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Discussion Why don't we identify as Ugly instead of Incel?

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Just a random thought I had, wanted to see what you guys thought.

Incels get a ton of hate. The word is primarily used as a slur by normies. It's also a fairly new term in the grand scheme of things. Ugliness on the other hand sometimes comes with compassion. Most normies know ugly people, some are their friends or siblings. If you told a normie you are incel (as if this ever happens irl lol), they'd hate you or laugh at you, but if you said you are ugly, they might feel bad for you.

I can already see some problems with building a community based on ugliness rather than virginity/inceldom. There would be a loss of purity, with LTNs whining about being ugly while they still get success with women. We would also lose a sense of cultural decline, as rising inceldom hasn't really been a matter of men becoming more ugly in the last decade but more to do with women focusing on the top men. Are there any other problems you would expect?

The upside I see is that we'd be focusing on our primary condition, whereas inceldom is downstream of our ugliness. What do you think?
 
We will get far more slander from normies and foids if we identify ourselves as ugly. Its like naming our group as "micropenises" or "faggots".
 
It's usually more nuanced than just being ugly. I'd argue my autism is the main impetus to my inceldom
 
I’ve always thought they were one and the same

only the ugly can be incel
 
When we identify as incels in specific, we're specifically identifying with the black-pill. That is the difference between our community and communities like r/foreveralone on Plebbit for instance. Our ideology is a fundamental rejection of the blue-pill and anything that comes with it.
 
I don't need sympathy or Pity from cunts, I'd rather be hated and feared than looked down upon for being a faggot that needs sympathy from normies, fuck that.
 
there's no difference.
 
Ugliness on the other hand sometimes comes with compassion.
lol, no it doesn't. Not for ugly men. The whole "body positivity" thing is exclusively for women, I think we all know that. Hell, I think even most normies know this much.

It's open season on ugly men. You can mock ugly men as much as you want, and be openly hateful towards them and get next to zero pushback from society, incels would be the only ones to complain, and even then it would be only the incels who are blackpilled or blackpill adjacent.
 
I don't need sympathy or Pity from cunts, I'd rather be hated and feared than looked down upon for being a faggot that needs sympathy from normies, fuck that.
Ugly pride world wide!
 
Just a random thought I had, wanted to see what you guys thought.

Incels get a ton of hate. The word is primarily used as a slur by normies. It's also a fairly new term in the grand scheme of things. Ugliness on the other hand sometimes comes with compassion. Most normies know ugly people, some are their friends or siblings. If you told a normie you are incel (as if this ever happens irl lol), they'd hate you or laugh at you, but if you said you are ugly, they might feel bad for you.

I can already see some problems with building a community based on ugliness rather than virginity/inceldom. There would be a loss of purity, with LTNs whining about being ugly while they still get success with women. We would also lose a sense of cultural decline, as rising inceldom hasn't really been a matter of men becoming more ugly in the last decade but more to do with women focusing on the top men. Are there any other problems you would expect?

The upside I see is that we'd be focusing on our primary condition, whereas inceldom is downstream of our ugliness. What do you think?
That would in return make being conventionally ugly being related to inceldom inherently which would lead to a lot of cognitive bias.
If individuals don’t accept the reality and truths of the blackpill then they wouldn’t just call incel ugly instead.
Additionally because objectively speaking beauty is objective within subjective parameters however the normie mindset is that beauty is totally subjective. If they were to not possess the latter mindset then themselves would adhere to the “incel” mindset which they appear to despise.
Nice thought man, thought all i see is downsides and cognitive bias within the population, also majority of this would just inflate the dating market and beauty standards even more on a large scale
 

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