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Theory Why foids don't reject men bluntly

NormieCelll

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First and imo the biggest one since all the other reasons somewhat stem from it (and one that I didn't notice many people talk about before actually):

  1. Evolutionary reasons in their genes of them being the weaker sex and fearing violent repercussions from males (they don't actually fear violent repercussions obviously bc we live in a matriarchal soyciety, but they don't realize that this is why they do it since it's in their genes from thousands of years of evolution)
  2. Wanting to keep you as an orbiter
  3. They simply like doing it, lying etc, can't really be explained rationally other than being evil
  4. They think that lying to "not hurt our feelings" makes them more empathetic (le muh empathetic gender JFL)
  5. Since the man asking out might not be a complete stranger (if he's like in the same campus or something), she wants to "let him off easy" to not make things cringe in case she runs into him IRL (even tho lying like this would make it cringier IRL than if she said the truth, but foids don't have brains)
  6. Because she felt bad about leaving on delivered/read (if the asking out was done by text) so now she has to come up with fake reasons (overlap with the other points)
  7. Least likely, it's the actual reason, the reason why I'm saying least likely is because if it was an actual reason like the usual bs "oh I'm busy lately" then she'd either make time for you regardless of her busyness or reschedule herself (reminder that chad can doordash her to his room at any time of the year)

Now as to why they like orbiters so much:
Because they like the idea of having multiple guys interested in her (even ones she's not attracted to) since when foids actually reject like normal human beings with sense then most guys would stop all endeavors and they'd lose most of their orbiters
And in the case that she's somewhat attracted but is a chad only whore then she keeps you as one of her higher end orbiter in case she can't find chad and wants to settle (rarely actually happens let's be real because foids would rather stay single or fuck a dog than their normie looksmatch nowadays)
 
You make a good point. A lot of guys here will usually try to make sense of what women do in terms of “foids do X because it benefits them by Y,” when, in reality, what you said (point 3) is true: sometimes foids do things just because they’re evil creatures and sometimes because they’re low-IQ. Usually both.
 
there's no benefits in doing this
 
You make a good point. A lot of guys here will usually try to make sense of what women do in terms of “foids do X because it benefits them by Y,” when, in reality, what you said (point 3) is true: sometimes foids do things just because they’re evil creatures and sometimes because they’re low-IQ. Usually both.
not in this place. we all knew this already lol
 
Im not reading all that, i will say my opinion. First, foids care about public image so they dont want to be the "shallow," person. Second, foids are liars by default, the use mental gymnastics and lies just not to tell the truth.
 
highIQ thread :feelsthink:
 
They literally spit in your face while rejecting you nowadays. Some get arrested for even talking to foids. How fucking blunt do you want them to be?
 
They literally spit in your face while rejecting you nowadays. Some get arrested for even talking to foids. How fucking blunt do you want them to be?
They don't do that if you're in their social circle
 
They don't do that if you're in their social circle
That's evolution but has nothing to do with them being the "weaker sex." Humans evolved to avoid direct confrontation to co-exist in society. We all use euphemisms every day to avoid confrontations with people we know.

The guys usually get reported if he steps out of the line while pursuing her. You think foids care about being afraid of coming off as rude while rejecting a guy when they demonize men publicly everywhere I see?
 
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I never get that fucking softness when im being rejected.
 
I never get that fucking softness when im being rejected.
Because that has completely evaporated in the dating app age. There's been a general aggressive shift in the attitude of foids towards men. If foids ever show any "softness," she does so to shit-test, to see if he comes back despite being "politely rejected." If he does, he gets recruited as a beta-orbiter.
 
Because that has completely evaporated in the dating app age. There's been a general aggressive shift in the attitude of foids towards men. If foids ever show any "softness," she does so to shit-test, to see if he comes back despite being "politely rejected." If he does, he gets recruited as a beta-orbiter.
I would gladly be my oneitis beta cuck orbiter. That over complete contact severing and pure animosity and legal attacks.
 
You neurotypicals are so fucking lucky to be rejected politely.
 
Im not reading all that, i will say my opinion. First, foids care about public image so they dont want to be the "shallow," person. Second, foids are liars by default, the use mental gymnastics and lies just not to tell the truth.
 
I completely disagree with this especially the point you are trying to make with the heading. Females reject you as bland as ever, much more bland than men reject women.
 
I completely disagree with this especially the point you are trying to make with the heading. Females reject you as bland as ever, much more bland than men reject women.
I guess my sample size might be too small, i barely asked out any foids in my life
 
I guess my sample size might be too small, i barely asked out any foids in my life
Neither have I, but videos and public observations differ.
 
its funny you should say that, be happy if a foid isnt blunt with you, they're either nice or they're scared of you, which means you're good enough for their respect
 
They simply like doing it, lying etc, can't really be explained rationally other than being evil
This. Every rejection i had was quite bluntly: "no", "not this way", "not with you".
 
As someone who has cold approached an enormous amount of women (and warm approached a decent amount) here's how I'd say my breakdown of how they rejected me was:

Indirect injection (fuck off signals, gave me a fake number, found an excuse to get out of they, extremely dry one word replies to everything, etc.): 75 percent

Fairly direct (but not super brutal) rejection: 15 percent

BRUAL rejection (eg. "EEEEEWWW!", being called "ugly" or some variation of that): 9 percent

Rejections so brutal they live rent free in my head 20 years later (examples include "go home and drink rat poison" and "no one likes you"): 1 percent

If you cold approach in high volume like I did when I was younger, you'll experience all of these types of rejections at some point.
 

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