. Nowadays a girl can have a body count of 7 and still feel like she's pure and better than the "real sluts". And she wouldn't be wrong given how slutty the average woman has become.
 
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Women still lie about their n-count so they recognise its value, its just that they want to suck Chads dick when they are young and only commit to beta guys after they can't get Chad anymore. Women don't want long term relationships because they are predictable and boring, they only want exciting new Chads
Women's lifefuel is emotions. They are less built for monogamy than men for the reason you stated. Men don't care that much about emotional highs and lows but women live for that shit.
 
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Because majority of the men don't mind marrying sluts anymore.
 
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that's the only reason they stay virgins in the past. Women have never given a single fuck about staying caste for their future husbands but they knew they would be socially ostracized if they didn't.
:yes::yes::yes: Their marriage value would plummet down if they got bad reputation.
 
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I think foids know at an intrinsic level that virginity is valuable. They just ignore this feeling because Society tells them to.
 
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Females are more hive-minded than men. Think back about your highschool days. Usualy when one girl got into relationship the other girls did as well, even if it was with a friend they have known for years and could have had sex with him since day 1. Women are afraid to be left behind. As the guy above me said, deep inside even modern women value virginity. Remember about semen retention. Women remember every guy that they slept with. Everytime they enlarge their body count they know from the lack of bonding, that they lost something truly valueable, but now it is too late.
 
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You are so far from the truth it's not even worth trying to explain it to you. Foids never valued anything, much less virginity.

What he said ^^^

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Virginity was never valued by females, their virgin status means nothing except for selling if they want to. Virginity only matters in a negative way if a male is virgin, then he is automatically a "pathetic loser" for them AKA undesirable.
 
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Fucking gigachad > consummating a marriage with a sub 8 man
 
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womanz dont care because of jew

men don't need to be virgins because men don't get fucked by dicks
wrong, both genders should be virgin when starting a relationship
 
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It seems like a large majority of women don't care about being a virgin anymore.
It never had value to them and they never cared about it.

THEY SIMPLY DIDN'T HAVE A CHOICE.

In the past when a woman couldn't work, own property, vote, etc. Her only means of survival and "having a life" was being passed from one male caretaker (her father) to the next (her husband).

Men set the standard that a virgin wife has the most value, so women adhered to that standard to ensure that they could have access to the highest value man as possible, as mostly only low tier and low income males that would end up marrying non-virgins or ex divorced women.

Women never cared for the standards that they lived by before they had rights, they simply didn't have a choice.

Once you give women rights everything goes to shit, because they don't care about an orderly system that minimizes chaos and social issues, they only care about their personal "happiness".
 
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Inceltear didn't like this thread:

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/IncelTear/comments/w5a73n/why_do_so_many_incels_fixate_on_womens_virginity/


"Incels don't want a used whore that can't pairbond :soy::soy::soy::soy::soy::soy::soy::soy:"

Thanks for the heads up. Why are they so hateful... :fuk:

There are statistics that show relationships between virgins are more successful and most of them last for a lifetime. This post wasn't even meant to provoke something. I was only curious because of personal life experiences, regarding my family background.

What do I care about my "experience level" during sex. People aren't pornstars and intimacy is much more than just getting each other off, for me personally. I guess they wouldn't know because most of them seem to be promiscious and only do hookups or other things, which could be considered borderline prostitution. (Sorry! I meant to say: "sex work"... :feelsseriously:)
 
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Thanks for the heads up. Why are they so hateful... :fuk:

There are statistics that show relationships between virgins are more successful and most of them last for a lifetime. This post wasn't even meant to provoke something. I was only curious because of personal life experiences, regarding my family background.

What do I care about my "experience level" during sex. People aren't pornstars and intimacy is much more than just getting each other off, for me personally. I guess they wouldn't know because most of them seem to be promiscious and only do hookups or other things, which could be considered borderline prostitution. (Sorry! I meant to say: "sex work"... :feelsseriously:)
Inceltear is full of soys. trannies, and femcel tier foids. They shame incels who want virgins, because they don't want incels to ascend, but know that some will, and don't want them to get a virgin because that could lead to a good relationship.
 
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Inceltear is full of soys. trannies, and femcel tier foids. They shame incels who want virgins, because they don't want incels to ascend, but know that some will, and don't want them to get a virgin because that could lead to a good relationship.
Interesting. I never looked at it from a jealousy perspective. Given that so many "sex workers" or promiscious women, end up regretting their life choices eventually. Maybe it's like the meme below.

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