Blackpill Why even if by a miracle, I get a GF, I would always feel extremely insecure

[Fontaine]

It basically comes down to two things:

- The possibility that she leaves you one day for a better male (and I've seen that happen multiple times around me)

- The fact I feel completely mogged by most males

That's why I feel it is over for me, honestly.

Normies joke about "you and the guy she tells you not to worry about". I don't joke about this, I am terrified by this.

 

[ChronicPaincel]

I feel the same way

 

[Deleted member 10124]

I feel the same way

 

[Total Imbecile]

"B-but she chose you in the end!!!" just ignore the fact that shes probably daydreaming about Chad every time she lets you starfish her

I dont think I will ever know peace now that Im blackpilled, the blackpill is just too destructive

 

[Fontaine]

I feel the same way

That's the definitive sign you're a truecel and not a larper. Feeling inferior to most other males means you are inferior (contra therapists, I believe our pecking order instinct rarely dysfunctions).

"B-but she chose you in the end!!!" just ignore the fact that shes probably daydreaming about Chad every time she lets you starfish her

I dont think I will ever know peace now that Im blackpilled, the blackpill is just too destructive

Humans are not meant to have free sexuality. Engagement and marriages were a serious affair back in time partly to solve the problem of male insecurity and jealousy.

 

[Dr. Rothschild]

I feel the same way

 

[Deleted member 1252]

Yeah - I’ve known so many guys who were high tier normie who got fucked over by foids through divorcerape anyway. It’s like men will just throw away their entire lives just to get a taste of “love”, only to end up worse off after a few years. The MGTOW guys have a good point.

 

[mviper]

Being a dicklet. Even if you luck out, it's over once you get to the bedroom. No relationship is possible.

 

[01userope]

Yes, she will realize and utilize her female privileges and find a better looking, less boring, wealthier, better personalitied, more adequate guy in a matter of no time. While, you are left behind completely forgotten. Left to rot alone.

 

[Sparrow's Song]

I feel like I'm afraid to talk to foids until I surgerymax.

 

[Blacktarpill]

The possibility that she leaves you one day for a better male

Thats possible but it is not going to happen if you accept to be a cuck and still interact with her.

 

[Life Wasted]

As I've said before, getting the girl is just the beginning, keeping her around is the hard part. The competition is real, she can always trade up, you can't.

 

[NormieKiller]

Sur une échelle de 1 à 10, tu te donnes combien ?

 

[ChadTears555]

I feel the same way

 

[Fontaine]

As I've said before, getting the girl is just the beginning, keeping her around is the hard part. The competition is real, she can always trade up, you can't.

Sur une échelle de 1 à 10, tu te donnes combien ?

Je dirais 1 sur 10. Je suis seulement légèrement au-dessus du niveau "handicapé qui se bave dessus". Le jugement peut paraître excessif, car il est paradoxal (tout chez moi n'est pas laid, je suis en excellente santé, j'ai de l'argent, je suis encore jeune, je ne serai jamais chauve, etc) mais ces quelques qualités sont complètement obscurcies par des défauts béants (difformités, autisme, difficultés avec des choses faciles comme avoir le permis de conduire, etc).

Si j'étais une femme, je ne voudrais pas me reproduire avec quelqu'un comme moi.

 

[Felix97]

As I've said before, getting the girl is just the beginning, keeping her around is the hard part. The competition is real, she can always trade up, you can't.

 

[Wirtschaftsanwalt]

you will never have a gf

 

[Fontaine]

you will never have a gf

True

 

[Evil Genius]

As I've said before, getting the girl is just the beginning, keeping her around is the hard part. The competition is real, she can always trade up, you can't.

Hmmm

 

[Rotting since 09]

Not only that but In modern relationships you are expected to accept the 10 other guys that came before you still being on her FB friends and messaging her every other day and essentially being a part of your relationship, because you know, she's just a good person who ended on good terms with them all and there's nothing wrong with being "good mates" with ex-boyfriends and fuck buddies.

They don't even need to hide it anymore, they'll just tell you straight up "oh he's my ex i finished with last week it didn't work out but we're like brothers". You either accept this guy (and several others) hanging around or she'll just label you as insecure and controlling and drop you for any one of the desperate guys orbiting her who will accept it.

I hold gays responsible for a lot of this btw. It wasn't just the feminists (although many homosexuals identify as feminists themselves). Because the homosexuals were the ones who encouraged women to "be strong girl love yourself first if he can't accept you for you dump his ass babe!" and pushed the selfish idea that it's perfectly fine for exes and fuck friends under the disguise of "platonic male friends" to be regarded as more important than the guy she's with now because the "male friend" came first. Homosexuals also encouraged women to never settle and always search for something for better.

Gays had a huge hand in training women to implement the degeneracy of hookup culture and casual sex into their own lives and relationships. There's a reason why pretty much every western woman in 2018 not only supports but promotes gay rights, gay adoption, gay marriage, LGBT, etc. It's because that's the way women want to live. They thrive on drama and uncertainty. For a woman, a relationship has to involve her entire social circle and half the neighbourhood, while men are happy with privacy and keeping everything in-house.

If a woman has lots of gay male friends you better see it as a red flag because if you think these fags are just there in the background minding their own business you're not as redpilled as you think you are.

 

[Mainländer]

Same. If I did get a girlfriend I would focus on taking the most I could out of it because I KNOW for a fact shit ain't lasting.

Truecels' only real hope is foids losing their freedom to leave/cheat the husband. And that's not coming back anytime soon in the west

 

[Fontaine]

Same. If I did get a girlfriend I would focus on taking the most I could out of it because I KNOW for a fact shit ain't lasting.

And then you'd be "clingy", "possessive" or "obsessed", making the relationship end even sooner. You just can't win as an ugly male, can you. It's time to accept Nature hates us and doesn't want us to reproduce.

 

[whyAmIEvenAlive]

If you get a girlfriend you're basically a normie, so you can deal with normie problems. Falling in love, having sex, breaking up. That's life.

Most Incels want to avoid relationships in case they don't end well... why? I'd give anything to experience normie life. I don't want to be cheated on, I don't wanna experience heartbreak... but to have the chance to make a relationship work? Of course I'm not going to fuck it up before it even begins.

 

[Mainländer]

Not only that but In modern relationships you are expected to accept the 10 other guys that came before you still being on her FB friends and messaging her every other day and essentially being a part of your relationship, because you know, she's just a good person who ended on good terms with them all and there's nothing wrong with being "good mates" with ex-boyfriends and fuck buddies.

They don't even need to hide it anymore, they'll just tell you straight up "oh he's my ex i finished with last week it didn't work out but we're like brothers". You either accept this guy (and several others) hanging around or she'll just label you as insecure and controlling and drop you for any one of the desperate guys orbiting her who will accept it.

I hold gays responsible for a lot of this btw. It wasn't just the feminists (although many homosexuals identify as feminists themselves). Because the homosexuals were the ones who encouraged women to "be strong girl love yourself first if he can't accept you for you dump his ass babe!" and pushed the selfish idea that it's perfectly fine for exes and fuck friends under the disguise of "platonic male friends" to be regarded as more important than the guy she's with now because the "male friend" came first. Homosexuals also encouraged women to never settle and always search for something for better.

Gays had a huge hand in training women to implement the degeneracy of hookup culture and casual sex into their own lives and relationships. There's a reason why pretty much every western woman in 2018 not only supports but promotes gay rights, gay adoption, gay marriage, LGBT, etc. It's because that's the way women want to live. They thrive on drama and uncertainty. For a woman, a relationship has to involve her entire social circle and half the neighbourhood, while men are happy with privacy and keeping everything in-house.

If a woman has lots of gay male friends you better see it as a red flag because if you think these fags are just there in the background minding their own business you're not as redpilled as you think you are.

I agree with most of you said there with the caveat that for me, just she having exes and especially "ex-fuck buddies" in the first place is alfeady a huge deal breaker.

Nowadays I admit I wouldn't necessarily refuse a relationship with a non-virgin foid, but I would cheat on her (at least with escorts) because for me being with other people before me is just as bad as cheating.

And then you'd be "clingy", "possessive" or "obsessed", making the relationship end even sooner. You just can't win as an ugly male, can you. It's time to accept Nature hates us and doesn't want us to reproduce.

True. I'd have to """game""" her to disguise my clinging tendencies, but truth is, it'd go to shit one way or another.

 

[NormieKiller]

Je dirais 1 sur 10. Je suis seulement légèrement au-dessus du niveau "handicapé qui se bave dessus". Le jugement peut paraître excessif, car il est paradoxal (tout chez moi n'est pas laid, je suis en excellente santé, j'ai de l'argent, je suis encore jeune, je ne serai jamais chauve, etc) mais ces quelques qualités sont complètement obscurcies par des défauts béants (difformités, autisme, difficultés avec des choses faciles comme avoir le permis de conduire, etc).

Si j'étais une femme, je ne voudrais pas me reproduire avec quelqu'un comme moi.

Tu n'as peut-être pas été bien gaté sur le plan génétique mais parcontre personne peut avoir le culot de prétendre que tu manques d'intelligence car les connaissances que tu possèdes, le vaste champ d'intérêt (langues, histoire, psycologie,etc..) auquel tu t'intéresses est infiniment supérieur à celui d'un normie lambda.

Permet moi de te dire qu'avec les moyens financier que tu possèdes, il serait effectivement assez dommage que tu n'envisages pas de recourir à la chirurgie plastique. À l'âge que tu as (le même âge que le mien), t'es encore jeune et t'as encore pas mal de belles journées devant toi. Il s'agit effectivement pas d'une simple chose à faire et je suis également conscient qu'il y a bon nombre d'aspects causant un blocage mais parfois, la fin justifie les moyens et on se doit de se surpasser coûte que coûte, sinon c'est la merde.

Je me considères autour de 4, à mes beaux jours un 5,5 et Dieu sait que ce niveau n'amène strictement nul part. Je suis convaincu que les chirurgies dont j'ai éventuellement l'intention d'avoir me seront bénéfique et ma qualité de vie plafonnera inévitablement. Je ne suis pas non plus heureux dans ma situation actuel et il n'y a pas un jour où je ne me regarde sans cesse en me disant à quel point meilleur serait ma vie sans ce nez difforme ainsi que ces oreilles décollés qui me donnent une allure assez étrange..

 

[Deleted member 14536]

Not only that but In modern relationships you are expected to accept the 10 other guys that came before you still being on her FB friends and messaging her every other day and essentially being a part of your relationship, because you know, she's just a good person who ended on good terms with them all and there's nothing wrong with being "good mates" with ex-boyfriends and fuck buddies.

They don't even need to hide it anymore, they'll just tell you straight up "oh he's my ex i finished with last week it didn't work out but we're like brothers". You either accept this guy (and several others) hanging around or she'll just label you as insecure and controlling and drop you for any one of the desperate guys orbiting her who will accept it.

I hold gays responsible for a lot of this btw. It wasn't just the feminists (although many homosexuals identify as feminists themselves). Because the homosexuals were the ones who encouraged women to "be strong girl love yourself first if he can't accept you for you dump his ass babe!" and pushed the selfish idea that it's perfectly fine for exes and fuck friends under the disguise of "platonic male friends" to be regarded as more important than the guy she's with now because the "male friend" came first. Homosexuals also encouraged women to never settle and always search for something for better.

Gays had a huge hand in training women to implement the degeneracy of hookup culture and casual sex into their own lives and relationships. There's a reason why pretty much every western woman in 2018 not only supports but promotes gay rights, gay adoption, gay marriage, LGBT, etc. It's because that's the way women want to live. They thrive on drama and uncertainty. For a woman, a relationship has to involve her entire social circle and half the neighbourhood, while men are happy with privacy and keeping everything in-house.

If a woman has lots of gay male friends you better see it as a red flag because if you think these fags are just there in the background minding their own business you're not as redpilled as you think you are.

Exceptional post

 

[Fontaine]

Tu n'as peut-être pas été bien gaté sur le plan génétique mais parcontre personne peut avoir le culot de prétendre que tu manques d'intelligence car les connaissances que tu possèdes, le vaste champ d'intérêt (langues, histoire, psycologie,etc..) auquel tu t'intéresses est infiniment supérieur à celui d'un normie lambda.

Permet moi de te dire qu'avec les moyens financier que tu possèdes, il serait effectivement assez dommage que tu n'envisages pas de recourir à la chirurgie plastique. À l'âge que tu as (le même âge que le mien), t'es encore jeune et t'as encore pas mal de belles journées devant toi. Il s'agit effectivement pas d'une simple chose à faire et je suis également conscient qu'il y a bon nombre d'aspects causant un blocage mais parfois, la fin justifie les moyens et on se doit de se surpasser coûte que coûte, sinon c'est la merde.

Je me considères autour de 4, à mes beaux jours un 5,5 et Dieu sait que ce niveau n'amène strictement nul part. Je suis convaincu que les chirurgies dont j'ai éventuellement l'intention d'avoir me seront bénéfique et ma qualité de vie plafonnera inévitablement. Je ne suis pas non plus heureux dans ma situation actuel et il n'y a pas un jour où je ne me regarde sans cesse en me disant à quel point meilleur serait ma vie sans ce nez difforme ainsi que ces oreilles décollés qui me donnent une allure assez étrange..

Merci pour tes compliments mais en admettant que ce soit vrai, tu sais bien que "l'intelligence" a peu de valeur en ce monde, et très peu en matière de reproduction. En fait, au cours de l'histoire l'intelligence n'a été respectée que sous une forme religieuse (prêtre, évêque) ou altruiste (chercheur, inventeur, professeur). Autrement elle est souvent perçue comme un défaut: arrogance, ruse, perfidie, manipulation, calcul, capacité à se rebeller. Elle inspire méfiance. "Malin" voulait aussi dire Diable. J'écrirai un jour un thread sur le sujet.

 

[Lord Byron]

That's the definitive sign you're a truecel and not a larper. Feeling inferior to most other males means you are inferior (contra therapists, I believe our pecking order instinct rarely dysfunctions).

Humans are not meant to have free sexuality. Engagement and marriages were a serious affair back in time partly to solve the problem of male insecurity and jealousy.

I feel I am superior to the majority of men, and foids can’t see it because they are barely above chimpanzees in heat. Does this make me a larper in your mind?

 

[guaucel]

Because having a "relation" doesn't mean anything, whores are going to follow their pleasure

 

[Deleted member 14490]

Surgerymaxx bro. It is our only way to ascension.

 

[FiveFourManlet]

Stop complaining, use your riches to go to SEA.

 

[cyberlich]

The worst part is that this feeling is completely rational. You'd have to be a deluded cuck like the ones on IT to not feel it if you care about the relationship. And they will say moronic things like "you're just insecure, bro". When really we are just aware of the likelihoods and they suffer from severe normalcy bias. What they label insecurity is just pragmatism.

 

[lastchancel]

i'd just assume she'd leave, i wouldn't even be insecure, more like expecting it.

 

[Anger]

Honestly the only way I could ascend is with a mentality retarded girl, because otherwise femoids would dump me for Chad

 

[EyesAreSoCold]

It basically comes down to two things:

- The possibility that she leaves you one day for a better male (and I've seen that happen multiple times around me)

- The fact I feel completely mogged by most males

That's why I feel it is over for me, honestly.

Normies joke about "you and the guy she tells you not to worry about". I don't joke about this, I am terrified by this.

I'm also terrified that if I'm outside with her and some guy comes up, mogs me, and start hitting on my gf. What are you even supposed to do? It happened to one of my friends who got heightmogged to oblivion so he just stood there and got humiliated.

 

[Gone Coping]

The worst part is that this feeling is completely rational. You'd have to be a deluded cuck like the ones on IT to not feel it if you care about the relationship. And they will say moronic things like "you're just insecure, bro". When really we are just aware of the likelihoods and they suffer from severe normalcy bias. What they label insecurity is just pragmatism.

I've always been of the opinion a persons instinctual gut reactions are usually right in these situations. There's a reason you feel insecure when comparing yourself to chad, any other reaction would be deluded.

 

[DyingInside]

I feel the same way

 

[Deleted member 1042]

I would not feel insecure. I think a lot of these ideas and the life I've lived up until now have made me numb, maybe callous at the extreme. You can't mourn the loss when you've never had anything to begin with. Even if I get someone, I'll most likely maintain this mindset. I have read a litte on object relations theory and I think this is a symptom of an avoidant style. It is basically another coping mechanism.

 

[Yakult]

Thats why its not worth getting a girlfriend these days. But everyone tells you its natural and good for you when you know that all that foid will do is bring you pain down the line and drain your wallet.